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Do any of you wish you had a gf or wife just to feel normal?

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Do any of you wish you had a gf or wife just to feel normal?

Postby majesto » Sun Jul 07, 2013 1:52 pm

A lot of the time I wish I had a woman in my life just so I could feel normal. Does being single all the time sometimes make you feel like an outsider, especially when you see other happy couples with their children. This society is disjointed and dysfunctional, no doubt. A society where courtship, reproduction and parenthood, the most fundamental aspects of adult life, seem to be so elusive now. I know in my head that cohabitating with a woman and getting married in this day and age is not sensible. All a woman will do is try to emasculate me and crush my dreams.
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Postby Adama » Sun Jul 07, 2013 2:39 pm

majesto wrote:A lot of the time I wish I had a woman in my life just so I could feel normal. Does being single all the time sometimes make you feel like an outsider, especially when you see other happy couples with their children. This society is disjointed and dysfunctional, no doubt. A society where courtship, reproduction and parenthood, the most fundamental aspects of adult life, seem to be so elusive now. I know in my head that cohabitating with a woman and getting married in this day and age is not sensible. All a woman will do is try to emasculate me and crush my dreams.


I feel that way sometimes too. But in reality, it isnt feasible. American women arent raised to be wives. They are raised to be feminists who hate men, and careerists. That type of woman isnt fit to be any man's wife, which is why the divorce rate is as high as it is in this developed, first-world nation.

I was just contacted by a friend on Facebook. One who I havent seen in years (OK he is more of an acquaintance). When I knew him, he was married to a woman from an Anglophone country. They have three boys together. He would never elaborate but back around 2009, he would tell me how she would spend all his money and she was withholding sex. So I get a message a couple of days ago from him saying how he recently got divorced and he has to move out of his house.

He was working 3 different jobs to support his wife and family. He had an office job, he had a side hospital job, and he was also a referee for high school soccer games. His wife only had one job.

Guess who gets the house, kids, child support, etc?

Sometimes they even make the man move out and still pay half the mortgage, while he has to pay for his own new place.

Sounds fair to me. How about you?
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Postby Teal Lantern » Sun Jul 07, 2013 4:39 pm

majesto wrote:A lot of the time I wish I had a woman in my life just so I could feel normal. Does being single all the time sometimes make you feel like an outsider, especially when you see other happy couples with their children. This society is disjointed and dysfunctional, no doubt. A society where courtship, reproduction and parenthood, the most fundamental aspects of adult life, seem to be so elusive now. I know in my head that cohabitating with a woman and getting married in this day and age is not sensible. All a woman will do is try to emasculate me and crush my dreams.


Where do you see these happy couples that have been together long enough to have kids?
I usually see bitchy or bored women, with bratty a/o screaming children, and mangina men with "hostage" eyes.

Watching the average man in a relationshit provides regular motivation (or DEmotivation :razz: ) to stay out of the trap -- that and reading about the crap females pull.
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Postby S_Parc » Sun Jul 07, 2013 5:33 pm

Do what I do and that's befriend a butch-dyke lesbian and then, you'll appear normal to the world around you.
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Postby jfk » Sun Jul 07, 2013 5:53 pm

majesto wrote:A lot of the time I wish I had a woman in my life just so I could feel normal. Does being single all the time sometimes make you feel like an outsider, especially when you see other happy couples with their children. This society is disjointed and dysfunctional, no doubt. A society where courtship, reproduction and parenthood, the most fundamental aspects of adult life, seem to be so elusive now. I know in my head that cohabitating with a woman and getting married in this day and age is not sensible. All a woman will do is try to emasculate me and crush my dreams.


When i see my friends with their wifes,, working crazy hours to keep with the johnsons, their wives getting older and fat.. i am just relieve that i am not in the matrix.. my father told me dont get marry,, you have to buy groceries and pay bills for f***ing 30 years.. dont feel bad,, its the system that slaves men the whole life.. until they die.. and trust me,, you dont want even to touch your wife after 5
years..
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Postby AnonymousAmerican » Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:21 pm

majesto wrote:A lot of the time I wish I had a woman in my life just so I could feel normal. Does being single all the time sometimes make you feel like an outsider, especially when you see other happy couples with their children. This society is disjointed and dysfunctional, no doubt. A society where courtship, reproduction and parenthood, the most fundamental aspects of adult life, seem to be so elusive now. I know in my head that cohabitating with a woman and getting married in this day and age is not sensible. All a woman will do is try to emasculate me and crush my dreams.


Yes, I do. but not with an american/anglo woman. I want to be with a mediterranean girl or a continental european girl. those girls are actually more gf/wife material. anglo woman are all whores who aren't even good for quick sex. :lol:
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"If you aren't careful here with the women, you will be married in a week."

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