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#1 Reason for Expatriation -- IS WHAT??!!!

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Postby djfourmoney » Wed Jul 17, 2013 3:42 am

aozora13 wrote:I am currently in that category with the other 95 percent expats. I think overall, I see that if you want to actually want to work in IT, you can work only in North America/Europe (Western) to earn a salary and good living but dealing with the expensive country issues.

I am thinking though you could get overseas contractor work (govt contractor) as well if you have certain qualifications in order to live abroad and be able to avoid high taxes and still see the world. I would not suggest it as a lifetime goal but as something as a way to save money.

However, DJ4M is correct. It seems for me at least I can only do a local business in 2nd/3rd Tier countries and possibly work in IT only in Europe and the European option if married.


1) To do import/export requires some capital and some faith in your abilities. It also requires you to be personable/friendly. That is not the job for sad sacks and people who have difficulty getting along with others.

2) The high demand jobs in computers is HTML/Java and Programing usually with servers and databases. Germany is overrun with these people and one of the few high skill careers with plenty of local talent. The places where they need people are welders, plumbers, bakers and engineering. I know right now Continental are looking for engineering students to intern with them.

Knowing the local language will go far here.

3) Teaching English is overlooked and looked down on at the same time, strange... In some countries its in high demand, like Brazil but expats don't consider it a prime expat country. The cost of living has gone up with the exchange rate. But that doesn't mean you can't live there for less than you do typically in America.

China has a large need for English teachers as well, but its overrun with expats...

4) Local business is possible especially in 3rd world countries who have poor competition. The only way you'll know is being on the ground.

Being married to a local helps a ton here, but like teaching English is looked down upon, why? Do you really believe in soul mates??? I think its nonsense so picking a country at random is just as effective as a chance meeting.

Still not quite clear you struggled to find somebody. I don't think you aimed to high, maybe you thought knowing German was an advantage. I suppose it is, in the right environment. There was also some ambiguity around the work you did, did you express this temporary position to the women you met?

My boy Kerwin confirmed as an expat living in Germany that the finest women are not regularly seen with Black men in Germany. I think you would have done better in a large city like Berlin especially if you didn't focus on native German women exclusively. Plenty of Russian women would be interested in a Black man.
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Postby innovatorsclub » Wed Jul 17, 2013 4:58 am

It is to get layed... VERY few guys on the west coast of America are getting laid or even dating. Othwers go on a very dry spell then settle and overvalue the first person that comes their way.

I am a 7 and guess what? I slept with 12 NEW girls in May in Thailand..none of them prostitutes after sleeping with 8 in October. I just got cock blocked in san francisco hitting on a taiwan girl here on a 2 week vacation from her Americanized friend that already lives here. On my way home i ask a tall good looking guy how he feels the women situation is here...

HE SAID IT SUCKS and he is a 9

i then say well i slept with 12 in thailand and he ( in denial) said well it's because you are white ( like him)

so what ..i had the best year in a decade..
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Postby aozora13 » Wed Jul 17, 2013 5:13 am

djfourmoney wrote:
aozora13 wrote:I am currently in that category with the other 95 percent expats. I think overall, I see that if you want to actually want to work in IT, you can work only in North America/Europe (Western) to earn a salary and good living but dealing with the expensive country issues.

I am thinking though you could get overseas contractor work (govt contractor) as well if you have certain qualifications in order to live abroad and be able to avoid high taxes and still see the world. I would not suggest it as a lifetime goal but as something as a way to save money.

However, DJ4M is correct. It seems for me at least I can only do a local business in 2nd/3rd Tier countries and possibly work in IT only in Europe and the European option if married.


1) To do import/export requires some capital and some faith in your abilities. It also requires you to be personable/friendly. That is not the job for sad sacks and people who have difficulty getting along with others.

2) The high demand jobs in computers is HTML/Java and Programing usually with servers and databases. Germany is overrun with these people and one of the few high skill careers with plenty of local talent. The places where they need people are welders, plumbers, bakers and engineering. I know right now Continental are looking for engineering students to intern with them.

Knowing the local language will go far here.

3) Teaching English is overlooked and looked down on at the same time, strange... In some countries its in high demand, like Brazil but expats don't consider it a prime expat country. The cost of living has gone up with the exchange rate. But that doesn't mean you can't live there for less than you do typically in America.

China has a large need for English teachers as well, but its overrun with expats...

4) Local business is possible especially in 3rd world countries who have poor competition. The only way you'll know is being on the ground.

Being married to a local helps a ton here, but like teaching English is looked down upon, why? Do you really believe in soul mates??? I think its nonsense so picking a country at random is just as effective as a chance meeting.

Still not quite clear you struggled to find somebody. I don't think you aimed to high, maybe you thought knowing German was an advantage. I suppose it is, in the right environment. There was also some ambiguity around the work you did, did you express this temporary position to the women you met?

My boy Kerwin confirmed as an expat living in Germany that the finest women are not regularly seen with Black men in Germany. I think you would have done better in a large city like Berlin especially if you didn't focus on native German women exclusively. Plenty of Russian women would be interested in a Black man.


I was just saying that it is difficult to find work in another country. No, I actually did date while I was in Europe. I was doing mainly web development for a small company in Vienna. However, they wanted more of a help desk position and with various project issues we had and the fact that some companies have an old way of thinking for ideas to better improve customer service (big issue in Europe), I could not stay in the company. Yes, I know that foreign women were better than women in Vienna. I saw how it was easy to be friends and actually do somethings with them without issues. Berlin, has in the last 5+ years been a place of high unemployment (arbeitlos).

Also from telling you earlier, I did not go into Germany on my trip. I guess I thought a 6+ hour train ride to Munich was a lot to do, even when I knew decent German. Plus getting a place to stay is not easy there.

I was not talking about finding a soul mate. I think that is not realistic. I was saying that if you find a job in your country and then marry, finding work will be much easier; especially in Europe in Germany and Austria. I had many job opportunities but they would hire a EU national, citizen of the country or a person who had a PR or unconnected working visa. I did not have any of those visas.

I did actually mention this to the women I met. Most thought that it would be difficult to be with them since I was not going to be in the country that long.

I am thinking possibly doing what Ladislav does is to work in one country and date in another to actually have a real expat type of life.
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Postby publicduende » Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:24 pm

aozora13 wrote:I am currently in that category with the other 95 percent expats. I think overall, I see that if you want to actually want to work in IT, you can work only in North America/Europe (Western) to earn a salary and good living but dealing with the expensive country issues.

I am thinking though you could get overseas contractor work (govt contractor) as well if you have certain qualifications in order to live abroad and be able to avoid high taxes and still see the world. I would not suggest it as a lifetime goal but as something as a way to save money.

However, DJ4M is correct. It seems for me at least I can only do a local business in 2nd/3rd Tier countries and possibly work in IT only in Europe and the European option if married.


What kind of jobs do you mean by "government contractor"? If you're an oil engineer you could work in Malaysia or Indonesia, if you're expert in banana o pineapple trading you could work in Davao City or Zamboanga. You mean a contractor for the US military, which as we know are ubiquitous in Asia?

IT is a tricky one, because there are only a handful of places in Asia where you could fetch a good (expat-level) salary. Unless your company really needs your expertise or management over there and is prepared to pay you a higher salary and all relocation expenses, you might find yourself competing with the local rates. Which is not something advisable, as developers for simple websites or enterprise applications are now a dime a dozen. Just have a look on eLance and brace yourself for a surprise. :)

IMHO the best place in Asia to work as a Western, English-speaking IT guy used to be Singapore. I guess it still is, although the crisis has dropped salaries a lot and job opportunities for non-residents even more.
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Postby Ghost » Wed Jul 17, 2013 3:46 pm

Primary reason for me is women. If it wasn't for that, I would just as well have stayed in the States. I haven't gotten any women yet, but then again I am in China where I can't speak to 99.9% of the women. And I came here for this ESL job too of course. I could accomplish a lot in the U.S., but most of that would focus on finding a way to expat just like before.
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Postby C.J. » Wed Jul 17, 2013 5:51 pm

I thinking that a lot of the girls you guys sleep with are hoes. STUPID, NON-PRO hoes, but hoes nonetheless. Who else would go with a guy and screw him on the first date without getting to really know him? Then again, expats are gravitating to the westerner-worshipping countries in places like Thailand for that reason, where sex is near effortless as the races there worship westerners unnecessarily. Heh, I wonder how successful sexpats would be in Kazakhstan, where religion for them is more than just a trip to church every sunday? :D

I'm going abroad for a girlfriend though. If I don't find her, then I'll shag a HO or two and then leave. Sex isn't that important to me, but I can say that at the very least, I tried go the high road. :D

Aside from the lack of excess sex westerners crave for some odd reason, the US is a pretty good country to live in. If you're only doing sex just to see what it's like, then you can save yourself a lot of money and trouble, as getting laid in the US is as easy as falling off a bike. But most westerners just can't get enough of their sex addictions. *shrugs*
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Postby innovatorsclub » Wed Jul 17, 2013 10:24 pm

C.J. wrote:I thinking that a lot of the girls you guys sleep with are hoes. STUPID, NON-PRO hoes, but hoes nonetheless. Who else would go with a guy and screw him on the first date without getting to really know him? Then again, expats are gravitating to the westerner-worshipping countries in places like Thailand for that reason, where sex is near effortless as the races there worship westerners unnecessarily. Heh, I wonder how successful sexpats would be in Kazakhstan, where religion for them is more than just a trip to church every sunday? :D

I'm going abroad for a girlfriend though. If I don't find her, then I'll shag a HO or two and then leave. Sex isn't that important to me, but I can say that at the very least, I tried go the high road. :D

Aside from the lack of excess sex westerners crave for some odd reason, the US is a pretty good country to live in. If you're only doing sex just to see what it's like, then you can save yourself a lot of money and trouble, as getting laid in the US is as easy as falling off a bike. But most westerners just can't get enough of their sex addictions. *shrugs*



what a worthless post...very little outside the box substance ..."easy as falling off a bike" you are in denial and dumbed down
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Thu Jul 18, 2013 6:53 pm

innovatorsclub wrote:It is to get layed... VERY few guys on the west coast of America are getting laid or even dating. Othwers go on a very dry spell then settle and overvalue the first person that comes their way.

I am a 7 and guess what? I slept with 12 NEW girls in May in Thailand..none of them hoes after sleeping with 8 in October. I just got cock blocked in san francisco hitting on a taiwan girl here on a 2 week vacation from her Americanized friend that already lives here. On my way home i ask a tall good looking guy how he feels the women situation is here...

HE SAID IT SUCKS and he is a 9

i then say well i slept with 12 in thailand and he ( in denial) said well it's because you are white ( like him)

so what ..i had the best year in a decade..


Very few guys on the west coast of America are getting laid or even dating.


This single sentence is probably the biggest crock of horseshit I've ever read. How do you know how many men are getting laid on the west coast? Because you've talked to a hundred of them?

I agree with CJ - there are sluts everywhere, even in Thailand and if you're banging some chick in a few hours, chances are she's a pro ho or a non-pro ho but she's definitely a ho. A cheerleader screws the entire football team. You bang her a week later. The chick screwed the football team - do you think she really cares who's cock is in her? After banging her would you feel special?

HE SAID IT SUCKS and he is a 9


How Beta is this statement? Seriously.

so what ..i had the best year in a decade..


I think it's great you had the best year in a decade...but you act like sleeping with a dozen women in a month is akin to the rebirth of Christ. It's not.
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Postby C.J. » Thu Jul 18, 2013 8:06 pm

innovatorsclub wrote:what a worthless post...very little outside the box substance ..."easy as falling off a bike" you are in denial and dumbed down

And is that all? You can't think of anything else to post? Talk about lack of substance....
It's funny, how westerners can't even think outside the box... all they can do is ATTEMPT to attack other people. I'm clearly attracting more westerners than ever, because of their jealousy of my lack of corruption. It happens on the net and IRL. It is quite amazing! :D

If you wanna know how easy it is to get laid in the US, I can happily show you in person. :) P4P and knowing a couple contacts can get you sex with clean women for near free if you wanted. Some of these women are quite rich, if you banged them good enough they might just buy you dinner!
If you want sex with a good woman who barely knows you for free, I can't help you with that. You have to at least know a girl for a while if you want that.

Let me tell y'all niggas a story.
I paid for a hotel when I met a hispanic chick. The goodies were free but she wanted me to pay for the room, and I gave her 12 orgasms over the span of a 6 hour night. How do I know that? Her nipples were extra sensitive and poked out like daggers. I gave her a massage, she was laying on her stomach, I was sitting up. She had good hygiene, but after 3 minutes of massage you could smell her honey hole like a baked cake from 2 feet away! She bucked like a horse and was quite a screamer. Not to brag too much, but I know a cool technique that's way better than the Welcomed method. Someone complained to the front desk(the morning after) about me after I did it, because she screamed very loud and moved like crazy! Very good girl. After that, she bought me whatever I wanted from White Castle. She was like "It's kind of weird, having dinner after sex." :lol:

Moral of story, meeting her was as simple as an email, a text and a phone call. I kid you not, 3 steps. You just gotta know where to look. She lived in MI though. MI! I consider MI pretty difficult, because it's cold and it's full of couples, and the COL is pretty high which encourages coupling. However, the single women can be pretty clean too. In western society, words spreads fast if a women is dirty and she gets quite the rep. That was a couple years back, when I was interested in bedding girls though. I consider such a desire a disease.

But I also do my research and talk to a lot of sexpats, with at least one of them being a pornographer. It's disgusting how many of them bed so many women, many of them being a mix of bargirls and non. Even if it was for money(one guy told me he got many freebies with a day's worth of knowing a couple girls), how the f**k would they let just about any guy f**k them nasty like that? And many of these guys being 5s at best? And of course, many members' experiences here and the women I've tried courting online have confirmed that what I've been told isn't complete BS. It can, and has happened. One guy directed me to a website which inspired him to man-whore abroad and it had this tagline:
"You think you know your girl? She's probably on our website!"

I don't know what you guys call those women, but in the hood we call them HOES. Dirty hoes at that. :D
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Jul 19, 2013 2:15 am

aozora13 wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:
aozora13 wrote:I am currently in that category with the other 95 percent expats. I think overall, I see that if you want to actually want to work in IT, you can work only in North America/Europe (Western) to earn a salary and good living but dealing with the expensive country issues.

I am thinking though you could get overseas contractor work (govt contractor) as well if you have certain qualifications in order to live abroad and be able to avoid high taxes and still see the world. I would not suggest it as a lifetime goal but as something as a way to save money.

However, DJ4M is correct. It seems for me at least I can only do a local business in 2nd/3rd Tier countries and possibly work in IT only in Europe and the European option if married.


1) To do import/export requires some capital and some faith in your abilities. It also requires you to be personable/friendly. That is not the job for sad sacks and people who have difficulty getting along with others.

2) The high demand jobs in computers is HTML/Java and Programing usually with servers and databases. Germany is overrun with these people and one of the few high skill careers with plenty of local talent. The places where they need people are welders, plumbers, bakers and engineering. I know right now Continental are looking for engineering students to intern with them.

Knowing the local language will go far here.

3) Teaching English is overlooked and looked down on at the same time, strange... In some countries its in high demand, like Brazil but expats don't consider it a prime expat country. The cost of living has gone up with the exchange rate. But that doesn't mean you can't live there for less than you do typically in America.

China has a large need for English teachers as well, but its overrun with expats...

4) Local business is possible especially in 3rd world countries who have poor competition. The only way you'll know is being on the ground.

Being married to a local helps a ton here, but like teaching English is looked down upon, why? Do you really believe in soul mates??? I think its nonsense so picking a country at random is just as effective as a chance meeting.

Still not quite clear you struggled to find somebody. I don't think you aimed to high, maybe you thought knowing German was an advantage. I suppose it is, in the right environment. There was also some ambiguity around the work you did, did you express this temporary position to the women you met?

My boy Kerwin confirmed as an expat living in Germany that the finest women are not regularly seen with Black men in Germany. I think you would have done better in a large city like Berlin especially if you didn't focus on native German women exclusively. Plenty of Russian women would be interested in a Black man.


I was just saying that it is difficult to find work in another country. No, I actually did date while I was in Europe. I was doing mainly web development for a small company in Vienna. However, they wanted more of a help desk position and with various project issues we had and the fact that some companies have an old way of thinking for ideas to better improve customer service (big issue in Europe), I could not stay in the company. Yes, I know that foreign women were better than women in Vienna. I saw how it was easy to be friends and actually do somethings with them without issues. Berlin, has in the last 5+ years been a place of high unemployment (arbeitlos).

Also from telling you earlier, I did not go into Germany on my trip. I guess I thought a 6+ hour train ride to Munich was a lot to do, even when I knew decent German. Plus getting a place to stay is not easy there.

I was not talking about finding a soul mate. I think that is not realistic. I was saying that if you find a job in your country and then marry, finding work will be much easier; especially in Europe in Germany and Austria. I had many job opportunities but they would hire a EU national, citizen of the country or a person who had a PR or unconnected working visa. I did not have any of those visas.

I did actually mention this to the women I met. Most thought that it would be difficult to be with them since I was not going to be in the country that long.

I am thinking possibly doing what Ladislav does is to work in one country and date in another to actually have a real expat type of life.


But wait, you just said that they would only hire EU citizens but you felt it was better to find the job first and then get married? That seems backwards to me. If you married a local, which isn't that difficult to be honest, as you know German, should be fairly easy as you can talk to the few women not confident in their ability to speak English.

You get married, become a German resident, get a EU passport = EU Citizenship, not German. Germany doesn't allow Dual Citizenship....

Citizenship is really overrated, you are subjected to that country's laws and tax polices.... You are as a permanent resident subject to the same things but you have ability of movement. Just because you stop living in Germany doesn't mean you have to give up your EU passport.... You are subject to whatever laws in whatever country your in, its not attached to citizenship.

This is called "Five Flags" large companies do this to avoid so-called "oppressive" tax polices and laws.

You just gave yourself a job idea without even knowing it...

You said Customer Service is lacking in Europe (which is it, American style Customer Service anyway) and that the company you interned for had old practices that were hard to break.

So what you do is open the same kind of business with German efficiency and American Customer Service.... You already speak English and German, if you wife is a German citizen or native German, you can easily get permits and loans to start your business.

Success is right in front of you. You just had to change some minor things. You should have taken the 6 hour train trip to Germany, it would have been worth it.

I didn't mention Berlin for its unemployment and employment issues, I mentioned it for the high amount of not only native Germans, but expats and immigrants.

In other words plenty of WOMEN to chase.

Stop looking for employment and create something yourself. If you want to get married, why not a German lady and its already in the natural course of things anyway.

I just gave you a job idea, you didn't see anything else that was done poorly????

It always puzzles me for men looking for the advantages of citizenship without doing what citizens do. They are born in those countries. Brazil for example give Citizenship to the parents of a child born in Brazil.... The other way is to marry a local, why are people so thick about that? Is there something horrid that I don't know about?

Mark went to Ukraine with the idea of marrying a Ukraine woman, he did it. Lots of men have went to other countries looking for brides (IE women to marry). Some have decided to stay in her country, how in the hell is that any different than going for the relationship first and then work on employment, you'll have many more options than just being an American somewhere.
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Jul 19, 2013 2:31 am

C.J. wrote:I thinking that a lot of the girls you guys sleep with are hoes. STUPID, NON-PRO hoes, but hoes nonetheless. Who else would go with a guy and screw him on the first date without getting to really know him? Then again, expats are gravitating to the westerner-worshipping countries in places like Thailand for that reason, where sex is near effortless as the races there worship westerners unnecessarily. Heh, I wonder how successful sexpats would be in Kazakhstan, where religion for them is more than just a trip to church every sunday? :D

I'm going abroad for a girlfriend though. If I don't find her, then I'll shag a HO or two and then leave. Sex isn't that important to me, but I can say that at the very least, I tried go the high road. :D

Aside from the lack of excess sex westerners crave for some odd reason, the US is a pretty good country to live in. If you're only doing sex just to see what it's like, then you can save yourself a lot of money and trouble, as getting laid in the US is as easy as falling off a bike. But most westerners just can't get enough of their sex addictions. *shrugs*


The US is unnecessarily expensive and I can show you millions of examples.

We also don't learn lessons very well. Some analyst just said on California's housing recovery that "As long as interest rates stay low, its a good time to buy homes."

Who is buying these homes?

1)Foreigners looking to park their money someplace (same thing happening in London) since banks are punishing savers with record low interest rates.

2) Hedge Funds and Equity Funds. Who else can show up to a Bank auction with CASH????

The people that really need homes are being squeezed out of the market and forget those who depend on limits imposed by banks because of income limitations, IE they can only bid to a certain point, while a rep from a Hedge Fund can keep pushing the price higher and higher until nobody else stands in the way and the property is still way under market value as its a Bank Repo.

Well I got bad news for those "Investors" and some for the rest of you.

The houses are being flipped, not to sell but to RENT out again, parking money. That means HIGHER rental prices for you. That might push you out of Southern California if you can find a place to live.

For investors, interest rates will go up - http://www.paulcraigroberts.org/2013/06 ... g-roberts/

There was no cost control mechanism built into "Obamacare" and that will be revisited somewhere in the near future. Republicans will try and kill it of course and that is another setup for gridlock in Washington, when the Congress has largely done nothing of note of for the last two years, except take away your civil liberties and spy on you.

There's all sorts of way "Having Nothing To Hide" can backfire on you, just keep that in mind.

Finally we are in a race to the bottom wage wise. At least those without the skills to take over activities, educate and enrich Rich people and their children or teach them a skills they didn't learn as a child (Specialization).

Man I could go on but if you wanna stay here, I won't stop you...
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Jul 19, 2013 2:44 am

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innovatorsclub wrote:what a worthless post...very little outside the box substance ..."easy as falling off a bike" you are in denial and dumbed down

And is that all? You can't think of anything else to post? Talk about lack of substance....
It's funny, how westerners can't even think outside the box... all they can do is ATTEMPT to attack other people. I'm clearly attracting more westerners than ever, because of their jealousy of my lack of corruption. It happens on the net and IRL. It is quite amazing! :D

If you wanna know how easy it is to get laid in the US, I can happily show you in person. :) P4P and knowing a couple contacts can get you sex with clean women for near free if you wanted. Some of these women are quite rich, if you banged them good enough they might just buy you dinner!
If you want sex with a good woman who barely knows you for free, I can't help you with that. You have to at least know a girl for a while if you want that.

Let me tell y'all niggas a story.
I paid for a hotel when I met a hispanic chick. The goodies were free but she wanted me to pay for the room, and I gave her 12 or****s over the span of a 6 hour night. How do I know that? Her nipples were extra sensitive and poked out like daggers. I gave her a massage, she was laying on her stomach, I was sitting up. She had good hygiene, but after 3 minutes of massage you could smell her honey hole like a baked cake from 2 feet away! She bucked like a horse and was quite a screamer. Not to brag too much, but I know a cool technique that's way better than the Welcomed method. Someone complained to the front desk(the morning after) about me after I did it, because she screamed very loud and moved like crazy! Very good girl. After that, she bought me whatever I wanted from White Castle. She was like "It's kind of weird, having dinner after sex." :lol:

Moral of story, meeting her was as simple as an email, a text and a phone call. I kid you not, 3 steps. You just gotta know where to look. She lived in MI though. MI! I consider MI pretty difficult, because it's cold and it's full of couples, and the COL is pretty high which encourages coupling. However, the single women can be pretty clean too. In western society, words spreads fast if a women is dirty and she gets quite the rep. That was a couple years back, when I was interested in bedding girls though. I consider such a desire a disease.

But I also do my research and talk to a lot of sexpats, with at least one of them being a pornographer. It's disgusting how many of them bed so many women, many of them being a mix of bargirls and non. Even if it was for money(one guy told me he got many freebies with a day's worth of knowing a couple girls), how the f**k would they let just about any guy f**k them nasty like that? And many of these guys being 5s at best? And of course, many members' experiences here and the women I've tried courting online have confirmed that what I've been told isn't complete BS. It can, and has happened. One guy directed me to a website which inspired him to man-whore abroad and it had this tagline:
"You think you know your girl? She's probably on our website!"

I don't know what you guys call those women, but in the hood we call them HOES. Dirty hoes at that. :D


I like that story, I've heard similar ones and I have experienced something similar.

Pornographers get laid at an almost unbelievable rate. Despite all the websites and the fact that big companies like Vivid are losing market share to the largely free internet sites like You Porn, there is still money to be made for original content. What is being shown on those sites is original content, downloaded from membership sites and uploaded again to free sites.

Porn companies bitching about this is no different than the record companies and movie companies and there complaints around so-called "file sharing". They just want to make a penny on every transaction that's all. When they were gate keepers on content that was possible, but now even production of porn is barely out of the reach of the average guy.

I have an idea for a web site but I won't repeat it here.

Geezus just taking still pictures of naked girls can get you laid... Its crazy.

Just be a normal guy, that culture is devoid of "normal" acting men trust me.

I only paid for sex to control WHO I was having sex with. I have yet to bang a girl hotter than that Hungarian chick in Germany. If I find anything close to that and she wants to marry me its ova.
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Postby C.J. » Fri Jul 19, 2013 2:44 am

djfourmoney,

I have no intention of becoming a man-whore. Yet. :D

You're right about the impending trouble coming to the US. However, that mostly comes from a person's dependence on the Feds' financial system. You can break free, find sex and live a decent life on minimal income. In fact, the chances of doing that and having better success are skyrocketing. But, you may have to have an open mind and rethink your priorities. You may have to make some sacrifices in the short-term.

If you wanna try and acheive some kind of dream of being rich and having tons of crap you don't need, the US is no longer "the place to be" for that, unless you like duping suckers.

I can stay in the US for now and prosper. However if the SHTF within 40 ears and only 30% of the population is higher than poverty, I'll STILL be able to make money and have everything I need here, albeit I'll have to rely on less idiots to give me free stuff. I'll have reason to worry, if for example that 30%+the Feds leaves the US, or a natural disaster comes around, that is big enough to raze the entire country. But for now at the rate everything is collapsing, I'll have plenty of time to prepare to leave if I absolutely need to. But my objectives are radically different from most HA members - I have no immediate desire to find sex and have no long-term materialistic goals. So I can take my time, build my power and create streams of income. :)
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Jul 19, 2013 2:54 am

anamericaninbangkok wrote:
innovatorsclub wrote:It is to get layed... VERY few guys on the west coast of America are getting laid or even dating. Othwers go on a very dry spell then settle and overvalue the first person that comes their way.

I am a 7 and guess what? I slept with 12 NEW girls in May in Thailand..none of them hoes after sleeping with 8 in October. I just got cock blocked in san francisco hitting on a taiwan girl here on a 2 week vacation from her Americanized friend that already lives here. On my way home i ask a tall good looking guy how he feels the women situation is here...

HE SAID IT SUCKS and he is a 9

i then say well i slept with 12 in thailand and he ( in denial) said well it's because you are white ( like him)

so what ..i had the best year in a decade..


Very few guys on the west coast of America are getting laid or even dating.


This single sentence is probably the biggest crock of horseshit I've ever read. How do you know how many men are getting laid on the west coast? Because you've talked to a hundred of them?

I agree with CJ - there are sluts everywhere, even in Thailand and if you're banging some chick in a few hours, chances are she's a pro ho or a non-pro ho but she's definitely a ho. A cheerleader screws the entire football team. You bang her a week later. The chick screwed the football team - do you think she really cares who's cock is in her? After banging her would you feel special?

HE SAID IT SUCKS and he is a 9


How Beta is this statement? Seriously.

so what ..i had the best year in a decade..


I think it's great you had the best year in a decade...but you act like sleeping with a dozen women in a month is akin to the rebirth of Christ. It's not.


Your right. As I have said before, I had more sex on my trip to Germany than I had in the previous decade except when I was with my ex, we banged almost every other day because of work and the long commute. But as a single guy that was the most sex I had in a decade or more. I was satisfied more or less when I got on the plane to return home.

That included freebies and paid services, through affordable.

In the States I got more tail when I was DJ'ing regularly and plenty of one-night stands.
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Postby djfourmoney » Fri Jul 19, 2013 3:02 am

C.J. wrote:djfourmoney,

I have no intention of becoming a man-whore. Yet. :D

You're right about the impending trouble coming to the US. However, that mostly comes from a person's dependence on the Feds' financial system. You can break free, find sex and live a decent life on minimal income. In fact, the chances of doing that and having better success are skyrocketing. But, you may have to have an open mind and rethink your priorities. You may have to make some sacrifices in the short-term.

If you wanna try and acheive some kind of dream of being rich and having tons of crap you don't need, the US is no longer "the place to be" for that, unless you like duping suckers.

I can stay in the US for now and prosper. However if the SHTF within 40 ears and only 30% of the population is higher than poverty, I'll STILL be able to make money and have everything I need here, albeit I'll have to rely on less idiots to give me free stuff. I'll have reason to worry, if for example that 30%+the Feds leaves the US, or a natural disaster comes around, that is big enough to raze the entire country. But for now at the rate everything is collapsing, I'll have plenty of time to prepare to leave if I absolutely need to. But my objectives are radically different from most HA members - I have no immediate desire to find sex and have no long-term materialistic goals. So I can take my time, build my power and create streams of income. :)


Good Luck on your goals, mine are somewhat similar but I want a woman at my side because I rather not bust out the rolodex to find somebody to call in times of need.

There are ways to continue to make money in the US, I'm just not terribly interested in them (1) and (2) I want to travel. Hard to do it when housing and other issues are taking huge sums of your paycheck when you know its cheaper someplace else.

The cheap thrills chicks don't look that great and its too much drama.

If you can tolerate that, more power to ya.
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