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It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-North-America

Post by S_Parc » July 21st, 2013, 3:20 am

Ok fellas, I don't want to be the board hypocrite so let me say this ... I've found happiness on our continent.

Here's the reference point on my friendship with a lesbian former classmate ...

viewtopic.php?t=19366

A re-cap:

---"She got inspired by my tales of b*inking up in Montreal so she decided to go up to Canada this weekend, and try it out for herself. Well, she's now been converted. She's decided to stop dating nasty women in Massachusetts and wants to come with me, to Quebec, for periodic esc*rt action.

Basically, the idea is that we do touristy stuff during the day and then, go back to our respective rooms, and get an outcall girl to close out the night."---

Ok, so today, we did some sailing on Lake Champlain, plus swimming, etc. Went to Montreal City and did some touristy stuff. And then, for the night, she's in her room, doing a Quebecois and myself, the same in my room.

I'm now lying in bed, reflecting upon the day. Yeah, I'm happy. This is what I'd wanted, since I was a young adult, many years ago. I'm no longer inspired to have to travel abroad for some mystical union with some perfect soulmate. I do have a connection to a female counterpart but that connection isn't romantic, just platonic. And now, my body is satisfied by a hot esc@rt with nice b@@bs & @ss.

Is it time for me to leave this forum? I'm actually living the life that I'd intended for myself.
16 years ago, the Best Picture of 1999, "American Beauty", telegraphed the message of Happier Abroad to the world.

Beware of long term engagements with AWs, you may find yourself in a coffin.

AB discussion thread

BTW, despite settling down with an AW, myself, the warning is still in effect.




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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by djfourmoney » July 21st, 2013, 3:35 am

S_Parc wrote:Ok fellas, I don't want to be the board hypocrite so let me say this ... I've found happiness on our continent.

Here's the reference point on my friendship with a lesbian former classmate ...

viewtopic.php?t=19366

A re-cap:

---"She got inspired by my tales of b*inking up in Montreal so she decided to go up to Canada this weekend, and try it out for herself. Well, she's now been converted. She's decided to stop dating nasty women in Massachusetts and wants to come with me, to Quebec, for periodic esc*rt action.

Basically, the idea is that we do touristy stuff during the day and then, go back to our respective rooms, and get an outcall girl to close out the night."---

Ok, so today, we did some sailing on Lake Champlain, plus swimming, etc. Went to Montreal City and did some touristy stuff. And then, for the night, she's in her room, doing a Quebecois and myself, the same in my room.

I'm now lying in bed, reflecting upon the day. Yeah, I'm happy. This is what I'd wanted, since I was a young adult, many years ago. I'm no longer inspired to have to travel abroad for some mystical union with some perfect soulmate. I do have a connection to a female counterpart but that connection isn't romantic, just platonic. And now, my body is satisfied by a hot esc@rt with nice b@@bs & @ss.

Is it time for me to leave this forum? I'm actually living the life that I'd intended for myself.
So all your life you wanted somebody that wouldn't judge you because you want random sex with professional sex providers without any shame?

If that's true, man that is very low. No contribution to society, no paying it forward, no giving to a cause that makes sense. Ah the self and the search for those what won't judge me for my actions.

If you succeeded in that quest I guess there is no reason to look abroad especially since prostitution is somewhat legal in Canada, or at least in Montreal.

All this with a Lesbian former classmate? Hmmm

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Post by zboy1 » July 21st, 2013, 4:00 am

No, you shouldn't leave the forum, S_Parc; You just found a different way to be "HappierAbroad." You can be the optional voice in this forum, arguing that you can be "HappierAbroad" at home. Having different opinions and viewpoints on a forum, is always a good thing in my opinion.

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by S_Parc » July 21st, 2013, 4:08 am

djfourmoney wrote:So all your life you wanted somebody that wouldn't judge you because you want random sex with professional sex providers without any shame?

If that's true, man that is very low. No contribution to society, no paying it forward, no giving to a cause that makes sense. Ah the self and the search for those what won't judge me for my actions.

If you succeeded in that quest I guess there is no reason to look abroad especially since p4p is somewhat legal in Canada, or at least in Montreal.

All this with a Lesbian former classmate? Hmmm
What's this with the no contribution to society? I've been working with the victims of the recent Boston bombing and other such things as well.

In addition, I plan on doing scientific research in my old age, just like my Avatar.

The difference is that I'd given up on the relationship, as you can read in my conversation with publicduende about that relationship with the Brazilian, which didn't work out.

And yeah, my lesbian classmate is my friend, the only AW, who I can really talk to and not feel like some sort of lunatic fringe with anti-establishment ideas. Like me, she doesn't like women; she'd rather hang out with a guy like me but then, b*ink esc@rts to satisfy her needs.
16 years ago, the Best Picture of 1999, "American Beauty", telegraphed the message of Happier Abroad to the world.

Beware of long term engagements with AWs, you may find yourself in a coffin.

AB discussion thread

BTW, despite settling down with an AW, myself, the warning is still in effect.

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by Rock » July 21st, 2013, 4:13 am

S_Parc wrote:Ok fellas, I don't want to be the board hypocrite so let me say this ... I've found happiness on our continent.

Here's the reference point on my friendship with a lesbian former classmate ...

viewtopic.php?t=19366

A re-cap:

---"She got inspired by my tales of b*inking up in Montreal so she decided to go up to Canada this weekend, and try it out for herself. Well, she's now been converted. She's decided to stop dating nasty women in Massachusetts and wants to come with me, to Quebec, for periodic esc*rt action.

Basically, the idea is that we do touristy stuff during the day and then, go back to our respective rooms, and get an outcall girl to close out the night."---

Ok, so today, we did some sailing on Lake Champlain, plus swimming, etc. Went to Montreal City and did some touristy stuff. And then, for the night, she's in her room, doing a Quebecois and myself, the same in my room.

I'm now lying in bed, reflecting upon the day. Yeah, I'm happy. This is what I'd wanted, since I was a young adult, many years ago. I'm no longer inspired to have to travel abroad for some mystical union with some perfect soulmate. I do have a connection to a female counterpart but that connection isn't romantic, just platonic. And now, my body is satisfied by a hot esc@rt with nice b@@bs & @ss.

Is it time for me to leave this forum? I'm actually living the life that I'd intended for myself.
No you shouldn't leave. Joining here is about giving and taking. If everyone just wanted to do the latter, there would be no forum.

Keep writing. Do trip reports. Include prices, experiences, and maybe even some identity hiding photos. Perhaps you will inspire certain other guys in USA to do the same thing.

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Post by SilverEnergy » July 21st, 2013, 5:04 am

Mwahahahahaha!

I'm laughing so hard reading this thread!
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Post by Repatriate » July 21st, 2013, 5:56 am

Interesting. So you found a lesbian platonic friend to go on "brodates" with and you satisfy your sexual needs with prostitutes. Hmmm.. but won't that get old and what is so special about this woman that you can't fulfill with just hanging out with other friends?

It sounds like you've found a way to rig things temporarily until you find out you desire something more out of a relationship later.

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by Maverick » July 21st, 2013, 7:47 am

S_Parc wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:So all your life you wanted somebody that wouldn't judge you because you want random sex with professional sex providers without any shame?

If that's true, man that is very low. No contribution to society, no paying it forward, no giving to a cause that makes sense. Ah the self and the search for those what won't judge me for my actions.

If you succeeded in that quest I guess there is no reason to look abroad especially since p4p is somewhat legal in Canada, or at least in Montreal.

All this with a Lesbian former classmate? Hmmm
What's this with the no contribution to society? I've been working with the victims of the recent Boston bombing and other such things as well.

In addition, I plan on doing scientific research in my old age, just like my Avatar.

The difference is that I'd given up on the relationship, as you can read in my conversation with publicduende about that relationship with the Brazilian, which didn't work out.

And yeah, my lesbian classmate is my friend, the only AW, who I can really talk to and not feel like some sort of lunatic fringe with anti-establishment ideas. Like me, she doesn't like women; she'd rather hang out with a guy like me but then, b*ink esc@rts to satisfy her needs.
So wait, she's f***ing escorts too?

That's hot. You should tell her to join this forum and post pics. :D

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by Rock » July 21st, 2013, 8:33 am

djfourmoney wrote:
S_Parc wrote:Ok fellas, I don't want to be the board hypocrite so let me say this ... I've found happiness on our continent.

Here's the reference point on my friendship with a lesbian former classmate ...

viewtopic.php?t=19366

A re-cap:

---"She got inspired by my tales of b*inking up in Montreal so she decided to go up to Canada this weekend, and try it out for herself. Well, she's now been converted. She's decided to stop dating nasty women in Massachusetts and wants to come with me, to Quebec, for periodic esc*rt action.

Basically, the idea is that we do touristy stuff during the day and then, go back to our respective rooms, and get an outcall girl to close out the night."---

Ok, so today, we did some sailing on Lake Champlain, plus swimming, etc. Went to Montreal City and did some touristy stuff. And then, for the night, she's in her room, doing a Quebecois and myself, the same in my room.

I'm now lying in bed, reflecting upon the day. Yeah, I'm happy. This is what I'd wanted, since I was a young adult, many years ago. I'm no longer inspired to have to travel abroad for some mystical union with some perfect soulmate. I do have a connection to a female counterpart but that connection isn't romantic, just platonic. And now, my body is satisfied by a hot esc@rt with nice b@@bs & @ss.

Is it time for me to leave this forum? I'm actually living the life that I'd intended for myself.
So all your life you wanted somebody that wouldn't judge you because you want random sex with professional sex providers without any shame?

If that's true, man that is very low. No contribution to society, no paying it forward, no giving to a cause that makes sense. Ah the self and the search for those what won't judge me for my actions.

If you succeeded in that quest I guess there is no reason to look abroad especially since p4p is somewhat legal in Canada, or at least in Montreal.

All this with a Lesbian former classmate? Hmmm
This is an example of the kind of narrow judgmental thinking so common in American society. People are stuck in some tiny box and they don't even realize it.

HA types are creative. They find novel approaches to life and tailor made solutions which fit their own preferences. And we hope they do this without hurting others. When I hear or read comments like the above, I have to wonder how qualified the source is, what meaningful contribution to society or the world do they believe they've made. I bet it's often the case of those living in glass houses throwing stones.

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-NorthAmerica

Post by Rock » July 21st, 2013, 8:37 am

S_Parc wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:So all your life you wanted somebody that wouldn't judge you because you want random sex with professional sex providers without any shame?

If that's true, man that is very low. No contribution to society, no paying it forward, no giving to a cause that makes sense. Ah the self and the search for those what won't judge me for my actions.

If you succeeded in that quest I guess there is no reason to look abroad especially since p4p is somewhat legal in Canada, or at least in Montreal.

All this with a Lesbian former classmate? Hmmm
What's this with the no contribution to society? I've been working with the victims of the recent Boston bombing and other such things as well.

In addition, I plan on doing scientific research in my old age, just like my Avatar.

The difference is that I'd given up on the relationship, as you can read in my conversation with publicduende about that relationship with the Brazilian, which didn't work out.

And yeah, my lesbian classmate is my friend, the only AW, who I can really talk to and not feel like some sort of lunatic fringe with anti-establishment ideas. Like me, she doesn't like women; she'd rather hang out with a guy like me but then, b*ink esc@rts to satisfy her needs.
More power to you HA brah. Please don't stop contributing here as well :)

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-North-America

Post by Jackal » July 21st, 2013, 11:39 am

S_Parc wrote: I'm now lying in bed, reflecting upon the day. Yeah, I'm happy. This is what I'd wanted, since I was a young adult, many years ago. I'm no longer inspired to have to travel abroad for some mystical union with some perfect soulmate. I do have a connection to a female counterpart but that connection isn't romantic, just platonic. And now, my body is satisfied by a hot esc@rt with nice b@@bs & @ss.

Is it time for me to leave this forum? I'm actually living the life that I'd intended for myself.
First of all, Canada is technically "abroad" for you, since you live in the USA. So there's no problem there.

Secondly, there's no requirement to want a "soulmate" to post here. Nor do you have to be a Christian conservative to post here.

I live abroad, but I don't care about finding a "soul mate." I don't crave some traditional, "Little House on the Prairie" type existence the way some guys here do. I date some women. I bang some escorts. I eat some tasty Hungarian food. I am happy like that.

Different strokes for different folks...

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Post by Billy » July 21st, 2013, 1:58 pm

s_parc, men you are doing some strange things. this reminds me of a bisexual tschech girl who was superhot. we were somekinds of friends. but she didn´t want to have sex with me. but she was open to the idea of some threesomest with chicks. i was not motivated enough to organize that stuff.

anyway you have some creative solutions. surely you want to talk about your projects where else then in HA? btw. hypocrisy is not a problem (maybe a solution in general) at least not in HA. dissonance is normal at HA as you know. how is your jump hook shots going?

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Post by S_Parc » July 21st, 2013, 5:02 pm

Repatriate wrote:Interesting. So you found a lesbian platonic friend to go on "brodates" with and you satisfy your sexual needs with hoes. Hmmm.. but won't that get old and what is so special about this woman that you can't fulfill with just hanging out with other friends?
It sounds like you've found a way to rig things temporarily until you find out you desire something more out of a relationship later.
Here's the thing ... the reason why my long term Brazil GF and I parted, was because my dysfunctional nuclear family of birth, wasn't good enough for her clan.

That re-cap is in the following conversation:
viewtopic.php?t=17467&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=75

Well ... in some ways, they aren't good for anyone, including myself and yet, I've moved on to build a career/life for myself. I believe that this is the primary problem of the world of heterosexuals, guys are judged for something they don't have control over. In contrast, my lesbian ex-classmate understands this, because she's played the role of a guy, in her prior relationships and got tired of the fact that she had to live up to a higher standard than other women. In addition, in the society we live in... men and women are supposed to be seen, swimming together, dancing together, canoeing together, and having candle lit dinners together. If a pair of guys did the aforementioned, the Gaydar goes up which means that the kind folks in Vermont get a little *too polite* and the corresponding ones in upstate NY, give the nasty stares, if not close early for the night. My pal and I got none of the above. Most ppl simply assumed that we're dating and they go about their business.
Jackal wrote:First of all, Canada is technically "abroad" for you, since you live in the USA. So there's no problem there.
Secondly, there's no requirement to want a "soulmate" to post here. Nor do you have to be a Christian conservative to post here.
I live abroad, but I don't care about finding a "soul mate." I don't crave some traditional, "Little House on the Prairie" type existence the way some guys here do. I date some women. I bang some escorts. I eat some tasty Hungarian food. I am happy like that.
We did spent time in Vermont, upstate NY, Cape Cod MA, and bunch of other New England locales, so in a sense, it's mostly the USA, but then Canada is the *release value* for the hormonal build up over time :wink:

As for the rejection of the 'Little House' soulmate, I concur. That's what happened when my Brazilian GF and I split ... that fantasy was over. I'd woken up afterwards.
Billy wrote:but she was open to the idea of some threesomest with chicks. i was not motivated enough to organize that stuff.
In many ways, I don't want to see "Melissa Etheridge" naked :oops:, so I'm fine with us, having separate rooms for the night time activities.
As of b-ball, it's all going fine. I'm finding that the best way to interact with main-streamers is in those venues. And thus, it's nice to have a platonic relationship with a woman, which is more candor and less rules based.
16 years ago, the Best Picture of 1999, "American Beauty", telegraphed the message of Happier Abroad to the world.

Beware of long term engagements with AWs, you may find yourself in a coffin.

AB discussion thread

BTW, despite settling down with an AW, myself, the warning is still in effect.

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Re: It's over, I'm actually Happier-In-North-America

Post by Teal Lantern » July 21st, 2013, 7:33 pm

S_Parc wrote:Ok fellas, I don't want to be the board hypocrite so let me say this ... I've found happiness on our continent. ...
Congrats S_Parc,
Now you just need some deflector shields to ward off the shaming torpedoes that will come your way for daring to not create 2.1 future cannon fodder/tax slaves and getting yourself under the whip of some soul-draining battleaxe. :lol:
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Post by djfourmoney » July 22nd, 2013, 10:52 am

Well in any case, good luck.

(Not you S) but I don't understand the fascination and its mostly with White men that think Bisexual women are sexy or something.

Truth is most Bisexual women are butt ugly, just like most gay women, you're not missing anything.

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