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Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg, despite their vast wealth, are still nerdy "beta males"
who are unattractive to most American women.
Athletes and rock stars, on the other hand, are "sexy" regardless of whether they have wealth
or not. Take a look at Chris Brown, a typical bad boy who drives women nuts despite beating up Rihanna.
In an age where women are making more money than men, having lots of money
and putting yourself up as the "provider" means very little.
The only thing that matters to Western women nowadays is "hotness", which is defined as acting
in an ape-like fashion (Kobe Bryant's sexual assault, Chris Brown's violence against Rihanna,
Charlie Sheen's abuse of women, Floyd Mayweather's domestic abuse).
I bet you that your local unemployed "bad boy" gets more poon than Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg
will get in their entire lifetimes.
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I'm definitely the same way.
After doing VERY well with women in college, I'd be happy with just one really awesome, loyal one. The player lifestyle can get surprisingly lonely and is a cold way to live.
That's why I'll eventually be happier abroad.
I once dreamt of being a playboy when I was younger and more naive but not anymore.
Now as I have already grown more matured I came to realise that like begets like. If you are a playboy you will inevitably attract women who are just like you in your life - playgirls.
You simply can't live like a manwhore and expect your girls to be loyal to you while you are currently fawning over them. The most exciting thing about relationship is having a long-term one with a quality girl - and to have that you have to start out by being quality man yourself.
I know I did. And when I had money, I became one. Now at 53 and looking back, this is what I have to say:
1) It's fun and very pleasurable. There are drawbacks, though. Sex is really to create families. You end up either not creating families and breaking up and having ugly and jealous confrontations or you create two families or three and they end up costing you.
2) If you secretly do things behind a GF's back, karma will come out in some place and bite you in the a**.
3) It's fleeting. You may wake up one day with a bald spot, a fat stomach, your peter soft and money gone and nothing but memories of good times. Break ups with multiple girlfriends are like multiple teeth aching. The pain is still there but divided into 2-3 "portions".
4) If you are a semi- enlightened and altruistic person and wish good to others, but, at the same time, want to be a playboy, you can elect to be a playboy-philantropist which is what I ended up doing ( be careful of getting used, though). instead of being a hoe-master, you become a servant to them ( not in a bad way, but you are always there when they need you). I did not deeply get involved with the girls, but was always a half friend, half-almost-boyfriend and never again promised love, happy future together, etc. I spent huge amounts of time, though-- advising, guiding, helping out, and all these girls became like a big family of people I was responsible for ( and which probably cost me around 100K over the years). Great memories, great results for all concerned. So, you need to find ways to spread happiness through your play-boyish-ness and benefit society.
Get ready to have a generous budget, though. A poor play boy only spreads trouble unless he does it with girls who, from the very beginning, are let know that it's just for fun and pleasure and who are cold, detached people to begin with.
A brain is a terrible thing to wash!
I think maybe 40% of guys fantasize about that lifestyle but soon realize it's not feasible unless you're a celebrity. And the rest couldn't care less and are happy just to have one halfway decent looking girl. Look at Zuckernerd. He has an endless supply of hot gash available to him but chooses to be monogamous with a plain jane. People have suggested that he's a poon hound on the sly, but I sincerely doubt it.
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"Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal... If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters." Cato the Elder
Nice is boring, bad is fun. That "edge" is part of the appeal.
Siegfried & Roy didn't get famous for making de-clawed house cats jump through hoops.
To be the girl that catches and tames the bad-boy is a public validation of her own special snowflakeness.
Rihanna Will Only Date Bad Boys
http://www.contactmusic.com/news/rihann ... ys_1125024
не поглеждай назад.
"Even an American judge is unlikely to award child support for imputed children." - FredOnEverything
Been enjoying my playboy lifestyle in Pattaya the last week. Maybe I'll move there and have a 365/24/7 playboy life.
I quit my boring cubicle slave job and now I'm Happier Abroad...
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