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Do all guys dream of being playboys?

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Postby FinnMonash » Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:16 am

I like the playboy job because it completes our both the desire of having sex with many beautiful models and it will also help to aware about sex education. Finally lots of money, popularity and happiness that I want because I am a playboy right now working in BoardRoomEscorts near Sydney.
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Postby ContraMundumRants » Wed Aug 14, 2013 6:49 am

Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg, despite their vast wealth, are still nerdy "beta males"
who are unattractive to most American women.

Athletes and rock stars, on the other hand, are "sexy" regardless of whether they have wealth
or not. Take a look at Chris Brown, a typical bad boy who drives women nuts despite beating up Rihanna.

In an age where women are making more money than men, having lots of money
and putting yourself up as the "provider" means very little.

The only thing that matters to Western women nowadays is "hotness", which is defined as acting
in an ape-like fashion (Kobe Bryant's sexual assault, Chris Brown's violence against Rihanna,
Charlie Sheen's abuse of women, Floyd Mayweather's domestic abuse).

I bet you that your local unemployed "bad boy" gets more poon than Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg
will get in their entire lifetimes.
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Postby Maverick » Wed Aug 14, 2013 7:03 am

kai1275 wrote:I'm too different from most men. I have always felt as if most women are not worth my time, attention, or my love. I also knew that God does not want me to live my life like that, so I tried to be patient and try to understand more about that. My dreams have always been toward meeting a real "Helen of Troy". The woman of all women, kind of quality. I have always been a one woman man, and I hate wasting energy chasing more than one woman. After my divorce I had to teach myself how to even do that, and I did not enjoy it either. When I found that my wife was the woman I have been looking for all my life basically, I got rid of all loose ends so quickly it made their heads spin and made them all very angry with me. It was a mess getting rid of a few of them.

I only enjoy focusing my energy like this, I feel at ease with peace and calm, despite having Adult ADD. :lol:


+1

I'm definitely the same way.

pete98146 wrote:I think your desire to be a playboy hinges on how much luck you've had with women in the past. If you have not had consistent luck dating pretty women then you'll have a perpetual "kid in the candy store" mentality and you'll dream of being a playboy.

But if you have had good luck dating pretty women the entire notion of being a playboy is kinda "been there done that" and you'll be seeking the one woman that makes you really content and happy. I also think age plays into the equation. Once you approach middle age, the Hugh Hefner thoughts fall by the wayside. Too much work and effort is involved and if I can find the one I'll be much happier.

So as they say, to each his own...........


This too.

After doing VERY well with women in college, I'd be happy with just one really awesome, loyal one. The player lifestyle can get surprisingly lonely and is a cold way to live.

That's why I'll eventually be happier abroad. :D
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Postby Rayn » Fri Aug 16, 2013 5:03 pm

I once dreamt of being a playboy when I was younger and more naive but not anymore.

Now as I have already grown more matured I came to realise that like begets like. If you are a playboy you will inevitably attract women who are just like you in your life - playgirls.

You simply can't live like a manwhore and expect your girls to be loyal to you while you are currently fawning over them. The most exciting thing about relationship is having a long-term one with a quality girl - and to have that you have to start out by being quality man yourself.
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Postby Hero » Fri Aug 16, 2013 5:18 pm

ContraMundumRants wrote:Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg, despite their vast wealth, are still nerdy "beta males"
who are unattractive to most American women.


I don't care how "nerdy" you are, if you have that kind of money, you can get hot p***y.
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Postby ladislav » Fri Aug 16, 2013 5:39 pm

I know I did. And when I had money, I became one. Now at 53 and looking back, this is what I have to say:

1) It's fun and very pleasurable. There are drawbacks, though. Sex is really to create families. You end up either not creating families and breaking up and having ugly and jealous confrontations or you create two families or three and they end up costing you.

2) If you secretly do things behind a GF's back, karma will come out in some place and bite you in the a**.

3) It's fleeting. You may wake up one day with a bald spot, a fat stomach, your peter soft and money gone and nothing but memories of good times. Break ups with multiple girlfriends are like multiple teeth aching. The pain is still there but divided into 2-3 "portions".

4) If you are a semi- enlightened and altruistic person and wish good to others, but, at the same time, want to be a playboy, you can elect to be a playboy-philantropist which is what I ended up doing ( be careful of getting used, though). instead of being a hoe-master, you become a servant to them ( not in a bad way, but you are always there when they need you). I did not deeply get involved with the girls, but was always a half friend, half-almost-boyfriend and never again promised love, happy future together, etc. I spent huge amounts of time, though-- advising, guiding, helping out, and all these girls became like a big family of people I was responsible for ( and which probably cost me around 100K over the years). Great memories, great results for all concerned. So, you need to find ways to spread happiness through your play-boyish-ness and benefit society.

Get ready to have a generous budget, though. A poor play boy only spreads trouble unless he does it with girls who, from the very beginning, are let know that it's just for fun and pleasure and who are cold, detached people to begin with.
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Postby Jeremy » Sat Aug 17, 2013 6:04 am

I think maybe 40% of guys fantasize about that lifestyle but soon realize it's not feasible unless you're a celebrity. And the rest couldn't care less and are happy just to have one halfway decent looking girl. Look at Zuckernerd. He has an endless supply of hot gash available to him but chooses to be monogamous with a plain jane. People have suggested that he's a poon hound on the sly, but I sincerely doubt it.
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Postby polya » Sat Aug 17, 2013 10:56 am

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Postby Teal Lantern » Sat Aug 17, 2013 9:50 pm

ContraMundumRants wrote:Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg, despite their vast wealth, are still nerdy "beta males"
who are unattractive to most American women.

Athletes and rock stars, on the other hand, are "sexy" regardless of whether they have wealth
or not. Take a look at Chris Brown, a typical bad boy who drives women nuts despite beating up Rihanna.


In an age where women are making more money than men, having lots of money
and putting yourself up as the "provider" means very little.

The only thing that matters to Western women nowadays is "hotness", which is defined as acting
in an ape-like fashion (Kobe Bryant's sexual assault, Chris Brown's violence against Rihanna,
Charlie Sheen's abuse of women, Floyd Mayweather's domestic abuse).

I bet you that your local unemployed "bad boy" gets more poon than Bill Gates and Mark Zuckerberg
will get in their entire lifetimes.

Nice is boring, bad is fun. That "edge" is part of the appeal.
Siegfried & Roy didn't get famous for making de-clawed house cats jump through hoops.
To be the girl that catches and tames the bad-boy is a public validation of her own special snowflakeness.

Rihanna Will Only Date Bad Boys
http://www.contactmusic.com/news/rihann ... ys_1125024
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Postby xiongmao » Sun Aug 18, 2013 2:42 pm

Been enjoying my playboy lifestyle in Pattaya the last week. Maybe I'll move there and have a 365/24/7 playboy life.
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Postby Jester » Mon Aug 19, 2013 6:08 am

Teal Lantern wrote:

[color=darkblue]Nice is boring, bad is fun. That "edge" is part of the appeal.
Siegfried & Roy didn't get famous for making de-clawed house cats jump through hoops.
To be the girl that catches and tames the bad-boy is a public validation of her own special snowflakeness.




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Postby JaiGrimstone » Thu Aug 29, 2013 6:02 am

xiongmao wrote:Been enjoying my playboy lifestyle in Pattaya the last week. Maybe I'll move there and have a 365/24/7 playboy life.


Can you tell me what are the qualities required to become successful playboy? I am preparing for that but don't have much knowledge.Thanks in advance!
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