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Why are so many guys in denial about looks theory?

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Jeremy
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Why are so many guys in denial about looks theory?

Post by Jeremy » August 19th, 2013, 6:04 am

Even on here.

Since most guys aren’t blind, I’m assuming they simply don’t know how to judge male looks from the perspective of girls under 25. They add points for facial masculinity, when in fact they should be doing the exact opposite. When I was at uni, girls were exclusively chasing pretty boy twinks with feminine faces. Guys also tend to focus on trivialities like height and eye colour, while complete overlooking facial thirds, brow shape, interpupillary distance, skin quality, etc.

What do you think?




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Post by Mr.Darcy » August 19th, 2013, 8:03 pm

Because I can just go out and see some ugly fatass white guy with some goddess. Trying to understand girls is like trying to understand the most complicated part of quantum physics. You just don't even bother.

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Post by Jeremy » August 20th, 2013, 5:50 am

Mr.Darcy wrote:Because I can just go out and see some ugly fatass white guy with some goddess. Trying to understand girls is like trying to understand the most complicated part of quantum physics. You just don't even bother.
Really? I literally never see anything like that. Most of the girls here are with guys who are better looking than them. Sometimes they're looks matched, but then I assume the guy has social status.

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Post by Mr.Darcy » August 20th, 2013, 6:08 am

Jeremy wrote:
Mr.Darcy wrote:Because I can just go out and see some ugly fatass white guy with some goddess. Trying to understand girls is like trying to understand the most complicated part of quantum physics. You just don't even bother.
Really? I literally never see anything like that. Most of the girls here are with guys who are better looking than them. Sometimes they're looks matched, but then I assume the guy has social status.
Most of the girls I see here are with average or ugly guys.

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Re: Why are so many guys in denial about looks theory?

Post by OutWest » August 20th, 2013, 6:45 am

Jeremy wrote:Even on here.

Since most guys aren’t blind, I’m assuming they simply don’t know how to judge male looks from the perspective of girls under 25. They add points for facial masculinity, when in fact they should be doing the exact opposite. When I was at uni, girls were exclusively chasing pretty boy twinks with feminine faces. Guys also tend to focus on trivialities like height and eye colour, while complete overlooking facial thirds, brow shape, interpupillary distance, skin quality, etc.

What do you think?
You are right in a way- American women are groomed to like "guys" vs men.
If you consider yourself a "guy" it means you are closer to the weak male stereotype
many American female (and some others) desire. Myself, I have little use for "guys" and
consider it an insulting term...like being called a semi-fag or he-bitch.

The fact that many American and other western women like such he-bitches is hardly a reason to be one.

Outwest

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Post by celery2010 » August 23rd, 2013, 4:35 am

because of the heavy stigma against anything stylish for guys in america as being "gay". What's hilarious is that i was traveling in florida, met some european guys, and they kept saying that they got hit on by gay guys.

Abso-fricking hilarious.

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