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not question society, and be tact. I got two complaints from friends that my other friend was hitting his girl friend which is a sister of one of the friends that told me. Needless to say, I confront my friend about it and he denies it and tells his gf what they said. Later, the two people that complained are mad at me for telling him. He was like,"man you were not suppose to tell him, that was our secret." Wtf, if he is beating her and he thinks nobody knows is aware than the problem needs to be addressed. I'm kind of scared now because what if there is something against me and people are too p***y to tell me. I have noticed that people will here will talk shit behind your back, but act like nothing is wrong when you are around. It is like elementary school lol.

People are terrified of confrontation and unable to handle negativity that is directed at them these days. God forbid you shatter their illusion of being a perfect snowflake by telling them the truth to their face. Better to be disliked and honest than a well liked snake.