Rayn wrote:4 - There is also another thing that isn't mentioned here - the assholes tend to be more physically attractive than the good guys. Contrary to popular notions, females are much more shallow in terms of appearance than men and they will go to absurd length, even more so than the 'nice guys' to justify everything else about him based on his looks. If a stud is asshole - he's a 'bad boy', and if he is a nice guy he's a 'chivalrous gentleman'. But if he just happens to be ugly then being a nice guy will earn him the 'creeper' label, and being an asshole? Well...he should be better prepared for a whistle blow and pepper sprays up his face.
The truth and humor of this may be lost on guys who never got to be the 'bad boy', though.
Those saddled with the "creeper" label should absolutely broaden their horizons beyond the border, though, if for no other reason than to get the desire for the GFE out of their system.