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Latinas / East Europeans on OKCupid

Postby Johnny1975 » September 7th, 2013, 11:46 pm

They're horrible. Nearly all of them. Bad attitudes, and nowhere near as hot as I expected. I feel no desire to contact them. I'm sure there are better ones but the ones on OKCupid are not of high quality, mostly. Weird.
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Postby aozora13 » September 8th, 2013, 12:16 am

Johnny, I agree with you. Especially if they are recently coming to the US and want a relationship they are difficult to talk too and for me when I contacted on where I live who was from Colombia she basically looked at my profile and did not respond. Go figure. People I talked to at a few jobs in different areas mentioned that it is a good dating website and they can meet good women. Yeah right. It is basically a crapshot on that dating website. I think the best solution is go to the country where you think there are the best women and connect with them there.

Other than that, you would probably have to pay for a specialty website since the 'free' ones really do suck.
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Postby Jeremy » September 8th, 2013, 1:00 am

My response rate is much, much better with girls from Eastern Europe and South America. They also talk to me like an actual human being, whereas North American girls will only give me sarcastic, one word answers at best.
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Postby SilverEnergy » September 8th, 2013, 4:57 am

OkCupid is a terrible website, it doesn't matter if you contact the American or the foreign women, it's a waste of time.

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Postby marklambo » September 8th, 2013, 5:05 am

SilverEnergy wrote:OkCupid is a terrible website, it doesn't matter if you contact the American or the foreign women, it's a waste of time.

Trust me, I've learned.


Yes, I agree 100%. It's definitely not a good place to find quality women at all. Terrible selection of women and a waste of time. Most are ugly and overweight.
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Postby aozora13 » September 8th, 2013, 8:04 am

marklambo wrote:
SilverEnergy wrote:OkCupid is a terrible website, it doesn't matter if you contact the American or the foreign women, it's a waste of time.

Trust me, I've learned.


Yes, I agree 100%. It's definitely not a good place to find quality women at all. Terrible selection of women and a waste of time. Most are ugly and overweight.


+1

I see that even if the person just came to the US with good English, you know it is pretty much a lost cause. I am currently thinking that it is a website I should avoid altogether.
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » September 8th, 2013, 8:20 am

Jeremy wrote:My response rate is much, much better with girls from Eastern Europe and South America. They also talk to me like an actual human being, whereas North American girls will only give me sarcastic, one word answers at best.


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Postby Johnny1975 » September 8th, 2013, 10:26 am

Sometimes, just for a laugh, I do a search for asian girls who live in the US, to see the difference between them and asian girls in their own country. You can really tell the difference. You see tattoos, piercings, swearing on their profiles, sarcasm, not talking about what they have to offer (as opposed to asian girls in their own countries, who do talk about what they have to offer, and very humbly so), have you ever done anything sexual with someone of the same sex - Yes, how would you feel if you were slapped hard in the face during sex - Aroused, would you have sex on the first date - Yes, and so on.
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Postby Hero » September 8th, 2013, 11:28 am

aozora13 wrote:Johnny, I agree with you. Especially if they are recently coming to the US and want a relationship they are difficult to talk too and for me when I contacted on where I live who was from Colombia she basically looked at my profile and did not respond. Go figure. People I talked to at a few jobs in different areas mentioned that it is a good dating website and they can meet good women. Yeah right. It is basically a crapshot on that dating website. I think the best solution is go to the country where you think there are the best women and connect with them there.


All good advice. I'm on LatinAmericanCupid.com, and all of the women there living in the USA are basically whores. Half of the Brazilian women are scammers. As for the rest, less than 1% are attractive. And about 90% of the attractive ones who I contact just look at my profile and don't even respond. If they have have any excuse, it's that they get contacted by hundreds of men, and they have no idea which of the men are serious. So, best to go to the country of your choice and connect with them there. That will increase your desirability by 1000%. I'm planning to get down to the Dominican Republic ASAP, maybe Panama and Costa Rica too.
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Postby Jeremy » September 8th, 2013, 5:09 pm

Johnny1975 wrote:Sometimes, just for a laugh, I do a search for asian girls who live in the US, to see the difference between them and asian girls in their own country. You can really tell the difference. You see tattoos, piercings, swearing on their profiles, sarcasm, not talking about what they have to offer (as opposed to asian girls in their own countries, who do talk about what they have to offer, and very humbly so), have you ever done anything sexual with someone of the same sex - Yes, how would you feel if you were slapped hard in the face during sex - Aroused, would you have sex on the first date - Yes, and so on.


My response rate with girls living in Hong Kong was 11/13. Two of them had spent some time in the west. Guess which two didn't respond. :lol:
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Postby Hero » September 9th, 2013, 12:01 am

Why do women keep asking me if I have kids, even though I said on my profile that I don't? Are they accusing me of lying?
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Postby marklambo » September 9th, 2013, 12:15 am

Hero wrote:Why do women keep asking me if I have kids, even though I said on my profile that I don't? Are they accusing me of lying?


Either they didn't bother to read the profile or they just want to confirm.
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Postby Hero » September 9th, 2013, 12:26 am

marklambo wrote:
Hero wrote:Why do women keep asking me if I have kids, even though I said on my profile that I don't? Are they accusing me of lying?


Either they didn't bother to read the profile or they just want to confirm.


Yeah, makes sense. I just don't know if having kids is good or bad in their opinion. Does she think it's weird that I don't have kids? Or is she glad that I don't have that baggage? Guess I'll just have to wait and see.
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Postby marklambo » September 9th, 2013, 12:39 am

Hero wrote:
marklambo wrote:
Hero wrote:Why do women keep asking me if I have kids, even though I said on my profile that I don't? Are they accusing me of lying?


Either they didn't bother to read the profile or they just want to confirm.


Yeah, makes sense. I just don't know if having kids is good or bad in their opinion. Does she think it's weird that I don't have kids? Or is she glad that I don't have that baggage? Guess I'll just have to wait and see.


For most women, it's a plus that you don't have kids because they view you more valuable. If you and the woman get along good, she will be happier to know that she can possibly have that first child with you. If you already have a child from another woman, she may still like you but your value goes down a little because she knows she has to be involved with a child that isn't hers.
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Postby Hero » September 9th, 2013, 12:45 am

marklambo wrote:For most women, it's a plus that you don't have kids because they view you more valuable. If you and the woman get along good, she will be happier to know that she can possibly have that first child with you. If you already have a child from another woman, she may still like you but your value goes down a little because she knows she has to be involved with a child that isn't hers.


Actually, the woman I have in mind is 43 and has a 22-year-old son, so I'm pretty sure she doesn't want another kid. Still, I wonder if she'd consider it optimal if I had adult kids. Then I'd seem more normal, but not have baggage. Yeah, I know, I worry too much :roll:
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