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Postby Halwick » Sat Sep 14, 2013 7:23 pm

Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:

* link to porn video removed



Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.

I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.

For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Sat Sep 14, 2013 9:04 pm

aozora13 wrote:E, I know what you mean. I am hoping to get 1 cert for Win 7 and possibly for Private Cloud. I am not sure about SharePoint for my MCSE. I am thinking too vmware and citrix. This will possibly be in 2014 so I know that I can do it.


I think it's lovely that you are going for virtualization. See going for SharePoint (on the architect side) would help because if your server is scaled-up with, e.g. 192 GB of PHYSICAL RAM! and at least QUAD CORE - you can run multiple virtualization instances on the same box without the farm going ka-put!

Remember: never put SQL Server 2008 R2 or SQL Server 2012 in a virtual environment, but you can put your SharePoint Application servers and WFE's in the virtual realm and configure than Host and Alias Names on a DNS Server virtualization instance as well as Service Applications, Query, and Crawl virtual server instances.

Since you are going for cloud, ALSO look into VSphere by VMWare as well as VMWare Workstation (version 9 or 10 now??). If physical RAM is an issue, use the open-license Oracle VirtualBox for now for practice if getting vSphere v5+ would pose a problem.

Win 7, get in the next couple of years because Win 9 will become the standard by then. Learn about BitLocker, policy changes and get some PowerShell under your belt too. Powershell can load any .NET assembly snapin and go to work on, e.g. SharePoint farms, Exchange Server configs, SQL Server configs and automation, Office Automation, etc.
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Postby aozora13 » Sat Sep 14, 2013 11:55 pm

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
aozora13 wrote:E, I know what you mean. I am hoping to get 1 cert for Win 7 and possibly for Private Cloud. I am not sure about SharePoint for my MCSE. I am thinking too vmware and citrix. This will possibly be in 2014 so I know that I can do it.


I think it's lovely that you are going for virtualization. See going for SharePoint (on the architect side) would help because if your server is scaled-up with, e.g. 192 GB of PHYSICAL RAM! and at least QUAD CORE - you can run multiple virtualization instances on the same box without the farm going ka-put!

Remember: never put SQL Server 2008 R2 or SQL Server 2012 in a virtual environment, but you can put your SharePoint Application servers and WFE's in the virtual realm and configure than Host and Alias Names on a DNS Server virtualization instance as well as Service Applications, Query, and Crawl virtual server instances.

Since you are going for cloud, ALSO look into VSphere by VMWare as well as VMWare Workstation (version 9 or 10 now??). If physical RAM is an issue, use the open-license Oracle VirtualBox for now for practice if getting vSphere v5+ would pose a problem.

Win 7, get in the next couple of years because Win 9 will become the standard by then. Learn about BitLocker, policy changes and get some PowerShell under your belt too. Powershell can load any .NET assembly snapin and go to work on, e.g. SharePoint farms, Exchange Server configs, SQL Server configs and automation, Office Automation, etc.


Thanks. I currently have my MCSA but I see that I need more experience. Possibly SharePoint or Private Cloud could be on my table for next year. This fall is small since I am burnt out taking 5 exams this year (4 MSFT and 1 Security +) Good luck on your exam next week.
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Re: Places happier abroad that are not in southeast Asia?

Postby djfourmoney » Sun Sep 15, 2013 3:04 am

Mr.Darcy wrote:All I hear are the phillipines and Thailand. Im not attracted to Asian women that much to live there


You don't read much do you?

Like White Women? Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Argentina, Peru, Venezuela, Chile and Brazil

Like Olive Skin women (sometimes White/Light skin)? Any Southern European Country (Spain, Italy Portugal, Greece, Turkey), Central/South America

Like Black Women? Ethiopia by far, Colombia, Dominican Republic, Haiti, Brazil, Ghana

Thailand has many expats in it, not just old anglo men that struggle with women back home. Quite a few Russians, Aussies and others live there. The women especially have it difficult because unless they like Asian men (most don't) they find it difficult to date. However they are there for business reasons, not social/personal.

Here's what you should do.

Go to this web site - http://www.donatingplasma.org/

Go for about six months straight and don't spend the money. You should make at least $250 a month if not more = $1500

Take that money and go down to Dominican Republic, a RT ticket runs about $500. That leaves you a $1,000.

Go to Sousa, DM

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1ZiksivIsc[/youtube]

He says bring $2,500; That's nonsense, I know plenty who have gone for $1,000. Obviously you can spend more depending on what your doing but good clean hostel and some cheap b***y to tap, shouldn't run you more than that for week to ten days.

All you need is a passport card, not a full passport. But I highly suggest you get a full passport. Once you have it, its good for ten years. The card will allow you to go Mexico, Canada and the Caribbean only.

If you're ass is broke like most students and you want to relocate, I highly suggest Central America, where you could easily live on about $500US a month and if you don't have a single business thought in your head, you can work at a call center in Guatemala. You could study now and get your TEFL and go to Brazil where the need for native English speaking teachers is extremely high.

So what excuses are you going to bring up?
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Postby djfourmoney » Sun Sep 15, 2013 3:25 am

Halwick wrote:
Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:

* link to porn video removed



Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.

I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.

For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.


Bringing your wife back to the US is a complete myth because all you hear about is the other people that have failed. You suppose to learn from failure not take it as gospel or as proof that your opinion is made by somebody else's misfortune.

As the saying goes, get excellent customer service or any other positive experience, you hear crickets.

Get shafted, terrible service, taken to the cleaners, its the worst thing ever and you can't wait to tell others.

I don't think it's human nature, I think its a reaction to adversity in life, people seldom want to experience disappointment alone = Misery Loves Company.

Say your life is great and your wife is perfect and people will dismiss that like its a fantasy. How can you even know what a functional, loving relationship looks like, if all you're surrounded by is dysfunction and a child of divorce?

Sort of like asking a divorced guy for marriage advice, nobody in their right mind would actually do that, but a idiot is born every minute.

A while back a poster told the story of his marriage to a Russian woman who was from the war-torn Caucasus region. Everything seemed okay, he was a Navy vet. About a decade into the marriage, she had educated herself and went to work for one of the major bio-tech companies. Too him at least, she asked him for a divorce out of the clear blue sky.

Now what I have learned over the year is that men don't pay attention to hardly anything in a relationship. That is, until the sex stops... As far as I understood about this guy's story is that the sex didn't stop, so there was no cause for concern from his POV. They had a good life, both worked, had children, two cars and house.

Who knows what really caused her to ask for a divorce, but a doubting Thomas would say "Oh she got her education, thought she didn't need him anymore and wanted an upgrade".

That could be true, in fact I will go as far as saying that might be the case. Where did he make his error? Getting a woman with a traumatic past and from object poverty = White Knight Syndrome

He even said that possibly could have been his mistake. I say it was, as I keep saying; Lots of guys get C grade women and live happily ever after, but like that bargain Chinese knock off product you bought, sometimes that works out and it's a pleasant surprise, but when it doesn't work out well, you curse it until the cows come home and will tell anybody that will listen.

You date/marry a poverty stricken, poorly educated woman at your own peril.

But the most common mistake I see from men that end up failing is that he was never sure how the woman felt about him.

Sure our society can have a negative influence on people, but just like a good chunk of America doesn't buy into it, the same goes for most women that have agreed to be your wife and live with you in your home country.
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Postby Ghost » Sun Sep 15, 2013 11:13 am

Hmm...pretty much anywhere but Anglo countries?

Mr. Darcy, I think all you need to do is go somewhere. Do some research first and plan as well as you can, but just go. I had tons of doubts before coming to China. Just yesterday a cute Chinese girl approached me and gave me her number. Do you think that would ever happen in the U.S.?

Unless you went to Zimbabwe or North Korea or places like those, you can pretty much only do better than where you are now...
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Postby zboy1 » Sun Sep 15, 2013 1:19 pm

Ghost wrote:Hmm...pretty much anywhere but Anglo countries?

Mr. Darcy, I think all you need to do is go somewhere. Do some research first and plan as well as you can, but just go. I had tons of doubts before coming to China. Just yesterday a cute Chinese girl approached me and gave me her number. Do you think that would ever happen in the U.S.?



Hey Ghost, I've had similar experiences with the women here as well...except in my case, the women don't come up to me--I come up to them, :lol:

Of course I get rejected at times--either because they don't know any English or because they got boyfriends or husbands already--but I just walk up to any women I like and ask...And sure, I get stared at sometimes by other Chinese when I do this, but just today I got phone numbers from two attractive Chinese females--both of whom speak good English. What luck huh?
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Postby zacb » Sun Sep 15, 2013 7:28 pm

djfourmoney wrote:
Halwick wrote:
Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:

* link to porn video removed



Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.

I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.

For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.


Bringing your wife back to the US is a complete myth because all you hear about is the other people that have failed. You suppose to learn from failure not take it as gospel or as proof that your opinion is made by somebody else's misfortune.

As the saying goes, get excellent customer service or any other positive experience, you hear crickets.

Get shafted, terrible service, taken to the cleaners, its the worst thing ever and you can't wait to tell others.

I don't think it's human nature, I think its a reaction to adversity in life, people seldom want to experience disappointment alone = Misery Loves Company.

Say your life is great and your wife is perfect and people will dismiss that like its a fantasy. How can you even know what a functional, loving relationship looks like, if all you're surrounded by is dysfunction and a child of divorce?

Sort of like asking a divorced guy for marriage advice, nobody in their right mind would actually do that, but a idiot is born every minute.

A while back a poster told the story of his marriage to a Russian woman who was from the war-torn Caucasus region. Everything seemed okay, he was a Navy vet. About a decade into the marriage, she had educated herself and went to work for one of the major bio-tech companies. Too him at least, she asked him for a divorce out of the clear blue sky.

Now what I have learned over the year is that men don't pay attention to hardly anything in a relationship. That is, until the sex stops... As far as I understood about this guy's story is that the sex didn't stop, so there was no cause for concern from his POV. They had a good life, both worked, had children, two cars and house.

Who knows what really caused her to ask for a divorce, but a doubting Thomas would say "Oh she got her education, thought she didn't need him anymore and wanted an upgrade".

That could be true, in fact I will go as far as saying that might be the case. Where did he make his error? Getting a woman with a traumatic past and from object poverty = White Knight Syndrome

He even said that possibly could have been his mistake. I say it was, as I keep saying; Lots of guys get C grade women and live happily ever after, but like that bargain Chinese knock off product you bought, sometimes that works out and it's a pleasant surprise, but when it doesn't work out well, you curse it until the cows come home and will tell anybody that will listen.

You date/marry a poverty stricken, poorly educated woman at your own peril.

But the most common mistake I see from men that end up failing is that he was never sure how the woman felt about him.

Sure our society can have a negative influence on people, but just like a good chunk of America doesn't buy into it, the same goes for most women that have agreed to be your wife and live with you in your home country.


I never thought of it that way per se. Yeah, I get that poverty stricken people are more likely to have problems, but reminds me of what Stefan Molyneux said about how a persons experience with let's say aggression, will reflect upon themselves, and thus into society. Thanks for posting.
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Postby kai1275 » Sun Sep 15, 2013 7:59 pm

djfourmoney wrote:
Halwick wrote:
Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:

* link to porn video removed



Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.

I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.

For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.


Bringing your wife back to the US is a complete myth because all you hear about is the other people that have failed. You suppose to learn from failure not take it as gospel or as proof that your opinion is made by somebody else's misfortune.

As the saying goes, get excellent customer service or any other positive experience, you hear crickets.

Get shafted, terrible service, taken to the cleaners, its the worst thing ever and you can't wait to tell others.

I don't think it's human nature, I think its a reaction to adversity in life, people seldom want to experience disappointment alone = Misery Loves Company.

Say your life is great and your wife is perfect and people will dismiss that like its a fantasy. How can you even know what a functional, loving relationship looks like, if all you're surrounded by is dysfunction and a child of divorce?

Sort of like asking a divorced guy for marriage advice, nobody in their right mind would actually do that, but a idiot is born every minute.

A while back a poster told the story of his marriage to a Russian woman who was from the war-torn Caucasus region. Everything seemed okay, he was a Navy vet. About a decade into the marriage, she had educated herself and went to work for one of the major bio-tech companies. Too him at least, she asked him for a divorce out of the clear blue sky.

Now what I have learned over the year is that men don't pay attention to hardly anything in a relationship. That is, until the sex stops... As far as I understood about this guy's story is that the sex didn't stop, so there was no cause for concern from his POV. They had a good life, both worked, had children, two cars and house.

Who knows what really caused her to ask for a divorce, but a doubting Thomas would say "Oh she got her education, thought she didn't need him anymore and wanted an upgrade".

That could be true, in fact I will go as far as saying that might be the case. Where did he make his error? Getting a woman with a traumatic past and from object poverty = White Knight Syndrome

He even said that possibly could have been his mistake. I say it was, as I keep saying; Lots of guys get C grade women and live happily ever after, but like that bargain Chinese knock off product you bought, sometimes that works out and it's a pleasant surprise, but when it doesn't work out well, you curse it until the cows come home and will tell anybody that will listen.

You date/marry a poverty stricken, poorly educated woman at your own peril.

But the most common mistake I see from men that end up failing is that he was never sure how the woman felt about him.

Sure our society can have a negative influence on people, but just like a good chunk of America doesn't buy into it, the same goes for most women that have agreed to be your wife and live with you in your home country.


Another high quality post!
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:13 pm

aozora13 wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
aozora13 wrote:E, I know what you mean. I am hoping to get 1 cert for Win 7 and possibly for Private Cloud. I am not sure about SharePoint for my MCSE. I am thinking too vmware and citrix. This will possibly be in 2014 so I know that I can do it.


I think it's lovely that you are going for virtualization. See going for SharePoint (on the architect side) would help because if your server is scaled-up with, e.g. 192 GB of PHYSICAL RAM! and at least QUAD CORE - you can run multiple virtualization instances on the same box without the farm going ka-put!

Remember: never put SQL Server 2008 R2 or SQL Server 2012 in a virtual environment, but you can put your SharePoint Application servers and WFE's in the virtual realm and configure than Host and Alias Names on a DNS Server virtualization instance as well as Service Applications, Query, and Crawl virtual server instances.

Since you are going for cloud, ALSO look into VSphere by VMWare as well as VMWare Workstation (version 9 or 10 now??). If physical RAM is an issue, use the open-license Oracle VirtualBox for now for practice if getting vSphere v5+ would pose a problem.

Win 7, get in the next couple of years because Win 9 will become the standard by then. Learn about BitLocker, policy changes and get some PowerShell under your belt too. Powershell can load any .NET assembly snapin and go to work on, e.g. SharePoint farms, Exchange Server configs, SQL Server configs and automation, Office Automation, etc.


Thanks. I currently have my MCSA but I see that I need more experience. Possibly SharePoint or Private Cloud could be on my table for next year. This fall is small since I am burnt out taking 5 exams this year (4 MSFT and 1 Security +) Good luck on your exam next week.


I think acquiring 5 IT certs in one fiscal year rocks hard!!! I think it's awesome that you are doing that well, guy. Thank you for your good-hearted wishes. I will do well this Saturday! :-)
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:21 pm

zboy1 wrote:
Ghost wrote:Hmm...pretty much anywhere but Anglo countries?

Mr. Darcy, I think all you need to do is go somewhere. Do some research first and plan as well as you can, but just go. I had tons of doubts before coming to China. Just yesterday a cute Chinese girl approached me and gave me her number. Do you think that would ever happen in the U.S.?



Hey Ghost, I've had similar experiences with the women here as well...except in my case, the women don't come up to me--I come up to them, :lol:

Of course I get rejected at times--either because they don't know any English or because they got boyfriends or husbands already--but I just walk up to any women I like and ask...And sure, I get stared at sometimes by other Chinese when I do this, but just today I got phone numbers from two attractive Chinese females--both of whom speak good English. What luck huh?


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Postby djfourmoney » Sun Sep 15, 2013 10:34 pm

zacb wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:
Halwick wrote:
Jeremy wrote:I used to feel the same way. But I can assure you if you were pulling Asian girls who look and f**k like this, you'd be perfectly content:

* link to porn video removed



Jeremy, I stand by my convictions. Besides, it's her OUTSIDE the bedroom attitude you're gonna have to deal with. You have no idea what that girl in the video is REALLY like outside the bedroom.

I've found Asian women while IN THEIR NATIVE COUNTRY, have to behave a certain way, i.e., properly respectful and compliant to the man. They also have to show they know how to take care of the man, otherwise they lose face....in their country. You take them to the USA where women don't have to respect men and they'll quickly adopt that attitude.

For example. Filipinas, while they're in the Philippines, don't believe in divorce. But take them to the USA where divorce is perfectly acceptable and they won't hesitate to divorce you once they get their green cards and drain your assets.


Bringing your wife back to the US is a complete myth because all you hear about is the other people that have failed. You suppose to learn from failure not take it as gospel or as proof that your opinion is made by somebody else's misfortune.

As the saying goes, get excellent customer service or any other positive experience, you hear crickets.

Get shafted, terrible service, taken to the cleaners, its the worst thing ever and you can't wait to tell others.

I don't think it's human nature, I think its a reaction to adversity in life, people seldom want to experience disappointment alone = Misery Loves Company.

Say your life is great and your wife is perfect and people will dismiss that like its a fantasy. How can you even know what a functional, loving relationship looks like, if all you're surrounded by is dysfunction and a child of divorce?

Sort of like asking a divorced guy for marriage advice, nobody in their right mind would actually do that, but a idiot is born every minute.

A while back a poster told the story of his marriage to a Russian woman who was from the war-torn Caucasus region. Everything seemed okay, he was a Navy vet. About a decade into the marriage, she had educated herself and went to work for one of the major bio-tech companies. Too him at least, she asked him for a divorce out of the clear blue sky.

Now what I have learned over the year is that men don't pay attention to hardly anything in a relationship. That is, until the sex stops... As far as I understood about this guy's story is that the sex didn't stop, so there was no cause for concern from his POV. They had a good life, both worked, had children, two cars and house.

Who knows what really caused her to ask for a divorce, but a doubting Thomas would say "Oh she got her education, thought she didn't need him anymore and wanted an upgrade".

That could be true, in fact I will go as far as saying that might be the case. Where did he make his error? Getting a woman with a traumatic past and from object poverty = White Knight Syndrome

He even said that possibly could have been his mistake. I say it was, as I keep saying; Lots of guys get C grade women and live happily ever after, but like that bargain Chinese knock off product you bought, sometimes that works out and it's a pleasant surprise, but when it doesn't work out well, you curse it until the cows come home and will tell anybody that will listen.

You date/marry a poverty stricken, poorly educated woman at your own peril.

But the most common mistake I see from men that end up failing is that he was never sure how the woman felt about him.

Sure our society can have a negative influence on people, but just like a good chunk of America doesn't buy into it, the same goes for most women that have agreed to be your wife and live with you in your home country.


I never thought of it that way per se. Yeah, I get that poverty stricken people are more likely to have problems, but reminds me of what Stefan Molyneux said about how a persons experience with let's say aggression, will reflect upon themselves, and thus into society. Thanks for posting.


You are often the product of your life experiences. As in relationship, my parents have been married, both twice. Only my biological father didn't remarry and died alone in his bed. He lived a decent life, but the last twenty or so years have been filled with many a night alone. He tried to socialize with friends, but as with many people around 60 years of age, your friends start passing away for a variety of reasons.

I don't view marriage, children, relationships are being bad as long as they aren't completely dysfunctional.

But I can see how somebody from a single parent household, from house full of chaos like a alcoholic parent (which I have experience with). I stay a far away from women with issues at home, resentful of their parents, abused by parents or any other issue. That might be harsh, but I like my mental health.

Molyneux has a degree in psychology, his views on relationships shouldn't surprise you and you don't hear him speaking about MGTOW, he's married with children and a wife for ten years.

He explained the reasons why men in America are shunning marriage, they don't see any value in it. I get that as well, but the solution is not to drop out altogether.

You are a man you're suppose to look for solutions to problems, that is how your programmed.
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Postby zacb » Mon Sep 16, 2013 12:13 am

True. I guess I get how people in the third world sometimes jew people down and such as a child, and it translate to a bad marriage, but I never thought in terms of X=Y. Very interesting regardless.

As for finding solutions, I think the best thing you can do is improve yourself, since you are the only you you can control. Thanks for the input. :)
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Postby zboy1 » Mon Sep 16, 2013 7:43 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
zboy1 wrote:
Ghost wrote:Hmm...pretty much anywhere but Anglo countries?

Mr. Darcy, I think all you need to do is go somewhere. Do some research first and plan as well as you can, but just go. I had tons of doubts before coming to China. Just yesterday a cute Chinese girl approached me and gave me her number. Do you think that would ever happen in the U.S.?



Hey Ghost, I've had similar experiences with the women here as well...except in my case, the women don't come up to me--I come up to them, :lol:

Of course I get rejected at times--either because they don't know any English or because they got boyfriends or husbands already--but I just walk up to any women I like and ask...And sure, I get stared at sometimes by other Chinese when I do this, but just today I got phone numbers from two attractive Chinese females--both of whom speak good English. What luck huh?


I see that you have courage like a Black dude now. I think you like Hip-Hop and that you miss Rosenberg on Hot 97. LMAAAAAAAAO


Yeah, no kidding! It's not that I never went up to women I liked in the U.S.--it's just that most of time, the women there would give me an attitude, get nervous and uncomfortable and think I'm some kind of creep, or threaten to call the cops on me or something for harassment, LOL.

Winston is not lying when says that women in foreign countries i.e. Russia, Asia, Latin America, even in the Middle East (an Arab acquaintance of mine states this...), are approachable and act very feminine around you. Some even appreciate the fact that you are willing to go up to them and ask for a date or phone number or something...They actually think it is flattering, unlike what a lot of Anglo skanks think!
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Re: Places happier abroad that are not in southeast Asia?

Postby skateboardstephen » Mon Sep 16, 2013 8:43 pm

djfourmoney wrote:
Mr.Darcy wrote:All I hear are the phillipines and Thailand. Im not attracted to Asian women that much to live there


You don't read much do you?

Like White Women? Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Argentina, Peru, Venezuela, Chile and Brazil

Like Olive Skin women (sometimes White/Light skin)? Any Southern European Country (Spain, Italy Portugal, Greece, Turkey), Central/South America

Like Black Women? Ethiopia by far, Colombia, Dominican Republic, Haiti, Brazil, Ghana

I keep trying to tell you brothers what time it is in Brazil.Many people talk but i am the ony one on this forum that i know if that has been here for a year straight almost..If you are Black and you like White women or non-Black women..Brazil is not going to deliver like you think it would.I keep telling you all this over and over...even White American guys that i work with who are ballers complain that White women in Brazil are stuck up...and these Mixed or Parda women who are middle class are on that money,money,status shit...Your bread and butter women as a Black man are going to be your poorer Black women...and your Poor Parda/Mulatto women in the favelas...and Brazil is also pretty racist against Black people...other Black American men i have met here have made the same observations...even White Gringos..told me they know they have an advantage in Brazil because they are White...but that is only with Darker women...White women don`t even give them play..like that.
You can find a Brazilian women if you really want to...but you have to have realistic standards...and don`t be thinking you are going to land a super model....Your game needs to be tight...hit the gym,master Portuguese and have a big bank account as a Black man here..i am telling you.
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se eu soubesse o que eu sei hoje, teria mando mulheres americanas para foder-se há muitos anos.que deus abençoe o brasil!
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