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Postby RedMenace » Wed Oct 02, 2013 4:58 pm

Walking to and from university, I have realised something interesting about people in the UK to be specific. You can tell whether someone is confident in their own skin with a simple look. As I walk towards someone, I briefly look them in the eyes with a blank facial expression. Over 90% of people will instantly look away. I now regularly look at girls with a blank facial expression because I can tell if this girl is a good candidate for manipulation or not. I can tell a lot about their self esteem from just a look. Anyways more on that later.

I seem to find myself in a situation where by I know people but don't have "friends". I suppose it takes time. Besides what many people consider friendship is not really what they think it is. Usually they are sheep following the dominant individual. When they do decide to "socialise", it involves sitting together on their phones doing whatever they do. How is this suppose to be interesting. The only things discussed within such friendship circles are night out plans or stories from their "pub crawls". All of these things I find lame. I am more interested in having philosophical debates and discussing current world issues. Now I really don't sacrifice my needs just to be a part of some lame friendship group and not be considered a loner. I would rather go it alone because then I have the freedom to do what I want. Might seem selfish but it's not. I prefer speaking to mature people because they know what the real world is all about and don't get offended when you speak the blunt reality. Most people I find myself amongst are bubble heads who think talking the blunt truth is negative. They want everything sugarcoated.

Like I was saying about looking at girls, I can pretty much spot a bubble head girl by looking at their face. At this point I don't make a move because I know what they will say if a guy hits on them on the street. You guessed right. They will call you a creep. So I suppose I have to play their game and do the hitting in a place more appropriate. Uni is a sausage fest. I regularly see 3 guys all trying to get this one girl. This might seem like a difficult environment for hitting on girls but it's not because about 80% of these guys are playing the nice guy game. They are too scared to advance their "friendship" to the next level. Most are even too scared to hit on these girls. Instead they try to be friend them. I just have to seek out the girl with the low self esteem and pounce. Mind you my intention is not to get a wife lol. It's only to use. :lol: Because my intention is to use, I can go for average and slightly below average looking girls. Like they say p***y doesn't have a face. Statistically speaking I have a very high chance of catching something in such a sea. Just have to choose the right location and time to strike. Right now I am positioning myself in environments where by I can hit on girls without looking like the infamous creep label they seem to use.
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Postby jamesbond » Wed Oct 02, 2013 5:19 pm

Wow, the UK sounds just like the United States. Most of the time when you make eye contact with someone in America, they immediately look away from you, especially the women.

Cold approaching women in the USA is a complete waste of time. Even though "pickup artists" will tell you otherwise.
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Postby OTB » Wed Oct 02, 2013 11:17 pm

Cold approaching women in the USA is a complete waste of time. Even though "pickup artists" will tell you otherwise.


Also, the notion that if you can't approach a woman you're not man enough or have no balls.
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Re: Social Interactions

Postby Jester » Thu Oct 03, 2013 2:26 am

RedMenace wrote:Walking to and from university, I have realised something interesting about people in the UK to be specific. You can tell whether someone is confident in their own skin with a simple look. As I walk towards someone, I briefly look them in the eyes with a blank facial expression. Over 90% of people will instantly look away. I now regularly look at girls with a blank facial expression because I can tell if this girl is a good candidate for manipulation or not. I can tell a lot about their self esteem from just a look. Anyways more on that later.

I seem to find myself in a situation where by I know people but don't have "friends". I suppose it takes time. Besides what many people consider friendship is not really what they think it is. Usually they are sheep following the dominant individual. When they do decide to "socialise", it involves sitting together on their phones doing whatever they do. How is this suppose to be interesting. The only things discussed within such friendship circles are night out plans or stories from their "pub crawls". All of these things I find lame. I am more interested in having philosophical debates and discussing current world issues. Now I really don't sacrifice my needs just to be a part of some lame friendship group and not be considered a loner. I would rather go it alone because then I have the freedom to do what I want. Might seem selfish but it's not. I prefer speaking to mature people because they know what the real world is all about and don't get offended when you speak the blunt reality. Most people I find myself amongst are bubble heads who think talking the blunt truth is negative. They want everything sugarcoated.

Like I was saying about looking at girls, I can pretty much spot a bubble head girl by looking at their face. At this point I don't make a move because I know what they will say if a guy hits on them on the street. You guessed right. They will call you a creep. So I suppose I have to play their game and do the hitting in a place more appropriate. Uni is a sausage fest. I regularly see 3 guys all trying to get this one girl. This might seem like a difficult environment for hitting on girls but it's not because about 80% of these guys are playing the nice guy game. They are too scared to advance their "friendship" to the next level. Most are even too scared to hit on these girls. Instead they try to be friend them. I just have to seek out the girl with the low self esteem and pounce. Mind you my intention is not to get a wife lol. It's only to use. :lol: Because my intention is to use, I can go for average and slightly below average looking girls. Like they say p***y doesn't have a face. Statistically speaking I have a very high chance of catching something in such a sea. Just have to choose the right location and time to strike. Right now I am positioning myself in environments where by I can hit on girls without looking like the infamous creep label they seem to use.



Since you are happy in the Anglo-Zone, and want to pump-and-dump, which is standard, and are seeking to victimize, rather than to love, perhaps you would be happier on a PUA forum than here.
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Postby jamesbond » Thu Oct 03, 2013 9:03 am

OTB wrote:
Cold approaching women in the USA is a complete waste of time. Even though "pickup artists" will tell you otherwise.


Also, the notion that if you can't approach a woman you're not man enough or have no balls.


Yes, PUA's will say that your not psyching yourself enough if you don't approach a lot of women. Pursuing women in America is like banging your head up against a wall. Your going to get a ton of rejection and the PUA's will tell you, your doing enough and need to purchase even more PUA material. WTF? :shock:
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Postby RedMenace » Thu Oct 03, 2013 1:55 pm

Wow lol. It's interesting to see how people behave when they try to seat on a chair that has someone else sitting on it. They will always try to skip a seat or extremely space themselves out. It's like people are scared of anyone and everyone they don't know. If the seats were in a dark alley then I would understand but they aren't. They are in a well lit public area with people going in and out of.
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Postby tre » Thu Oct 03, 2013 6:24 pm

RedMenace wrote:Wow lol. It's interesting to see how people behave when they try to seat on a chair that has someone else sitting on it. They will always try to skip a seat or extremely space themselves out. It's like people are scared of anyone and everyone they don't know. If the seats were in a dark alley then I would understand but they aren't. They are in a well lit public area with people going in and out of.



^^^Not sure why this is weird? I'd rather not be seated right next to someone I don't know if I can help it...I'd rather have my space. I do the same thing when using a Urinal....lol.

I also don't think that the "looking away when looked at" tendency is only found in western countries. They may not be in the mood to talk, they may be shy/intimidated, etc....any variety of reasons. They look away all the time in Singapore. My buddy over there doesn't let them get away with it though, he approaches anyway...often with good results. THAT is the difference between Asian countries and the USA. He'd get shut down HARD with those same approaches in the USA. I was literally shocked to see it working for him over there in Singapore and Thailand. These women were WAY above his head in the looks department. He's a short, Asian guy that actually prefers white women. I think that Asian women aren't "all that" to him so he has an easy time with them....
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