Why are most American girls flirty?
Posted: October 4th, 2013, 9:18 am
Fake smiles, laugh at everything I say, play with hair, they touch me a lot. Why do women go out of their way to do this?
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really?momopi wrote:Look down at her feet. If she is actually paying attention to you, her toes will likely be pointed toward you. If she acts like she is interested but her feet is pointed elsewhere, she's likely not interested in you.
Please note, body language differs from culture to culture and is not 100% accurate. What is acceptable or desirable in one culture may be offensive (i.e. prolonged direct eye contact) in another.
Yes. Body language has been proven by extensive social psychology research and findings. Verbal is only 10% of communication, the rest is non-verbal. Best way to gauge incongruency (laymen for how full of shit they are) is if their BL matches verbal.Mr.Darcy wrote:really?momopi wrote:Look down at her feet. If she is actually paying attention to you, her toes will likely be pointed toward you. If she acts like she is interested but her feet is pointed elsewhere, she's likely not interested in you.
Please note, body language differs from culture to culture and is not 100% accurate. What is acceptable or desirable in one culture may be offensive (i.e. prolonged direct eye contact) in another.
Ya you are right we can know by body language about other person. And thanks for this info, would like to know some more.deasil875 wrote:Yes. Body language has been proven by extensive social psychology research and findings. Verbal is only 10% of communication, the rest is non-verbal. Best way to gauge incongruency (laymen for how full of shit they are) is if their BL matches verbal.Mr.Darcy wrote:really?momopi wrote:Look down at her feet. If she is actually paying attention to you, her toes will likely be pointed toward you. If she acts like she is interested but her feet is pointed elsewhere, she's likely not interested in you.
Please note, body language differs from culture to culture and is not 100% accurate. What is acceptable or desirable in one culture may be offensive (i.e. prolonged direct eye contact) in another.
OK, This whole anti-american girl thing has crossed the line for what is reasonable. They just can't win can they?Mr.Darcy wrote:Fake smiles, laugh at everything I say, play with hair, they touch me a lot. Why do women go out of their way to do this?
The problem with body language is that common body language indicators have all been "learned" by the average layman. So that if you're slightly sociopathic like myself, then you can definitely "trick" people into accepting whatever "vibe" you want to give them.JaiGrimstone wrote:Ya you are right we can know by body language about other person. And thanks for this info, would like to know some more.deasil875 wrote:Yes. Body language has been proven by extensive social psychology research and findings. Verbal is only 10% of communication, the rest is non-verbal. Best way to gauge incongruency (laymen for how full of shit they are) is if their BL matches verbal.Mr.Darcy wrote:really?momopi wrote:Look down at her feet. If she is actually paying attention to you, her toes will likely be pointed toward you. If she acts like she is interested but her feet is pointed elsewhere, she's likely not interested in you.
Please note, body language differs from culture to culture and is not 100% accurate. What is acceptable or desirable in one culture may be offensive (i.e. prolonged direct eye contact) in another.
Yes, this guy gets it. OP, are you sure you're talking about American girls?Jeremy wrote:I've never had a girl act that way around me. They all have a sourpuss face, won't look at me, and give one word answers while sounding annoyed (probably so I don't get the wrong idea). The few times a girl has smiled at or been nice to me, I've been completely taken aback. But even in those rare cases, there was never a flirty vibe.
no, they tease and play hard to getHouseMD wrote:She finds you attractive, it isn't rocket science. PUA types call these things indicators of interest, or IOIs.
Girls don't tease men they find gross or abrasive. You never see girls flirting with obese and unkempt men, nor do they flirt with unattractive older men. Basically, Western women view unattractive men as nothing but potential predators, and disgusting ones at that. They gain no validation from tempting such men, as their affections are assumed. To tempt them would do nothing but invite rape in their minds, a completely undesirable scenario, as they have already deemed such men unfit for mating.Mr.Darcy wrote:no, they tease and play hard to getHouseMD wrote:She finds you attractive, it isn't rocket science. PUA types call these things indicators of interest, or IOIs.
Mr.Darcy wrote:I have been told im good looking, but im black so that contradicts