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Why are most American girls flirty?

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Postby tre » October 7th, 2013, 7:32 am

Mr.Darcy wrote:I have been told im good looking, but im black so that contradicts



Um...what? Being black in the USA is not a disadvantage. If they are flirting with you, they may just like you for exactly who you are. I have very attractive black friends that pull AMERICAN chicks ALL THE TIME....easier than I could. Seriously, I think you are taking them the wrong way. I might be mistaken, but it seems that you need to respect yourself more than you do.
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Postby Mr.Darcy » October 7th, 2013, 2:10 pm

Ya, but I go to a college in east tn where most of the students are rich wanna be redneck comservatives.
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Postby HouseMD » October 7th, 2013, 2:54 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:Ya, but I go to a college in east tn where most of the students are rich wanna be redneck comservatives.

Maybe part of your problem is that you are stereotyping everyone and assuming they are doing the same to you? Shooting yourself in the foot, as it were.
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Postby Mr.Darcy » October 7th, 2013, 4:06 pm

HouseMD wrote:
Mr.Darcy wrote:Ya, but I go to a college in east tn where most of the students are rich wanna be redneck comservatives.

Maybe part of your problem is that you are stereotyping everyone and assuming they are doing the same to you? Shooting yourself in the foot, as it were.
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Postby tre » October 7th, 2013, 11:47 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:How do I gain confidence


Start by making a list of things you don't like about yourself. Then do what is needed to cross them off the list over time. Some of the things on your list will be things that you will have to deal with internally and learn to accept. Some things just can't be changed. Some things you shouldn't want to change. Make the mental adjustment and cross those off your list. If there is a legitimate need for improvement somewhere, then go about fixing it. Don't relocate until you have yourself figured out. If you can't love and respect yourself for who you are, you can't expect a woman to....
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Postby Arabian_prince » October 25th, 2013, 5:18 am

I doubt that American women are flirty. They lack social skills, not all of them but most.

They dont know how to attract guys or anythign. They expect the man to do all the work.
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Postby kai8482 » October 25th, 2013, 9:11 pm

Arabian_prince wrote:I doubt that American women are flirty. They lack social skills, not all of them but most.

They dont know how to attract guys or anythign. They expect the man to do all the work.


But aren't we supposed to lead the woman though/
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Postby rudder » October 31st, 2013, 7:35 am

Sure, but sweet foreign women, will actually inspire us to do the work. Otherwise it just becomes a chore.
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Postby Winston » October 31st, 2013, 11:13 am

The question in this thread title isn't even true. Didn't you see the stats posted by Jamesbond about how AW are the LEAST flirtatious in the world?

Flirtation is considered creepy, taboo and violating in America, esp in the Seattle area. It's a negative thing, not a positive thing.

In most other countries though, it's a positive thing and creates energy and excitement. Women are flattered to be hit on.
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Re: Why are most American girls flirty?

Postby steve55 » November 2nd, 2013, 2:00 am

Mr.Darcy wrote:Fake smiles, laugh at everything I say, play with hair, they touch me a lot. Why do women go out of their way to do this?


Mr Darcy. Let the professor set you straight. They aren't. In fact, American women are the 2nd to last least flirtatious in the entire world!!! Sorry, but you got this one wrong. See irrefutable proof here where I document this study and have the video upload also:

http://www.globaldatingsolution.com/main-thesis.html#20
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Postby Rayn » November 2nd, 2013, 8:26 am

Winston wrote:The question in this thread title isn't even true. Didn't you see the stats posted by Jamesbond about how AW are the LEAST flirtatious in the world?

Flirtation is considered creepy, taboo and violating in America, esp in the Seattle area. It's a negative thing, not a positive thing.

In most other countries though, it's a positive thing and creates energy and excitement. Women are flattered to be hit on.


I thought this thread was at first about women who flirt with everybody and their daddies, not neccesarily for the express intent of showing real interest. In other words, women who flirt just for the heck of it.

I was about to give a nice pointer on that regard - Women don't actually flirt with a guy they like AS SMOOTHLY as they would with some random dudes in a social setting (unless she and that guy she likes are already in a relationship).

I had girls flirt with me before (yeah, here even in heavily Anglo-influenced Malaysia) - and those who meant it were always looking to the side to hide embarrassment, with their approach awkward, yet commendable. The girls who were very direct, flawless and confident in their approach? 100% fake. They were just doing it cause they think of themselves as the hottest shit on the toilet and they deserve males all over to fawn over them.
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