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Postby Billy » Mon Oct 28, 2013 9:05 am

WHAT ABOUT THE KIRGHIZ GIRL IN PINK YOGA PANTS????????

DID YOU EVER TAKE HER OUT TO DINNER????


Jester, we hanged last we week almost every day at the park doing sports. i taught her basketball, martial arts, dancing, we did make karaoke, i teached her running, she teached me russian a little bit. all in the park...

her somekind of sister came from kirgiztan then things went downward because obviously she hanged together and they were on fashion mode not on sports mode and i was the old guy. turkish boys approached them and they feld quite bad and wanted my help so i escorted them did some white knighting as the bastards kept approaching. they were a real pain in the ass. - recently she doesn´t come for sports to the park maybe she goes to another one. - anyway don´t think her mom would appreciate me as an oldie, come on she 16. The law doesn´t allow it and turkey is a big COCKBLOCKER as everybody knows it and i am to lazy to chase chicks.

recently i found internations. expats in ankara doing halloween and things i logged in but was not inspirated to go there....

anyway it was nice knowing her and i now know why her legs looks so nice because she sqats a lot at home....

epicureen lifestyle baby.
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Postby OTB » Sun Nov 03, 2013 5:44 pm


Caltovegas

The body is basically a shell and just because what looks good outside may not be good inside. That being said as a man I am part superficial. It's very easy for a man to have sex with a body and care less about the person inside. Yes ladies i know that's wrong but that's the way it is.

So when looking for a long term relationship I say just make sure you find someone who will be there if you get sick. Looks are great but looks go away..
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I see someone else is on the same wavelength.
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Postby HouseMD » Sun Nov 03, 2013 8:36 pm

Jester wrote:
HouseMD wrote:
Tsar wrote:
I am after everything. Very attractive, nice personality, virtuous, virgin, and young (15-19) so she will be the closest thing to a true princess.



You should really up the age rage to 16-19 if you wish to avoid prosecution, what with the PROTECT Act and all. Even if it is legal overseas, your 15 year old princess that doesn't exist will land you an extradition and 15 years of being your cellmate's princess in a federal pen if you were ever "fortunate" enough to meet her and have some sex.



Dr. House is trying to help here, wisely, but let's be clear, there is no law against a young guy like Tsar chatting with a high school girl.

And lots of teen girls get married, but almost never without parents' permission.

And such is easily given if a young man seems sincere, has an income, and the girl is amenable. Piece of cake, actually. Ask ANY parent of a daughter anywhere (outside the Anglosphere and Northern Europe).

The 16 year old limit I believe is kind of a trafficking thing - don't fly the girl somewhere for a nefarious purpose if she is under 16.

In my experience, most girls from age 13 on are thinking of boys (or thinking of their own attributes) most of the time. Thus beginning a romance with a girl aged from 15 to 19 is normal, particularly for a young guy like Tsar.

There was a time we used to hold hands first, you know.

True. I'm just saying hold back on the sexy time until it's legal. If even the slightest word gets back to the authorities or they have reason to Believe something had gone down (I.e. a marriage certificate issued to a 15 year old) they will be on your ass and never let up. Catching people that are viewed as child predators can massively boost the career of a federal prosecutor, so please, watch your ass.

If you want to understand the sort you are dealing with, watch West ofMemphis. If state prosecutors get away with what went on in that documentary, I can only imagine the witch hunts that go on at the federal level.

Also I still disagree with Cornfed about the beating thing. I've seriously never had a woman "misbehave" aside from the sorts of things that were relationship ending anyway, in which case physical punishment would just be an exercise in rage. Of course my girlfriends generally respect me, something that he likely does not experience if he has had to reach the point of physical discipline.
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Postby djfourmoney » Sun Nov 03, 2013 9:53 pm

Looks do matter, to deny yourself is to buy into the Feminist mantra, which is making BBW's acceptable.

Of course you should care about the contents, that should be obvious. I am not here to prevent idiots from making sometimes very expensive mistakes, why?

Because unfortunately some have to learn painful because they are so rigid = Tsar
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Postby SilverEnergy » Mon Nov 04, 2013 11:26 pm

djfourmoney wrote:Looks do matter, to deny yourself is to buy into the Feminist mantra, which is making BBW's acceptable.

Of course you should care about the contents, that should be obvious. I am not here to prevent idiots from making sometimes very expensive mistakes, why?

Because unfortunately some have to learn painful because they are so rigid = Tsar


For sure, looks definitely do matter because that's what men place as a priority when picking women.

Inner contents matter but to say that looks don't matter is not correct.
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Postby OTB » Tue Nov 05, 2013 12:41 am

Yes they do matter, but men put too much emphasis on a woman being hot and sexy. I'm not saying to go after women you're not attracted to.

The point I was trying to make was that in the long run it comes down to the type of person she is. The type of heart she has. Not how she looks. I'm not saying you can't find an attractive woman who will be there by your side to support you and help you during tough times with a great personality. They do exist.

So be with someone you're attracted to. But don't forget the main objective which is to focus on what's going on inside of her mind. Listen to what she says. Watch what she does. Is she consistent in her behavior? Does she make you feel wanted? Is she authentic? There's a lot men need to be looking at more than how she looks to determine if she's wife material. That's all I'm saying.
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Nov 05, 2013 1:04 am

HouseMD wrote:True. I'm just saying hold back on the sexy time until it's legal. If even the slightest word gets back to the authorities or they have reason to Believe something had gone down (I.e. a marriage certificate issued to a 15 year old) they will be on your a** and never let up. Catching people that are viewed as child predators can massively boost the career of a federal prosecutor, so please, watch your a**.

This is probably good advice, but that good men take it is one of the reasons females are now attracted to dirtbags. By the time the female is of legal age she has already been f***ed by numerous dirtbags, so by then they have become the object of her sexual orientation and she naturally concludes that the dirtbags are the hot studs society expects her to have sex with, while good men are beta losers. What a tradgedy. I have noticed that when you ask jailbait their age they will often lie in front of witnesses and say they are whatever the age of consent is, so ... You still might get into trouble of course, but then as we've seen you could say that about any contact with females of any age these days.

Also I still disagree with Cornfed about the beating thing. I've seriously never had a woman "misbehave" aside from the sorts of things that were relationship ending anyway, in which case physical punishment would just be an exercise in rage. Of course my girlfriends generally respect me, something that he likely does not experience if he has had to reach the point of physical discipline.

As a former teacher I can tell you that kids want and need discipline, and females are just grown children. The mark of a decent strong man is showing leadership by enforcing known rules with known proportionate punishment. Direct physical punishment is preferred, because it is more effective, means you don't have do play abusive head games and results in stronger bonding. Furthermore, this force-of-personality stuff is bullshit. If kids, dogs or females are behaving themselves in the long term, it just means that they are subject to some kind of punishment and reward system keeping them in line that may not be at first apparent. Generally, you woud want to enforce appropiate discipline in the form of assbeatings and such.
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Postby Halwick » Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:43 am

I've heard it said that a man doesn't insist on absolute beauty in a woman who helps him, cooperates with him, cares for him and makes him happy. After a while he realizes she is beautiful; he just hasn't noticed it at first.

On the other hand, if she has a sweet voice, a pleasant disposition, can cook and keep house, I'll just take my glasses off (I'm literally blind without them) and she'll look fine to me. LOL!

But seriously, a presentable appearance, i.e., height-weight-proportionate, healthy complexion, nice hair arrangement, dresses nice, will initially matter as an opener. When you approach and converse with her (assuming she's willing to be approached) and you discover personality and disposition equally nice, then there might be potential for a future relationship.

I've met some really attractive (both western and Asian) women who, after about 15 or so minutes of conversation, turned out to be first-class BITCHES. Not worth getting involved with that type, not matter how attractive.
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Postby rudder » Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:51 am

this bears repeating: http://www.rooshv.com/the-boner-test


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Cornfed, don't forget to mention that some women get off on the physical punishment.
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Nov 05, 2013 10:02 am

rudder wrote:this bears repeating: http://www.rooshv.com/the-boner-test


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Cornfed, don't forget to mention that some women get off on the physical punishment.

Oh sure, and within a relationship they can specifically be expected to be satisfied that they are with a strong caring man who can be expected to use what force is necessary to resolve stuff. Think of it in evolutionary terms. If the man is not willing or able to use physical force to correct a weak female when she is behaving badly, how is he going to fight off cave bears and such? Also, females know at some level that they are prone to do stupid shit, and so want a man to relieve them of the burden of freedom, grievous for their tiny female brains to bear, and take charge of them. Physically correcting them in the right way is an act of love and provides them with a sense of security, as well as sexual excitement.
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Postby rudder » Fri Nov 08, 2013 5:10 pm

Spank away!
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Postby HouseMD » Fri Nov 08, 2013 7:48 pm

Physical attractiveness will determine the success of your children in everything from mate selection to business. That should be reason enough to look for an attractive woman to marry- everything else is just a big bonus.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/wir ... attractive
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Postby rudder » Mon Nov 11, 2013 7:06 am

Yes but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some people on here want trailer trash (i.e. they think most of the American celebs are ideal) and others prefer Mayan highland girls from Guatemala. Yet the latter image is not being shoved down everyone's throats at every turn in this society.
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Postby djfourmoney » Mon Nov 11, 2013 7:14 am

rudder wrote:Yes but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some people on here want trailer trash (i.e. they think most of the American celebs are ideal) and others prefer Mayan highland girls from Guatemala. Yet the latter image is not being shoved down everyone's throats at every turn in this society.


HouseMD is right. You can bury your head in the sand if you want, but as long as you live in a modern society, this will be the case. Now there's plenty of people that have dropped out and went native. In those cases yes, looks don't matter that much because nobody is beautiful.

Honestly while I am not ugly and I've never been called ugly directly or indirectly; I demand an attractive wife because as House MD says society will be more accepting of you and your children.

It has multiple implications, don't discount it. Of course what's in her head is most important but you don't marry brown paper bags do you? (or do you?)
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Postby Taco » Mon Nov 11, 2013 7:18 am

Sexy woman = lies, divorce court and poverty
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