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Each man has his own preferences I guess. That's a good thing because it proves that men are more capable of independent judgment and are not herd animals like most women are.
Personally, that is the most attractive woman I have ever seen on this site. She really does it for me, at least from a visual perspective. She looks especially appealing in the second-last and third-last photos. Having said that, I would not want to stick around with someone like her (no matter how attractive I find her) if she turned out to be a complete bitch. Attractive but bitchy women are only good for casual flings and are not suitable for serious relationships. This is something that I do not waver on.
As for the guy, I wouldn't say that he is hideous. More like average-looking with an obvious boost from his net worth and status.
Thanks for being honest in your opinion.
shes not the hottest I've ever seen.but defintely is a 10/10.I still think the Teenage Brooke Shields is waay hotter than her.
as is Toni Garrn.
Neta Alchamister and Chanel Celaya are on her level too,imo.
Guys,if she is a total SWEETHEART to YOU,ADORES you,is faithfull to YOU,does it matter how she is to other men?
if she would be nice to you and give you everything you seek in a relationship,but is bitchy to other men,so what?
men are your competitors.lol they'd f**k her behind your back if they could.
Those other girls are attractive, but don't really do much for me personally. In terms of skin color, I like girls who are a little dark, but not too dark. Examples would include: white women who are naturally tan (such as Mediterranean women), latinas, and some mixed-race women. Jessica Alba in her prime is one of the best examples of what I like:
If a woman is bitchy to other men for no good reason, that is a huge warning sign for me as there could be something wrong with her personality that she just hadn't revealed to me yet. At the other extreme, being flirty with other men while in a relationship would also raise a red flag. I've known attractive married women who were friendly to other men (myself included) but weren't too friendly and flirty towards them. That is how I would want my wife to be around others if I ever got married. That's what I would consider normal.
For the most part, I would tend to agree about white women not having much staying power. Even some of them in my age range (late-20s to early-30s) are showing noticeable signs of aging already. A notable exception would be some Mediterranean women. One time I was taking a train up to Montreal and I was chatting with this gorgeous, darker-skinned Greek-American woman who was in her 40s. Let me tell you, she preserved her beauty a lot longer than most white woman do! She was simply stunning, especially for a woman her age! I noticed the same thing amongst many middle-aged women in Italy, France, and Mexico. Not so much in Northern European countries... or amongst older pale women in the U.S. and Canada.
It doesn't matter....in the beginning. However, deep issues tend to come out eventually. There is no good reason to be bitchy to other men unless these men are pushy. There is also no good reason to flirt with other men if they are with someone already. A polite decline should be the expectation and the reasonable way to handle these situations.
Men and women are BOTH competitors for the opposite sex. People, in general, are selfish and don't care about hurting others. This is a big problem in today's world, especially in the USA. When I knew a girl was involved with someone, I ignored her. I did not flirt with her and did not accept any invitations from her. Some women do the same thing when in a relationship. However, you have those (male and female) that have no loyalty. I remember one instance as a bartender when a fitness model asked me to come up to her room. I told her that I was in a relationship so would have to pass. She laughed and flashed her wedding ring at me. She couldn't believe I'd turn her down. Later that night, I looked her up online using her name (she'd bought drinks with her credit card) and I saw that she was married with TWO KIDS. f***ing whore! That job made me see the worst in people...glad I don't do that job anymore.
If a white women keeps her youthful looks until mid-twenties, she's doing really well. There is a very small minority of "white" women that can look pretty good up until late 20's or early 30's, but they are usually a mix of Italian, etc....not really "pale". In contrast, look at Jessica Alba right now at 32 years old...she looks great. I think she has several years before age finally starts to really show. A large percentage of Asian women that are able to take care of themselves (not in poverty, no drug/alcohol addiction, etc.) are also able to keep their youthful looks well into their 30's. My Filipina GF is 29 now and people guess she is much younger. However, I can see that age is now starting to show....just a bit. The same goes for me too though (almost 37) so not complaining...lol.
You're right about a lot of Asian women, and I will also add black women. I once knew this black women in her 40s who could have easily passed for a college-aged girl. Recently, I saw an infomercial featuring Chili from TLC (remember her?) She didn't look a day older than she did in the 1990s.
As a white male, I am glad that we generally tend to age a little more gracefully than our female counterparts as long as we stay in good physical shape and dodge the baldness bullet.