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Postby Teal Lantern » December 3rd, 2013, 10:43 am

C.J. wrote:The only thing nice guys win at, IS BEING LAST.

Take it from me, I was an angel before I was 27. You can guess what I like being now. :lol:


bad boys get laid
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/11/ ... uantified/

good guys get played
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/2013/11/23 ... -surprise/

That's the ladies' choice, but I won't be picking up the pieces later.
Glad I wasn't "chosen" during my nice guy years.

Schadenfreude boner for Avril and Rose's "results". 8)
не поглеждай назад. 8)

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Postby Grandlovie » December 3rd, 2013, 12:42 pm

Ghost wrote:So just choose nice guys if you live in America. (I'm assuming. Please correct me if I'm wrong.) America is overflowing with nice, non-aggressive guys, nerds, dorks, betas, and other similar types. You should have no problem. And if this is what you like, I don't think going abroad will "help" you. Guys abroad are much more likely to be aggressive, not care about your feelings, and probably won't be nerds.


You are totally right I do live in America, but I live in California. The city I live in is like full of losers like douche bag type losers. And while there are many nice non-aggressive guys in America I have dated some and we're friends but I don't think America is overflowing with nice men. I am sure there are more nice guys then women I agree 1,000,000,000 percent. Honestly, in Korea I don't know, but the guys out there not all of course, but the ones that I met (I have a guy friend in Korea who I have a crush on) were so similar to me and were my type they never pressured to me to do anything I didn't want to even though some do just use foreign women for sex and when approaching me were never disrespectful. Now I can say the same thing for some guys I have met in America, but I feel like you are more likely to run into aggressive men. But I think it's like this because guys think they have to do this which they probably do since I admit a lot of us like these types.
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Postby Ghost » December 3rd, 2013, 3:02 pm

Grandlovie wrote:
Ghost wrote:So just choose nice guys if you live in America. (I'm assuming. Please correct me if I'm wrong.) America is overflowing with nice, non-aggressive guys, nerds, dorks, betas, and other similar types. You should have no problem. And if this is what you like, I don't think going abroad will "help" you. Guys abroad are much more likely to be aggressive, not care about your feelings, and probably won't be nerds.


You are totally right I do live in America, but I live in California. The city I live in is like full of losers like douche bag type losers. And while there are many nice non-aggressive guys in America I have dated some and we're friends but I don't think America is overflowing with nice men. I am sure there are more nice guys then women I agree 1,000,000,000 percent. Honestly, in Korea I don't know, but the guys out there not all of course, but the ones that I met (I have a guy friend in Korea who I have a crush on) were so similar to me and were my type they never pressured to me to do anything I didn't want to even though some do just use foreign women for sex and when approaching me were never disrespectful. Now I can say the same thing for some guys I have met in America, but I feel like you are more likely to run into aggressive men. But I think it's like this because guys think they have to do this which they probably do since I admit a lot of us like these types.


Ah, the friend-zone, the destination for every nice guy in America.
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Postby OTB » December 4th, 2013, 12:31 am

@Grandlovie

But..what do you mean by put a woman in her place? How? If I may ask. And I am assuming you have bad experiences with women? Am I right?


When I say put her in her place I mean I would let her know that I won't tolerate being talked to and treated like I'm beneath her or as if I'm a child. That needs to be corrected right away! That's her place. To treat me as I treat her.

And I haven't had bad relationships. To be honest I haven't had too many relationships. But the ones that I had, I had to let them know I won't tolerate unnecessary attitudes. Sometimes girls will test you to see if you'll put them in their place. And I had to do just that, but in a calm, assertive manner. I don't like to raise my voice. I can get my point across without yelling.

Men should never be afraid to tell their girlfriends, fiancés, or wives how they feel about the way their being talked to or treated. It's called communication.
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