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Validation isn't worth it

Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:18 pm

So Yesterday I f***ed a legit model looking Italian girl from milan.a hoe.p4p.I payed to access the p***y.

her skin was soft like Ghee.it was pink.her legs were long.black hair and the cutest face I´ve ever seen(0 masculine features,wich even many victoria secret models have,Aegyo sal eyes).

I came in a few minutes,when it usually takes me an hour or so.KoolAid smile and all.

So I went out,and I saw all these dudes at bars talking to average women.some ugly.

I figured..the only reason they do this is validation.there is no other logical reason.

but let me ask you this,when you are f***ing an average or ugly looking girl,are you not fantasizing about f***ing a dime ?

I am.

so why would it be different for women.you think they aren´t fantasizing about some hunk or celebrity?

so how are they exactely validating you? unless you´re a model looking dude is there a point in trying to get a huge notch count? in that case you wouldn´t even be chasing women,they would be chasing you.

why do men deny themselves the pleasures of p4p p***y if its high quality,and why do they chase average looking girls.relationships only make sence if you want company and children.unless you are male model tier.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ol-NMKIuyjM[/youtube]

I think men crave validation from women,and need women more than they need us.the male mother need.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0aL13Z-XQ8[/youtube]

its instinctual.and it wastes so much time,money and basically keeps society afloat.

even where p4p is legalized,men chase women.even if its hugely disadvantageous,and wastes their time,money and freedom.

men want validation.thats our weakness.not any laws,or feminism.its validation.not access to p***y,we see men deny themselves hot p***y for a meager but ´´validating´´lay with a subpar but interested girl.
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Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:27 pm

****Nude photos of escorts removed***

* Attention: Please do NOT post nude photos or links to escorts sites here, unless it's in the NSFW section. I've already told you all this many times. I've had to remove them in order to keep this thread out of the NSFW section, otherwise it would not be as visible.


theprimebait:

lets assume you´re a baller and a handsome man,the problem is such women are so rare,that even if you were Apollo himself,you would not have much access to these types of girls.you would maybe see 2 girls a month that look like her,if you´re lucky.most social circles have no access to such women.and usually they are taken.

so what do you think your chances are as a average male,to score such a woman ,why do men not pay for this,most men will not even touch a woman of this calibre.
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Postby In2dadark » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:40 pm

Are those pics of her? Not sure. I don't P4P because using a condom is like f***ing a blow up doll. Waste of money unless you enjoy paying to touch everything but the inside of her p***y...? If you're not using a condom, well ... good luck w/ that.

I'll get to know a woman & if she's safe, I'll stick w/ one at least until I get bored. If she's the right one, I'll never get bored. < I doubt that will ever happen; but one can hope. Then again, she could as well.
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Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:46 pm

In2dadark wrote:Are those pics of her? Not sure. I don't P4P because using a condom is like f***ing a blow up doll. Waste of money unless you enjoy paying to touch everything but the inside of her p***y...? If you're not using a condom, well ... good luck w/ that.

I'll get to know a woman & if she's safe, I'll stick w/ one at least until I get bored. If she's the right one, I'll never get bored. < I doubt that will ever happen; but one can hope. Then again, she could as well.


use 0.02 condoms or the recent Sagami .0.01 condoms.

no,its not her.I haven´t had the $ for those 2 hoes,yet.
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Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:56 pm

In2dadark wrote:Are those pics of her? Not sure. I don't P4P because using a condom is like f***ing a blow up doll. Waste of money unless you enjoy paying to touch everything but the inside of her p***y...? If you're not using a condom, well ... good luck w/ that.

I'll get to know a woman & if she's safe, I'll stick w/ one at least until I get bored. If she's the right one, I'll never get bored. < I doubt that will ever happen; but one can hope. Then again, she could as well.


I´m not really trying to say escorts are more attractive than civilians.I´m trying to discuss that the only reason men chase civilians is validation.they may delude themselves that they want companionship or easier sex,but it all boils down to validation.

and my argument is that a civilian cannot validate you unless you are male model tier,and even then they are validating a lucky placement of facial bones due to luck.not you,as a person.

if someone argues that escorts are too expensive,I counter that with time,and self/respect,loss of dignity and stress are more expensive,plus in places like poland escorts cost 30 euros for GFE.

with 3000 euros you could f**k 100 hoes,there.but still most mother craving dudes will choose to spend it trying to find a gf or a asset to impress some whore.you got married 100k a yr dudes that don´t even get p***y from their ugly wives!

my god,if I had 100k in the bank,I would die of exctasy due to overload of dopamine (too many nutting in vaginas!),can you believe some fools spend that on a Ferrari?lmao
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Postby In2dadark » Wed Dec 25, 2013 7:57 pm

There is also something chemical that goes on during sex. You shut down that interaction w/ your .001 condom. If I'm having sex, that is one of the things I want to feel the most. In other words, you/I/we feel the woman for days after sex via chemical reaction. And women experience it as well.

With a condom, you'll still get 'some' of that I'm sure. But still not the same.
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Postby In2dadark » Wed Dec 25, 2013 8:05 pm

theprimebait wrote:
In2dadark wrote:Are those pics of her? Not sure. I don't P4P because using a condom is like f***ing a blow up doll. Waste of money unless you enjoy paying to touch everything but the inside of her p***y...? If you're not using a condom, well ... good luck w/ that.

I'll get to know a woman & if she's safe, I'll stick w/ one at least until I get bored. If she's the right one, I'll never get bored. < I doubt that will ever happen; but one can hope. Then again, she could as well.


I´m not really trying to say escorts are more attractive than civilians.I´m trying to discuss that the only reason men chase civilians is validation.they may delude themselves that they want companionship or easier sex,but it all boils down to validation.

and my argument is that a civilian cannot validate you unless you are male model tier,and even then they are validating a lucky placement of facial bones due to luck.not you,as a person.

if someone argues that escorts are too expensive,I counter that with time,and self/respect,loss of dignity and stress are more expensive,plus in places like poland escorts cost 30 euros for GFE.

with 3000 euros you could f**k 100 hoes,there.but still most mother craving dudes will choose to spend it trying to find a gf or a asset to impress some whore.you got married 100k a yr dudes that don´t even get p***y from their ugly wives!

my god,if I had 100k in the bank,I would die of exctasy due to overload of dopamine (too many nutting in v****as!),can you believe some fools spend that on a Ferrari?lmao


(Outside of my chemistry argument) You may have a point. Dunno. Have dropped out of all of it for a time. The U.S. is dead to me. Hope to travel soon. What is GFE?
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Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 8:10 pm

Imagine having a cute-hot loyal wife,for appearances and children,a mistress on the side,and visiting escorts and cheap hoes with super sensitive condoms(the future for this will only get better!)and living with video games,weed,and little work.

thats what life is about.no questions asked.

the only thing that comes close is mail order bride rotation theory.

http://aestheticguide.blogspot.nl/2013/ ... y-men.html

anything else is chasing a carrot.seriousely.
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Postby In2dadark » Wed Dec 25, 2013 8:42 pm

theprimebait wrote:Imagine having a cute-hot loyal wife,for appearances and children,a mistress on the side,and visiting escorts and cheap hoes with super sensitive condoms(the future for this will only get better!)and living with video games,weed,and little work..


Most of it sounds good. Why have a loyal wife for appearances? Whom are we trying to impress & why? Why not just omit the wife & do all the other stuff instead of putting a nice girl through that, if that is what you crave.? If you think the wife is not going to find out about the rest, think again.
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Postby Pinaylover » Wed Dec 25, 2013 9:04 pm

I like ladyboys/ ts girls.. I f***ed this pornstar a few months ago it was p4p $300 but worth every penny


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UJoJdlmNKc
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Postby droid » Wed Dec 25, 2013 9:30 pm

Good for you Primebait. A man shouldn't deny himself being with hot women, life is too short.

What is your location? not everywhere do you have to be chasing and 'entertaining' spoiled women to gain some attention.
In many places hot women do chase you, or at least it's equal effort from both parties, even if you're not a +10 hunk. It just feels normal.
In normal places, women actually crave male companionship and cut you a break on the looks.

This acquaintance of mine married this hot 16 yo in South America when he was 36 :o. He was just an average-looking, but industrious guy
that was trying to start his own small company. He did not have to 'chase' and bend over backwards for this.

It also depends if you require only 10s to be happy. Personally if she passes the kiss test (7-10) I can have 100% fun, I don't think about
a Ferrari when driving a Mercedes (lame analogy).

I also don't agree with the strict classification between p4p and non-p4p some make; All women want something from you,
they don't abstractly accept you "for who you are" like some guys expect. It's some value they see in you, be it humor, money (straight up cash or flashy assets), looks, intellect, drive, tenderness etc; It's an exchange, no matter what.
Even Will-N-dowd offered Looks alone, it wasn't "for who he was" (not judging, i think that was great).
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Postby HouseMD » Wed Dec 25, 2013 9:35 pm

I don't get the whole p4p thing. As I've said before, real sex is like hunting, while p4p is like paying someone to put a deer in a room then shooting it. p4p is just a sad mockery of real sex, love, and connection. If you've ever gotten a girl to beg you to f**k her, you'd know she isn't imagining some model in your place. Women are mostly about the mental side of sex, not the physical. Your error is in assuming women think like you.

Sex is also very much about power. A hoe holds total power over you in such an arrangement- she sets the rules and can stop working at any time. In a genuine sexual relationship, the man holds the bulk of the power if he isn't a p***y. Sleeping with a hoe is therefore something I consider emasculating and beneath me. Anyway, I've had some perfect girls in my day without paying, so why pay?

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Not that I'm judging. It just isn't my cup of tea.
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Postby fschmidt » Wed Dec 25, 2013 10:14 pm

Congratulations theprimebait, you have become a successful asshole. I won't congratulate HouseMD because he was obviously born an asshole.
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Postby HouseMD » Wed Dec 25, 2013 10:19 pm

fschmidt wrote:Congratulations theprimebait, you have become a successful asshole. I won't congratulate HouseMD because he was obviously born an asshole.

I'm almost convinced I was genetically engineered to be one.
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Postby theprimebait » Wed Dec 25, 2013 10:23 pm

Pinaylover wrote:I like ladyboys/ ts girls.. I f***ed this p**nstar a few months ago it was p4p $300 but worth every penny


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UJoJdlmNKc


f***ed so many Transexuals here in the RDL amsterdam....

most are super pretty and more feminine than women.but I am a freak,so I love more than just the p***y!lol

here they cost only 50 bucks,my first was 30 bucks,I actually did not know she was a tranny,I decided to give it a Try and I´ve been a fan ever since.mostly f***ed colombian Tgirls,but had 2 dutch ones.also 1 puerto Rican Tgirl.those colombianas got big Asses!lol

would love to try a Asian Ladyboy Though.

they give better head than any woman,I know.

droid wrote:Good for you Primebait. A man shouldn't deny himself being with hot women, life is too short.

What is your location? not everywhere do you have to be chasing and 'entertaining' spoiled women to gain some attention.
In many places hot women do chase you, or at least it's equal effort from both parties, even if you're not a +10 hunk. It just feels normal.
In normal places, women actually crave male companionship and cut you a break on the looks.

This acquaintance of mine married this hot 16 yo in South America when he was 36 :o. He was just an average-looking, but industrious guy
that was trying to start his own small company. He did not have to 'chase' and bend over backwards for this.

It also depends if you require only 10s to be happy. Personally if she passes the kiss test (7-10) I can have 100% fun, I don't think about
a Ferrari when driving a Mercedes (lame analogy).

I also don't agree with the strict classification between p4p and non-p4p some make; All women want something from you,
they don't abstractly accept you "for who you are" like some guys expect. It's some value they see in you, be it humor, money (straight up cash or flashy assets), looks, intellect, drive, tenderness etc; It's an exchange, no matter what.
Even Will-N-dowd offered Looks alone, it wasn't "for who he was" (not judging, i think that was great).


I´m actually goodlooking and got alot of women in highschool.thats beside the point,though.
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