Validation isn't worth it

[droid]

Now, Bill Gates can party all he wants.

Gates was brought up within the Matrix, and thus had to write an OS from scratch in order to finally get laid. I guess he can now feel "validated"
and appreciated for "who he is".

I'm glad all the blue-pillers are not willing to see things are not black and white; they won't go abroad and ruin things for the rest of us.
Just carry on getting validatedâ„¢ for your "skills".

[SilverEnergy]

Why do we discuss p4p so much on these forums???

Going overseas should be more than just banging women and more about true revitalization of the inner self.

Screw women and screw p4p.

Chase your money and wealth instead!

Because human beings need intimacy and physical contact. This is why it preoccupies so much of men's time online or off-line. No man is 100% focused on making money, if they are, they have no social life at all.

Nothing wrong with P4P it exist for a reason but its not affordable in the US because of the religious right and puritanism mostly. Yes some on the left, especially women have a problem with it but that's because they stereotype women in the adult industry as "victims", even when you present evidence to the opposite, they still scoff and say they are victims of men running the country/economy.

If chasing money was more clearly defined, much of these problems would go away.

Sometimes you have to sacrifice your social life to achieve your true goals and dreams.

Bill Gates and Steve Jobs didn't engage in all the partying and other nonsense and that's why they got to where they are at.

Now, Bill Gates can party all he wants.

Ask any computer nerd who is making millions or billions in Silicon Valley and they will all tell you that they were not popular with girls, didn't have many friends, didn't connect well with people.

Now, the people who ignored them are their employees.

Sacrifice and disciple is what one needs in order to reach their potential in life.

The most successful men in the world got there by forgetting about the partying, girls and other frivilous elements of life to focus on their dreams.

THEN once they achieved their dreams, then they can start living it up.

Guys want the women before the money and put women before their dreams.

It should be the other way around.

And that's why most people don't do the things they want to do in life because they can't let go of life's pleasures temporarily to focus on their dreams.

Well they did those things in their 20's. Sorry but you can't ask a man who is 40 to push the total reset button. Actually I have done just that and that's why its tough sledding. There are some things I just won't do and that includes working service sector jobs, I've done it before, I don't like working weekends.

If that's the majority of low hanging fruit (and it is) with the majority of unemployed people applying for those jobs; then that creates as scenario of more applicants than jobs available, which is what we have now.

I agree wealth building should be the priority but you are not acknowledging the role of the media in this. Constantly showing you sexually suggestive images and connecting sex with alcohol/spirits/parties.

As I said and you didn't address it, its still not cut and dry to create wealth otherwise I would be doing it. Part of that equation at least for me is not returning to school for four years.... It has to be something else.

The answer to this is the answer to one of the greatest questions ever.

Why do some people get rich and others do not?

Once you figure out the answer to this, your mind will be free.

It's not so much what you do that makes you wealthy, it's your thoughts.

There are many good books about this, some of which are posted in the Books section of HA.

[S_Parc]

Seriously, did anyone here ever see the old TV series, "Married With Children"?

After a mediocre marriage with kids, all Al Bundy ever wanted was freedom with strippers & h@@kers. Now, that was show from 15+ years ago but it seems to have resonated with a lot of ppl, even during its run. Something which a lot of ppl believe is more truth than fiction.

So why are we having this discussion circa 2014? If a man's happier b@ning hoes, so be it.

[theprimebait]

most rich people were in the right time and the right place.becoming Rich has nothing to do with hard work.lmao

its a mix of sociopathy and luck.nothing more.

[theprimebait]

You guys are still going in circles.p4p is not expensive,as in poland and EE its only 30 $ for a whole HOUR.so the money excuse cannot be given.

Noone said to not have a hot gf.what I'm saying is that geting a hot gf is a matter of looks,luck,circumstance.there are not enough hot women to goa round.hell,I only see 3 hot women per week here(really hot,not mediocre hot)and they are always dating some scumbag loser or a baller.even if everyone was hot enough for these women or Thuggish enough,there still would just not be enough to go around.

so do you chase mediocre women and ugly women?some people will,thats their prerogative.I personally only see the hunt worth it if the meat is good,if you know what I'm saying.Get me here.


you guys still haven't told me the logic behind valdiation.we as humans should be able to override irrational inner drives Thru logic.


most women I see are ugly.jailbaits are the only hot ones on average.most women literally repulse me.the hot older ones always cna apss for Jailbait,anyway.

its not even personality,I'm sure alot fo these women ahev ncie personalities.its literally they repulse me,their faces,their skin,their bodies.Maybe I am gay,who knows.but msot women above a certain age repulse the f**k out of me.I don't know how anyone can make loved to that.

[The_Adventurer]

Now, Bill Gates can party all he wants.

Gates was brought up within the Matrix, and thus had to write an OS from scratch in order to finally get laid.

Gates actually didn't write anything. He bought it cheap from someone who didn't understand what they had.

[Teal Lantern]

p4p/brothels/escorts should not be discussed on this site, what is there to discuss? Anybody who got spare $100 can do it, It is not challenging by any stretch of imagination, doesn't do shit for your self esteem,growth, confidence, etc
Where I live there is like few hundred brothels and rates range from $100-$200 per 30 minutes BUT can you really enjoy f***ing woman that had sex with 10 guys that day and uses bucket loads of lubricant cause she cant get wet??
On average they f**k 10 guys a day, 50 a week, 200 dicks per month....

What about when Aunt Flo is visiting?

[djfourmoney]

p4p/brothels/escorts should not be discussed on this site, what is there to discuss? Anybody who got spare $100 can do it, It is not challenging by any stretch of imagination, doesn't do shit for your self esteem,growth, confidence, etc
Where I live there is like few hundred brothels and rates range from $100-$200 per 30 minutes BUT can you really enjoy f***ing woman that had sex with 10 guys that day and uses bucket loads of lubricant cause she cant get wet??
On average they f**k 10 guys a day, 50 a week, 200 dicks per month....

What about when Aunt Flo is visiting?

What Aunt Flo? If you're on the shot (more than likely) you don't get your period, that's part of the appeal (no headaches, etc).

[djfourmoney]

You guys are still going in circles.p4p is not expensive,as in poland and EE its only 30 $ for a whole HOUR.so the money excuse cannot be given.

Noone said to not have a hot gf.what I'm saying is that geting a hot gf is a matter of looks,luck,circumstance.there are not enough hot women to goa round.hell,I only see 3 hot women per week here(really hot,not mediocre hot)and they are always dating some scumbag loser or a baller.even if everyone was hot enough for these women or Thuggish enough,there still would just not be enough to go around.

so do you chase mediocre women and ugly women?some people will,thats their prerogative.I personally only see the hunt worth it if the meat is good,if you know what I'm saying.Get me here.


you guys still haven't told me the logic behind valdiation.we as humans should be able to override irrational inner drives Thru logic.


most women I see are ugly.jailbaits are the only hot ones on average.most women literally repulse me.the hot older ones always cna apss for Jailbait,anyway.

its not even personality,I'm sure alot fo these women ahev ncie personalities.its literally they repulse me,their faces,their skin,their bodies.Maybe I am gay,who knows.but msot women above a certain age repulse the f**k out of me.I don't know how anyone can make loved to that.

I understand mayne trust me.

This funky morally around P4P is sort of funny. Then they bring up cost, which you and myself have rightly said is much cheaper than taking some average chick out on a date only to end up with a kiss on the cheek because in Western Society she has several male suitors, even if she's average in looks and especially if she's not more than 5-10-15 lbs overweight.

Europe is a little bit different, most of the women are not overweight because portions are smaller, though you can get super-sized meals in many countries.

P4P is cheap, even in Germany which is where I have experience. 65 Euro entry fee gets you fee non-alcoholic drinks you want and if you come in at the right time free buffet. You also have access to low cost spa services even massages without the "happy ending" strictly legit massage only.

The women are extra, usually 50 Euro for standard service add another 50 for things like more time (1 hour) or anal (if offered).

Most Western men are wrapped up in making a good first impression because as I just said, most women even average looking women have several male suitors, especially if they are fairly thin, never married and childless.

Also in the unmentioned rules of engagement; average woman will put out sooner than really attractive woman. I don't know why they needed to commission a study to confirm this, its totally obvious. Under age 30, a woman's most valuable asset is what is between her legs and the ability to bear healthy children. How much value depends on the outside package. Ferrari's look the way they do and cost that much for a reason. You pay about 1/4 of that for a Toyota Camry and as a recent Dodge Charger advert said "I'm pretty sure nobody has a picture of a Camry on their walls..."

Let's be honest average looking women don't get you hard and the imagination running, it never has and if it does, you need to get laid TONIGHT!

This is where that long thread by OTB makes about as much sense as smoking does. Looks are important, above all else, nope, but that doesn't stop people from making it a priority does it?

This is also the same as being afraid of success... To win at the game of "life" means winning comprehensively. Why do you think Western culture celebrates "Winners" and decries "Losers"?

Anyway, P4P is cheaper than dating. If you're paying $200-$300 a session you're a fool and especially if you're banging an actual porn star at that point.

However its not a lifestyle its a means to an end...

[djfourmoney]

most rich people were in the right time and the right place.becoming Rich has nothing to do with hard work.lmao

its a mix of sociopathy and luck.nothing more.

True and most are hoarders but instead of Barbie Dolls or action figures its money. They also believe they are helping the world despite all the evidence pointing to the opposite.

That said as Woody Allen has been quoted saying "80% of Life is just showing up", that's why I don't understand the primary goal of relocation is to find another job you hate?

In a society or culture that revolves around the type of job you do (how you are identified, status, income) the goal of getting that better job and more money is not so you can live more comfortable, its so you can impress women, let's not be foolish about this. For women its to avoid poverty at all cost, much different because income/status does not totally impact her ability to find a rich guy. How many examples do you have to be shown of Rich men who have married women without the wealth and status and much of time no prenup?

I notice most of the men talking about prenuptial agreements have nothing (no real assets), so please spare me the rare exception of some dude who makes over $100K or is involved with the family business that's quite profitable and may need some legal protection.

This is not you, don't put on his shoes.

I said sometime back I think on the RU Adventures forum that you travel overseas to change your luck economically with women. In those countries women are still likely to be poor/working poor/lower middle class without the additional income of her husband. Why don't you think divorce aren't higher among the economic elites in Latin America and elsewhere? These women were snatched up young with little to no job skills and not much more than high school education.

This lack of fundamental understanding of how other cultures work is what keeps most men in America, on the sidelines complaining.

[rudder]

Why do some people get rich and others do not?

Once you figure out the answer to this, your mind will be free.

It's not so much what you do that makes you wealthy, it's your thoughts.

There are many good books about this, some of which are posted in the Books section of HA.

Why do millions of the people who read those books and apply the knowledge following the dogmatic thought-patterns presented therein, not become rich? Of course proponents of those books have the convenient plausible deniability of saying that the reader didn't really follow the thought patterns, but they can't KNOW for sure if the readers followed the thought patterns or not.

It all pretty much boils down to who you know, and refraining from planning anything that would revolutionize human life/jeopardize a mega-elite's empire. There are plenty of talented, genious people out there that are absolutely relegated to the margins of society, and completely unable to obtain the funds to put their dreams into reality. Becoming rich is a cut-throat, violent, sociopathic and often nepotistic way to live one's life, because the ultra-wealthy ultimately control where money flows based on their various foundations, banking schemes and gov't goon squads. Those books should really teach people how to supplicate and kiss ass to the mega-elite. Then they could be called get-rich books.

Tell the thousands of inventors that had gov't raids done on their projects to read one of those get-rich books.