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I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

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Postby manly5000 » February 27th, 2014, 2:42 am

I'll try to dig some up for ya.

The areas I remember reading about, specifically the "friendly and outgoing towards gringos" bit, was in the Northwest region. Cities like Piura, Chiclayo, and Trujillo if memory serves. Have you been through those areas?

Sounds like you have a solid plan so just hang in there and give 'er hell dude. Travel around until you find your spot, wherever you fit in and enjoy the most. Las chicas van a venir senor, no te preocupas. 8)
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby jamesbond » August 11th, 2015, 1:39 pm

This man was married for 17 years to an American woman. He helped her raise her 3 kids that she had with another man. After 17 years of marriage she told him she was not 'happy' and wanted a divorce. She got a new boyfriend 3 months after their divorce. It took him 5 years to even start dating again after the pain of his divorce.

He eventually found another woman who he thought was his 'soul mate.' They dated for 3 years and then out the blue she dumped him and started dating another guy a week later. Listen to what he has to say about his life and his thoughts on women.

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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Ghost » August 11th, 2015, 6:44 pm

Even if you've never known anything else, how does any man ever - under any circumstances - think that raising another man's kids is a good idea? That anything good could ever come from it? I've seen such idiotic moves even in my own family. I just don't understand it. Why are some men bound and determined to cuckold themselves intentionally? Virtually every problem this society has comes from idiotic men. A woman can try to push her thugspawn on other guys all day long, but she has no power until some moron wifes her up and gives her everything.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby MrMan » August 11th, 2015, 9:07 pm

jamesbond wrote:This man was married for 17 years to an American woman. He helped her raise her 3 kids that she had with another man. After 17 years of marriage she told him she was not 'happy' and wanted a divorce. She got a new boyfriend 3 months after their divorce. It took him 5 years to even start dating again after the pain of his divorce.

He eventually found another woman who he thought was his 'soul mate.' They dated for 3 years and then out the blue she dumped him and started dating another guy a week later. Listen



I totally understand why men who have been through divorces and break-ups of long term relationships might go MGTOW. But they try to recruit the young, and I don't understand why young men without these experiences would go for it.

If a man marries a woman who has kids by another man or other men, generally, the woman is probably pretty high risk. I'd put Brady Bunch situations in another category. If she was married, faithfully, to a man and didn't sleep around beforehand, and he died, she might not be high risk.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby MrMan » August 11th, 2015, 9:52 pm

Ghost wrote:Even if you've never known anything else, how does any man ever - under any circumstances - think that raising another man's kids is a good idea?


Adopting an orphan and being a foster parent are noble things. That's not bad. You speak too generally. I do see a problem with stepping into a situation to compete with a 'baby daddy.' If he's dead, I don't see it as an issue. Marrying a widow with children may make sense if a man is a widower with children. There are no ex's to compete for attention, just the ex's parents, in some cases.

It's kind of a fair deal, too. The widower needs a mom for his kids. A single woman might not have the mothering skills developed, and it may be tough for her to jump into mommy role without even having been a mother herself. The widow needs a dad for her kids, too, and the widower is an experienced dad. She didn't have the kids from sleeping around or leave their father.

There are some situations where it makes sense.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Ghost » August 12th, 2015, 3:12 pm

Adoption is justifiable, but I don't think this should be a resort unless the man is physically incapable of having children. I suppose a Brady Bunch scenario is fine too, but rare enough to not really matter.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby S_Parc » August 12th, 2015, 9:18 pm

You know, I'd always wished that someone, other than my biological father, had raised me.

This idea that natural, non-adoptive families are perfect and wonderful is a pile of crap. I consider this to be the victim mentality nonsense of the adopted, who can't get over the fact that once they're born, they need to grow up and become adults on their own.

The difference is that bio-parents assume that their kids are their private property, by virtue of DNA. Adoptive parents, however, are suppose to walk on eggshells over these issues.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby The Un-American » August 14th, 2015, 10:38 pm

I too notice that even women I am friends with and that are nice to me have a "wall" that I can't cross. It's like no matter how cool a chick seems, there is a snob hidden inside deep down.
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Zambales » August 15th, 2015, 9:37 am

The Un-American wrote:I too notice that even women I am friends with and that are nice to me have a "wall" that I can't cross. It's like no matter how cool a chick seems, there is a snob hidden inside deep down.
There's nothing wrong with that. If you had a female friend who wanted something more than just being friends, and you weren't interested, wouldn't you have a "wall"?
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby MarcosZeitola » August 15th, 2015, 11:57 am

Zambales wrote:
The Un-American wrote:I too notice that even women I am friends with and that are nice to me have a "wall" that I can't cross. It's like no matter how cool a chick seems, there is a snob hidden inside deep down.
There's nothing wrong with that. If you had a female friend who wanted something more than just being friends, and you weren't interested, wouldn't you have a "wall"?


Especially the ones who are taken, ought to have such a wall. Or else they would not be awfully faithful now would they be?
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Zambales » August 15th, 2015, 1:02 pm

MarcosZeitola wrote:
Zambales wrote:
The Un-American wrote:I too notice that even women I am friends with and that are nice to me have a "wall" that I can't cross. It's like no matter how cool a chick seems, there is a snob hidden inside deep down.
There's nothing wrong with that. If you had a female friend who wanted something more than just being friends, and you weren't interested, wouldn't you have a "wall"?


Especially the ones who are taken, ought to have such a wall. Or else they would not be awfully faithful now would they be?


Exactly!
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Teal Lantern » August 15th, 2015, 9:37 pm

Ghost wrote:Even if you've never known anything else, how does any man ever - under any circumstances - think that raising another man's kids is a good idea? That anything good could ever come from it? I've seen such idiotic moves even in my own family. I just don't understand it. Why are some men bound and determined to cuckold themselves intentionally? Virtually every problem this society has comes from idiotic men. A woman can try to push her thugspawn on other guys all day long, but she has no power until some moron wifes her up and gives her everything.

You mean to say you won't date a mom? :P :P
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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Ghost » August 16th, 2015, 6:36 pm

Teal Lantern wrote:
Ghost wrote:Even if you've never known anything else, how does any man ever - under any circumstances - think that raising another man's kids is a good idea? That anything good could ever come from it? I've seen such idiotic moves even in my own family. I just don't understand it. Why are some men bound and determined to cuckold themselves intentionally? Virtually every problem this society has comes from idiotic men. A woman can try to push her thugspawn on other guys all day long, but she has no power until some moron wifes her up and gives her everything.

You mean to say you won't date a mom? :P :P


From the article:

Single Mothers don’t have poor taste in men. It’s not her fault she choose a “baby daddy”. She just confided in a boy she thought was as a man.


It's the ol' feminist double standard, the kind feminists can't see.

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The hamster spins a bit, and...

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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby jamesbond » October 25th, 2015, 11:54 pm

There are more and more men in America starting ignore American women. Men in the US really are tuning American women out. :lol:

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Re: I'm starting to understand the whole MGTOW thing

Postby Yohan » October 26th, 2015, 5:44 pm

jamesbond wrote:There are more and more men in America starting ignore American women. Men in the US really are tuning American women out.


This is about MGTOW - the idea is about passive resistance against feminism. Be risk averse. Better safe than sorry.
Nobody can criticise you if you reject psychotic American women. However most men still do not know how to say NO.

Feminists are telling MGTOW who are refusing to date American women out of legal concern and reject feminism that such talk is 'Hate Speech'. Or a 'good' feminist argument is NAWALT (shaming language - not all women are like that)

Still whatever, there is no law which can force men to socialize with women if they do not want out of whatever reason.
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