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What do you guys do if a girl wants free drinks from you?

Postby mattyman » March 8th, 2014, 7:28 pm

I'm talking about, straight off the bat in a bar.

Last night this happened to me. This girl asked me for a drink straight off the bat, tried to be manipulative, persuasive, trying to be all flirty and everything. It set off even more alarm bells when I saw the same girl asking other guys in the pub for free drinks, including one of my friends. It stuck me from the start that she was one of those chicks who uses guys. I politely-refused and joked that my own thirst was more important. She kept persuading me, I kept saying no. She then went straight to someone else and did the same thing. Red flags raised.

What do you do/have you done in situations like the above? Would be curious to here some of your opinions and stories.
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Re: What do you guys do if a girl wants free drinks from you

Postby nicho12 » March 8th, 2014, 9:02 pm

mattyman wrote:I'm talking about, straight off the bat in a bar.

Last night this happened to me. This girl asked me for a drink straight off the bat, tried to be manipulative, persuasive, trying to be all flirty and everything. It set off even more alarm bells when I saw the same girl asking other guys in the pub for free drinks, including one of my friends. It stuck me from the start that she was one of those chicks who uses guys. I politely-refused and joked that my own thirst was more important. She kept persuading me, I kept saying no. She then went straight to someone else and did the same thing. Red flags raised.

What do you do/have you done in situations like the above? Would be curious to here some of your opinions and stories.


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Postby SilverEnergy » March 8th, 2014, 9:12 pm

No free drinks for women at the clubs ever.
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Postby ?????? » March 8th, 2014, 11:55 pm

You did the right thing by refusing to buy her a drink. This was one of the many reasons I stopped going to bars years ago. This was posted on HA a while back, but this would be a good reminder not to buy women in bars or clubs drinks: http://kaitlynsploosh.wordpress.com/201 ... -at-a-bar/
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Postby Hero » March 9th, 2014, 12:37 am

Tell her to give you a lap dance first.
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Postby Teal Lantern » March 9th, 2014, 3:46 am

не поглеждай назад. 8)

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Postby TheAustralianMan » March 12th, 2014, 2:33 am

Only if she'll give you a rub n tug in return.
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Postby somedude » March 12th, 2014, 6:32 am

If a gal asks this of me, I ask if she's willing to earn the drink by my throwing quarters at her cleavage. Cheap entertainment for me, and if she gets enough quarters she can buy a beer. sorry no free drinks from me. :)
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Postby Robert77 » March 12th, 2014, 9:32 am

What do you think I would do???? NOT BUYING HER THE DRINK!!!! men need to have some dignity
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Postby ***JP*** » March 12th, 2014, 12:11 pm

I just turn my back on them and continue minding my own business with friends. So far that method has worked excellent for me cause it makes them extra angry and since most american women love to be drama queens and can't handle being ignored. I just laugh when they try insulting me to the point they walk away cause they see I won't bow down to lil miss spoiled princess.
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Postby Dark_Sol » March 12th, 2014, 5:40 pm

Never buy a girl a drink that begs you. f**k that shit, ask them, " Can you buy me a drink?" Being here in the DR, women here have become entitled, they ask you to buy them a drink all the time.
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Re: What do you guys do if a girl wants free drinks from you

Postby PeterAndrewNolan » March 13th, 2014, 2:33 am

mattyman wrote:I'm talking about, straight off the bat in a bar.

Last night this happened to me. This girl asked me for a drink straight off the bat, tried to be manipulative, persuasive, trying to be all flirty and everything. It set off even more alarm bells when I saw the same girl asking other guys in the pub for free drinks, including one of my friends. It stuck me from the start that she was one of those chicks who uses guys. I politely-refused and joked that my own thirst was more important. She kept persuading me, I kept saying no. She then went straight to someone else and did the same thing. Red flags raised.

What do you do/have you done in situations like the above? Would be curious to here some of your opinions and stories.


Wow...how old are you?

You don'y buy women drinks in bars unless she is your long term gf or wife.

I didn't buy my fav#1 a drink in a bar for more than a year. Why should I? She has a job. She wanted to be equal. It was about 18 months before I decided that I would buy her drinks anywhere but when we went to dinner together.
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Postby Teal Lantern » March 24th, 2014, 3:11 am

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Postby quito » March 24th, 2014, 3:53 am

there are a lot of things you could have done to further define her intentions. first you should have asked her.. "if i do that favor for you then what do you plan on doing for me? (with a friendly smile) . or you could have just told her that you only do that for girls that you like and who like you in return.. then ask her if she likes you. :) there are so many possibilities that you could have explored.
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I would simply say

Postby buddy77 » March 24th, 2014, 6:09 pm

"I dont know you", and walk away from her and instead start flirting with other women. Its not that hard to do.
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