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An AW who prefers foreign men explains why

Postby Winston » Sun Mar 16, 2014 12:59 am

Believe it or not, there are some AW who prefer foreign men over American men. I know one of them. And another one posted in the ladies forum her reasons why, which are very interesting and validate some of what we say.

http://www.happierabroad.com/ladiesforu ... p=710#p710

I have always preferred dating foreign men as opposed to Americans. So if American women shun dating them, well, that's more for ME! :) All foreign men are not created equal. It's all a matter of culture, ethnicity and economic class. Middle Easterners and Latin/South Americans are clearly going to be different from Northern Europeans/Russians. Southern Europeans (Greeks, Italians, Spaniards, Portugese, Balkan men) are going to be different culturally from a Swede or a man from the UK!

American women for the most part, on average, have been brainwashed by feminist ideology. American men as well. American men are not as masculine as Europeans. American women have stereotypical , xenophic views of Euromen as being "macho" or "wife beaters" or "serve me" types. High class, educated Euromen from the upper layers are definitely not that stereotype. They like feminine women who behave like women in public, have manners and are culturally educated. Most average American women are just not that. Many (not all) wear jeans and sneakers everywhere, love fast food, get fat and lazy, use profanity and sleep through college. They think being feminine means dressing like a streetwalker. They don't bone up on history or foreign customs when dealing with foreigners.

Foreign men, at least the type I deal with, are gentlemen who open doors, dress nice on dates, have manners at the dinner table, AND THEY PAY. We don't go "Dutch". Dutch is for coworkers and friends. Dutch is a language in Holland. The flawed reasoning is that "if we go Dutch he'll understand that I have no plans on sleeping with him that night." He won't have expectations. Says who? Promiscuous rakes will try to sleep with you whether they pay or you go Dutch. Makes no diff. A man who goes Dutch with a woman shows he's cheap.That's it. He's a loser.

Foreign men have higher standards for women. American women don't want to be held accountable to that.
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Postby Cornfed » Sun Mar 16, 2014 1:25 am

So she wants to go with the upper crust of foreign men because they are still dumb enough to value her and let her leech off them. Not a surprise. Notice she is not offering them anything special.
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Postby S_Parc » Sun Mar 16, 2014 1:55 am

Cornfed wrote:So she wants to go with the upper crust of foreign men because they are still dumb enough to value her and let her leech off them. Not a surprise. Notice she is not offering them anything special.


Total Slam Dunk there :!:

This bitch's little rant below, exposes her complete sense of entitlement ...

AW wrote:Foreign men, at least the type I deal with, are gentlemen who open doors, dress nice on dates, have manners at the dinner table, AND THEY PAY. We don't go "Dutch". Dutch is for coworkers and friends. Dutch is a language in Holland. The flawed reasoning is that


In other words, a real man doesn't go Dutch, because it's expected that he'll be strung along, all of the time.

Guess what, I've picked up the tab on Mel, numerous times. And then other times, she does the same for me. That's what called ... ppl who respect one another. We take turns, being gracious to one another. And yes, she enjoys doing things for me. In contrast, these heterosexual AWs are worthless parasites.

And Cornfed, here's what this bitch thinks she's offering ...

AW wrote:They don't bone up on history or foreign customs when dealing with foreigners


Well, guess what? AWs, who work abroad at multinational corps, do learn the customs and proper ways of dealing with others. I've worked abroad and business is conducted with regards to other cultures. In America, many ppl are American and thus, they behave accordingly.

What this AW bitch is, is little more than a stateside courtesan type with the hope of perhaps, getting some Eurotrash prince to be her long term Sugar Daddy.
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Postby Winston » Sun Mar 16, 2014 2:00 am

Well it's always been tradition for a man to pay for the date. I think an exception should be made for women who are well off and aren't poor though.

Do you think her attitude is like that of that movie where an American girl goes to England to become a princess by marrying a prince? I forget the name of it, but it's really cheesy.
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Postby S_Parc » Sun Mar 16, 2014 2:15 am

Winston wrote:Well it's always been tradition for a man to pay for the date. I think an exception should be made for women who are well off and aren't poor though.

Do you think her attitude is like that of that movie where an American girl goes to England to become a princess by marrying a prince? I forget the name of it, but it's really cheesy.


Winston, it's her whole attitude about it.

She's obviously not poor but feels that she doesn't need to reciprocate a man, except for 'looking good' in public. In other words, by not being a public embarrassment to a rich tourist in America, she's somehow something special, worth pampering.

And no, if a guy goes Dutch, it does tell a woman that he's keeping it 'acquaintanceship' first and then ... see what happens later. This is a perfectly good way to network and then, when special occasions arise, you treat the lady to a full night out. If she immediately marks the man as a loser then for all intensive purposes, she's nothing more than an escort service.

And finally, she said upper class European. That's a golddigger right there.
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Postby polya » Sun Mar 16, 2014 6:34 am

polya wrote:
S_Parc wrote:
Cornfed wrote:So she wants to go with the upper crust of foreign men because they are still dumb enough to value her and let her leech off them. Not a surprise. Notice she is not offering them anything special.


Total Slam Dunk there :!:

.............................
What this AW bitch is, is little more than a stateside courtesan type with the hope of perhaps, getting some Eurotrash prince to be her long term Sugar Daddy.


+1 - the good thing about foreign men is they are almost certainly NOT going to put up with crap from AW like this video of a guy catching his wife with another man (shows her appreciation for him raising her bastard son from another man):

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh3FaDIX79bLcl401D


I've not found any gay AWs who are any good, but I guess they're out there...
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Postby S_Parc » Sun Mar 16, 2014 3:32 pm

polya wrote:I've not found any gay AWs who are any good, but I guess they're out there...


Well, for someone to be like Mel, she needs to be a 'butch' and needs to think and feel, a lot like a guy.

As a result, one of Mel's great realizations was that all that burst of feminism, starting from the late 60s till 80s, did not create this equal society among women. The women, who later became "bi" during college, didn't go from June Cleaver to Marie Curie in one generation. Instead, a vast majority became some form of a Kardashian, a slew of self-indulgent bimbos, who play off the p@rn chic card but then, expect men to toss all the good jobs at them, just for being a woman.

Where this has hurt Mel is the same way it has hurt us guys. As the 'male' in her prior relationships, she had to do nearly everything, to placate the b*tches. After a while, it became clear. In the eyes of feminist AWs, men or even male characters (the butch) are a concierge service. And when you call 'em on their BS, it's the whole victim card mentality.

Mel had collectively given AWs ... the middle finger.

That's why today, Mel and I are together. In her mind, women are only good for a f'ck. And we know where to go for that. Men, at least when she was growing up in a military household, needed to watch each others' back, as in combat situations. She's discovered that I fit that bill (of a comrade) and thus, would rather spend her time with me, than anyone else out there.

She's special and for that, I appreciate the times that I've spent with her.
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Postby Moretorque » Sun Mar 16, 2014 5:03 pm

She talks about American men not being macho enough, American men are just realizing they better stay in their strait jacket if they do not want to be sitting in a jail cell when she calls the Gestapo for any trivial matter.

Imported men most of them are on the take from the nanny state and have more rights than the naturalized American citizenry.

This is all part of the globalist agenda for world domination to subdue the indigenous population and bring in imports which have nothing in common with the country or the countries heritage in order to dissolve the borders and most people are not bright enough to see how issuing the currency allows our rulers to completely mold our society to their liking.

A country with no borders or real immigration policy is not a country so America is no longer a country according to what is going on. The country has been sold and most people are just not quit sharp enough to figure it out.

You can go read executive order 12803 for starters and this was over 20 years ago.
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Postby Renata » Sun Mar 16, 2014 9:25 pm

Most americans are messed up in some way due the the toxic environment, upbringing & all the uneccesary struggles, like school, bullying, chemical laced food, frankenstein medicine, poor med diagnosis, media etc. The greatest nation should have the greatest people right? lol Even from birth you're over medicated with vaccines. I only got 10 when I was born, how many shots did you get?

Fight riots are breaking out all over the globe because the people will not accept less than what they deserve. The only time americans are out in numbers are for fundraising stuff, like cancer, sports & gay parade.
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Postby Moretorque » Sun Mar 16, 2014 10:16 pm

Who is making all the toxins in the medicine and toxins in the food?

Greatest nation on earth?

The way I see it is this country has been completely lawless from the get go in most regards. The bright note of this country is the masses who came here and took the land over for the most part created most of the modern world technically speaking but at the same time destroyed the original civilization that was here and really made a mess of their property ecologically speaking over the last 2 or 3 hundred years..
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Postby Jester » Tue Mar 18, 2014 2:38 am

Winston wrote:
Well it's always been tradition for a man to pay for the date.



This.

S_Parc wrote:
She's obviously not poor but feels that she doesn't need to reciprocate a man, except for 'looking good' in public.



Looking good in public is what a "date" is all about, at least the first date. That's her job. I expect a dress, make-up, heels, hair, nice skin, perfume. Dress up and show up.

S_Parc wrote:
And no, if a guy goes Dutch, it does tell a woman that he's keeping it 'acquaintanceship' first and then ... see what happens later.



If I let a woman pay, or split the bill, it would because I wanted it to be clear that it was just a business or networking meeting, nothing more, I have no interest period.

But then i would have to ask myself why I am wasting time talking with a woman who I am not interested in. The occasions are rare indeed.

To me it's like ballroom dancing or riding a horse: take charge and stay in charge. The dance partner or horse expects it. And the results are better.

I'm the driver, she's the passenger. My car, I buy the gas.

OTOH, if we marry (on or off the books), then if I allow her to work for anyone else, her paycheck will go to me, unless I choose otherwise. In other words, her time belongs to me.

But I will still pay on dates, as I will for everything she needs.

If you owned a fine horse, wouldn't you feed it and care for it?

Don't tell me I'm behind the times. Seems to work for some men in the US (those the OP is dating). And MOST OF THE WORLD is still this way.

Upper class, is that evil? Well, let me tell you. I've had a few gf's that appreciated classy parties and fine dining, and a few that didn't. I cared for them all. But other things being equal, I will choose the one who can dress and behave with class, and who can appreciate an evening out.

That's MY taste, what I choose. So I don't think the girl looking for me is a golddigger. Just picky.
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Postby nicho12 » Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:15 pm

Winston wrote:Well it's always been tradition for a man to pay for the date.
I think an exception should be made for women who are well off and aren't poor though.

Yea but that was when women were still feminine and didn't work and spent all day raising the kids at home, nowadays women work, women have the same if not more opportunities in the job market as men, so what justifies the notion that the man should pay for the date. You see where am going, modern women want the benefits of the feminist movement but don't want the responsibilities that come with those benefits and they still want the benefits of the old patriarchy system that always put women on the pedestal in return for their submission to the man
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