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Browsing Erslist (all fobs), I have trouble finding a Chinese girl I'm attracted to. Walking around a uni campus or a gym (mostly westernized ones), it's the complete opposite. They look so different - curvier, darker skin, cuter faces. When these young hunnies walks by in their yoga pants, I experience extreme incel rage over the fact that they won't sit on my face and **** me all night long.
Is it the western diet perhaps? The fact that they're more "mixed?" Or is it just a matter of these fob hookers lying about their ages?
Unfortunately, the westernized ones also have westernized attitudes and standards.
You guys obviously have never been to China before. To judge Chinese girls by the minuscule subset that recently moved to America or appear on some relatively unknown american dating website is sheer ignorance.
American girls are fat and that includes Asian Americans who are increasingly becoming overweight due to the American diet and lifestyle. Many Asian American women also lack the more refined features and smooth porcelain skin of their counterparts in East Asia. Plus, they also lack femininity.
Many also grow up in the suburbs and are so influenced by the very crass unrefined American fashion standards that is pervasive in the suburbs and therefore lack knowledge of the latest urban trends in fashion and style. Go to any major city in North East Asia and you will see that the girls not only look better, but are dressed far more fashionably and attractively than Asian American girls who generally lack that refinement and dress like 'hill-billies' by relative comparison, due to America's overwhelming crass, suburban lifestyle and 'big-is-better' mentality. Look around most college campuses in America and what you often see is women dressed in over-sized pullovers and pajamas-like pants - or something of that standard.
In fact, go to northern China such as Beijing and you will see that on average, the girls are taller (and needless to say, slimmer), and possess sharper and more refined facial features than the average Asian American girl. The north Chinese girls are taller, leggy, and their considerable higher average height generally means that they have more shapely bodies as well. In Beijing, it is very common to find Chinese women who are 5'7 or 5'8, whereas the southern Chinese girls and ABC girls are generally considerably shorter than that. Which is fine - some folks like more petite girls - just sharing. If you're not aware, most Asian American girls are of Southern Chinese origins but even then I would say that the girls in Southern China are far more attractive than ABCs.
That said, if darker girls is your thing then stop looking at North East Asian girls because you don't understand North East Asian beauty. If you like darker girls, head to South East Asia.
You need to get out of the U.S. of Ink.
You're infected with the narrow-minded mentality, and even want crass tattooed c*nts too. Perhaps since they don't look your way, precisely.
It's really tempting to (even subconciously) try and stick it out in the us, in an attempt to"crack" it. But I myself have overcome that trap.
You 'aint' seen nothing yet jeremy, get out there.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
In my opinion, most of it has to do with the diet and the fact that Americans/Canadians and Westerners in general are all pampered and very self-conscious.
Like here in America, when you're around people - you're constantly being judged and sized up. Kind of like being in prison. You can't have any faults with you whatsoever!! Very invasive and mean. It's this type of environment that fosters things like narcissism and egocentricity. So them Asian females learn pretty quick where their strengths are and where their place is overall.
So yeah, they don't have it that bad here in the West... Not as bad as they would have been back home in Taiwan or Korea.. you know??
Jusqu'au bout a tout prix..
Yes, Asian American women tend to be curvier and more fully-figured than fob girls. This is true. However, as Jeremy mentioned in his post--they have the 'Western-attitudes' to boot as well.
That's not to say mainland Chinese women aren't hot: they are!; in fact, I like mainland Chinese women about +1000 times more than Asian American women, and I've done so well with the women here (it's almost been a female heaven for me. LOL.)...Most Chinese women like Asian men as well (unlike Asian American skanks....)
Sigh... Its not just Asian women who look different in the US than they do in their home countries. In poor countries meat is not apart of the diet because its too expensive. That extra protein means muscle and fat development. So they tend to have fuller rear ends and grow 1-2 bra sizes.
I don't and many other men do not see this as a negative.
Yoga pants are lazy? Like I said there is a puritan undercurrent around here that's troublesome and easily explained as one of the reasons why some of you are single.
I thought I was the only one who noticed this. Actually, I've even read posts on this forum which claim the opposite - that the hottest Asians are in Asia, that Asian American chicks are less attractive, very wrong according to my tastes.
However, much of Asia has moved-up big time on economic development vis-a-vis the west plus, many of the countries here have been westernized to a degree via Internet/Smartphones and students who now increasingly return after their stint in the west.
China is the big exception. They still overwhelmingly have pathetic flat asses and eat a very different diet than what we have in the west. Their idea of curvy is a girl with big breasts and perhaps a little bit of pudginess. But most of those girls are top heavy. If a Chinese girl by fluke has even a slight bit of meat in her ass and hips, she will feel she is fat and fight it with all her might. Society seems to support that view.
Now in Taiwan, you can actually see genuinely curvy girls, women with nice round asses and wide hips. They tend to eat a more westernized diet there plus some actually understand the desirability of a more Latin style shape. Taiwan has generally had a lot mover exposure to America and the west over the decades than has China. But of course, the girls there also tend to be slim and curviness is an exception. It's just that desirable curviness is much much easier to find in women there than in China.
Last time I visited S. Korea, there seemed to be a fad of pursuing a very slim shape, even to extent of compromising desirable curviness. A shame cus some Korean girls have naturally great bodies.
SE Asia, most notably Thailand, has changed dramatically on the back of a sustained economic boom. People there today are on average like 5 cm taller than they were 25 years ago. And in Thailand, you can find all body shapes including girls with amazing curves! I'm seeing gradual improvements now in Phils. but they have a long way to go. There are more chubbies here but girls tend to be top heavy and suffer from chronic short stature. But I can clearly sense things are moving in a better direction here. Give it 10 years.
ABCs/ABKs/etc. can be very attractive and sexy. Part of the allure is actually in their swagger, confidence, and American accent. When I encounter such girls, my confidence drops instantly. When I used to cold approach gals in Taipei, I would get instantly thrown-off if girl spoke back to me in English, especially if it was flawless American style English. As soon as I knew I was dealing with an American or highly Americanized Taiwan girl, I basically gave-up before going any further. That's who intimidating American girls are to me.
So how much time have you spent in China? You are in SP right? China is a lot different when it comes to body shapes you tend to see. With the exception of post puberty students in certain special areas in Shanghai and Beijing, women in China almost without exception have no hips and no ass! You need to look at 1,000s and 1,000s of girls to find the occasional exception! SP, Taiwan, S.Korea, Japan, Thailand, and even HK are all much better in this aspect.
Like I said, they tend to be top heavy which is in my book is worse than thin. Pear shape is rare in China including Shenzhen. Can you show me even one image to the contrary?
I've posted very curvy Taiwan girl photos recently in one of Winston's threads about an online Chinese girl. Those girls posed are examples of nice pear shaped figures (wide hips + narrow compact shoulders, medium to small breasts, thick legs, and curvy round butt).
I think it's because:
1) The Chinese girls that grow up in America come from rich families and have access to the best food, nutrition and healthcare.
2) The FOB's that come to America to study tend to be plain or ugly because they can't use their looks to get everything they want in Asia. So they have to get a good education and try to earn their way through life.
3) The best looking foreign girls do not need to come to America. They can get everything they want in their own country.
Go to Taiwan and see the model types there and on TV and you will not think this anymore.
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