It's not an exaggeration. The reason why the apartheid hasn't hit me is that when I'm solo, I've got my book/tablet/computer with me. There are usually stock symbols and so forth on my screensavers and there's always something which looks like a currency pair, like British Pound/USD on my normal screen. The net result ... the impression/vibe I give off is successful professional & I'm put next to the couples & buddies, as they could probably use some financial advice from a real "expert" in the vicinity.publicduende wrote:That's a bit of an exaggeration... Do you see man apartheid soon where lonely men will have to sit in a separate area of the eatery, not to risk disturbing the buddy clusters and dating couple with their disgusting transient loneliness?S_Parc wrote:Well, one of the things which is apparent is that men are not liked, sitting in restaurants alone, unless they're carry a book, laptop, or something which indicates that they're normal and sane. Usually, a guy has to be with a buddy or out on a date with a woman.
Thus, if this guy didn't have enough regular pals, then he'd be facing even more ostracism out there.
I suspect that restaurant/cafe owners will start to treat solo men, as undesirable patrons, more and more, as time goes by and the media starts to spin each mass killing, as the intrinsic nature of solo men.
When I see other guys running solo, however, they're usually put in the corners or away from the central gathering areas. That's also something I'd noticed when Mel and I started seeing each other. We were treated very well by most dining & drinking establishments and given great seating arrangements.