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Postby steve55 » Sun May 25, 2014 6:25 am

most people are not just born as lunatics. A lot of how they are is from experiencing bad things in their past causing them to change. This happens all the time


Right on Mark Lambo! Society creates these problems. Knowing how stuck up and rude women have been to me over the years just for saying hi, I understand what created this problem.

Did you guys see that he was a member of puahate (an anti pick up artist website?)
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Postby abcdavid01 » Sun May 25, 2014 7:07 am

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S_Parc wrote:So yeah, I was lucky, in the sense that certain AWs did want to have sex with me, during those formative years. I couldn't imagine being a virgin by the age of 22. That would have been traumatic for me. At least I got the rite of passage over with, early in life.


I'm a virgin at age 24. I won't compromise anymore and I will only accept a girl that will make it all worth it. There's no point in me just losing it to any girl. I want to lose it to a very attractive virgin foreign girl, preferably age 16 after I marry her. That was everything would be worth it and I could experience what it's like to have an exciting, youthful, fun, genuinely happy, and more innocent girlfriend that will adore me, look up to me, and respect me. That would make up for all my suffering and pain, and it would give me some inner-peace and genuine happiness.


S-Parc is right, you need to come up with some sort of plan. Make it all worth it???? Right man, here's the deal one more time.

I don't care if you have speech problems and introverted, you need to overcome those issues (1)

Secondly, you constantly bang on about virgins when this is 2014 and its overrated. But if that's important that you and your future wife are both virgins, go to PI already; talk to the guy who runs Christian Flips.


Tsar's just playing the long game. He has a plan, but he's taking his time on it. I joined here one and a half years ago and I'm just going to Shanghai now.

Tsar, it's good you're principled. Virginity means more for women than for men (as far as value goes), but that doesn't mean you should compromise. I'm a virgin at 22, but it doesn't bother me. When I was a teenager I had all sorts of insecurity, but since going back to college I realized how incredibly easy it is to get laid. I just turned down girls because I was focused on my goals. I've seen you're pic Tsar and you're as good looking as I am. If you think you'd have trouble with ladies it's all in your head - what held me back for a while too. Problem is we both have standards and American chicks aren't worth our time.

So I think that's the shooter's problem too. He was good looking enough and probably pretty smart. He could've gotten decent looking woman to sleep with him I bet, but why would he even want to? Why did he make them a priority? He called them sluts, but why would he even want to sleep with garbage then? If he was truly superior he'd have realized that it was worthless to chase and pine. Gotta make the girls come to you.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Sun May 25, 2014 9:58 am

So here's his manifesto:

http://jacksonville.com/breaking-news/2 ... o-surfaces

Turns out he's half-Chinese, like I am.

Says he was autistic (they always do) and visited men's rights forums:

http://www.ibtimes.com/elliot-rodger-uc ... ss-1589849
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Postby publicduende » Sun May 25, 2014 11:26 am

S_Parc wrote:If I were any guy's dad, I would have flown him to Australia, NZ, or Thailand at the age of 17, during the last two weeks before he'd turned 18.

During those final two weeks before the transition to legal adulthood, I would have interviewed, every top notch esc@rt in the vicinity, and found the best one, who's able to help a young kid, feel good about himself, and make the transition.

Then, upon his 18th birthday, I'd pay to have the best of the best, spend the entire day/night with him, showing him the best time in the world.

Thus, when he becomes an adult, he gets the best experience with a woman.


Then he might have learned something about getting a fellatio, penetrating a vagina and the softness of (hopefully non-silicon-enhanced) female breasts. Yet, he will still be a total illiterate on approaching girls, loving them and entering a relationship. Those camps are all trials and errors, and build on experiences that must be done at the right age and time.

I know it's not that customary anymore in the US but, if I was that kid's dad, I would have (or perhaps told my wife to) try and organise family parties with the neighbours, friends, whoever had teenage daughters, and try to get the boy to socialise with them. A subtle, covert way to "set him up", but at least he would allow him to learn his way into the female universe the proper way.
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Postby publicduende » Sun May 25, 2014 11:41 am

steve55 wrote:
most people are not just born as lunatics. A lot of how they are is from experiencing bad things in their past causing them to change. This happens all the time


Right on Mark Lambo! Society creates these problems. Knowing how stuck up and rude women have been to me over the years just for saying hi, I understand what created this problem.

Did you guys see that he was a member of puahate (an anti pick up artist website?)


That's chilling. And puahate.com now responds with a blank page (no HTML source).
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Postby The » Sun May 25, 2014 3:36 pm

Banano wrote:
For the last eight years of my life, ever since I hit puberty I have been forced to endure an existence of loneliness and unfulfilled desires all because girls have never been attracted to me. Girls gave their affection and sex and love to other men but never to me.
I am 22 years old and still a virgin. I have never even been kissed by a girl
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I have been through college for two and a half years, more than that, and I am still a virgin. It has been very torturous.
College is the time when everyone experiences those things such as sex and fun and pleasure, but in those years I have had to rot in loneliness. It’s not fair..
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And only 22 years of age .....its a damn shame that his good for nothing father did not at least set him up with girlfriends....its damn shame that he never heard or thought about going overseas and leaving this toxic wasteland....He truly would have been rejuvenated, had a new perspective by going to Europe, SE Asia, particularly Thailand or Latin America.....especially as a white man.....But alas he will never know.... :cry:

Also wanted to add that even when i was at college (and i went away to college) it was hard getting laid by attractive women....I always thought it would have been way way way easier than at home but I was in for a rude awakening....I approached countless women.....even dabbled in PUA and read many websites and books to try to pick up chicks to no avail...only fatties and fuglies were interested and my standards were to high for that....so out of the three years I was in school I got one land whale white girl that would give it up....and as a black man, black women were not even an option as they were too ratchet....very bad time indeed....
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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 25, 2014 3:44 pm

publicduende wrote:
S_Parc wrote:If I were any guy's dad, I would have flown him to Australia, NZ, or Thailand at the age of 17, during the last two weeks before he'd turned 18.

During those final two weeks before the transition to legal adulthood, I would have interviewed, every top notch esc@rt in the vicinity, and found the best one, who's able to help a young kid, feel good about himself, and make the transition.

Then, upon his 18th birthday, I'd pay to have the best of the best, spend the entire day/night with him, showing him the best time in the world.

Thus, when he becomes an adult, he gets the best experience with a woman.


Then he might have learned something about getting a fellatio, penetrating a v****a and the softness of (hopefully non-silicon-enhanced) female breasts. Yet, he will still be a total illiterate on approaching girls, loving them and entering a relationship. Those camps are all trials and errors, and build on experiences that must be done at the right age and time.

I know it's not that customary anymore in the US but, if I was that kid's dad, I would have (or perhaps told my wife to) try and organise family parties with the neighbours, friends, whoever had teenage daughters, and try to get the boy to socialise with them. A subtle, covert way to "set him up", but at least he would allow him to learn his way into the female universe the proper way.


Public, more often than not, those AWs will *friend zone* the guy & start to treat him like a gay acquaintance. That's the reality of this society for the *nice* guys. And then, once the guy is established and earning six figures, then they'll suddenly show interest in him, wanting to get pregnant and to start a nest. I'd spent a lot of time, building acquaintances/friends back in those days and aside from present day Mel, it did not garner the type of female admiration you're thinking.

By going to Brazil, meeting women there will come naturally. He can do that after his initial 'getting it out of the way' trips with his dad.

It did it for me and I was 24 when I first started going abroad and since I wasn't so frustrated/desperate for s*x, I had a lot of quality GF potentials, as I wasn't seen as one of those "virgin" types, who BTW, also had GFs abroad but unlike them, I had no trouble waiting for the right one. Plus, this Yankee friend zone thing barely exists in those countries. If you're a decent looking guy with all round potential & personality, women will date you.
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Postby The » Sun May 25, 2014 3:59 pm

S_Parc wrote:
Public, more often than not, those AWs will *friend zone* the guy & start to treat him like a gay acquaintance. That's the reality of this society for the *nice* guys. And then, once the guy is established and earning six figures, then they'll suddenly show interest in him, wanting to get pregnant and to start a nest. I'd spent a lot of time, building acquaintances/friends back in those days and aside from present day Mel, it did not garner the type of female admiration you're thinking.



I got friend zoned the hell out of when I was in college.....it was one of the reasons why i dabbled in PUA for a particular time....very frustrating experience to say the least....
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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 25, 2014 4:03 pm

The wrote:And only 22 years of age .....its a damn shame that his good for nothing father did not at least set him up with girlfriends


Well, his dad was probably a more successful version of my own, too self-absorbed to care about his son's development.

I'd moved out at 17 and never looked back. And now that I'm in my mid-30s, I've severed all ties with him and my whacked sister. And since my mother is depressed and barely alive, I don't even consider her to be a living person but more the walking dead.
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Beware of long term engagements with AWs, you may find yourself in a coffin.

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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 25, 2014 4:07 pm

The wrote:
S_Parc wrote:
Public, more often than not, those AWs will *friend zone* the guy & start to treat him like a gay acquaintance. That's the reality of this society for the *nice* guys. And then, once the guy is established and earning six figures, then they'll suddenly show interest in him, wanting to get pregnant and to start a nest. I'd spent a lot of time, building acquaintances/friends back in those days and aside from present day Mel, it did not garner the type of female admiration you're thinking.



I got friend zoned the hell out of when I was in college.....it was one of the reasons why i dabbled in PUA for a particular time....very frustrating experience to say the least....


For me, it was far worse in high school than in college but friend zoning is normal because AWs don't know their head from their @ss.

I think the worst situations were the pseudo-classic New England gentlemen, who were completely bamboozled by their slutty friends who were always sleeping around with frat guys, druggies, douchebags, etc.

I'd called it quits, after dating two AWs, one who joined a cult, BTW, :roll: and she was book smart and got into medical school.
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Postby publicduende » Sun May 25, 2014 4:12 pm

S_Parc wrote:Public, more often than not, those AWs will *friend zone* the guy & start to treat him like a gay acquaintance. That's the reality of this society for the *nice* guys. And then, once the guy is established and earning six figures, then they'll suddenly show interest in him, wanting to get pregnant and to start a nest. I'd spent a lot of time, building acquaintances/friends back in those days and aside from present day Mel, it did not garner the type of female admiration you're thinking.

By going to Brazil, meeting women there will come naturally. He can do that after his initial 'getting it out of the way' trips with his dad.

It did it for me and I was 24 when I first started going abroad and since I wasn't so frustrated/desperate for s*x, I had a lot of quality GF potentials, as I wasn't seen as one of those "virgin" types, who BTW, also had GFs abroad but unlike them, I had no trouble waiting for the right one. Plus, this Yankee friend zone thing barely exists in those countries. If you're a decent looking guy with all round potential & personality, women will date you.


Had it been that simple, little Elliot should have had a constant pipeline of p***y outside his BMW. He was actually good looking and trim. He was from an upper class family with Hollywood connections. He had it all.

The problem was his personality. Whether or not he was an Aspie and on medication, he had clearly let his inability to connect to people rot into the kind of paranoid and isolationist attitude that we profusely read about on this forum and many others, including PUAHate.com (which by the way is down at the moment).

The guns, bought legally guns, did the rest.
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Postby droid » Sun May 25, 2014 4:16 pm

You make a lot of sense S_parc

S_Parc wrote:And since my mother is depressed and barely alive, I don't even consider her to be a living person but more the walking dead.

Ouch.
But I see where you're coming from. It's really frustrating when dealing with a person in that kind of state. It's like no matter what you say the person doesn't react.
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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 25, 2014 4:23 pm

publicduende wrote:
S_Parc wrote:Public, more often than not, those AWs will *friend zone* the guy & start to treat him like a gay acquaintance. That's the reality of this society for the *nice* guys. And then, once the guy is established and earning six figures, then they'll suddenly show interest in him, wanting to get pregnant and to start a nest. I'd spent a lot of time, building acquaintances/friends back in those days and aside from present day Mel, it did not garner the type of female admiration you're thinking.

By going to Brazil, meeting women there will come naturally. He can do that after his initial 'getting it out of the way' trips with his dad.

It did it for me and I was 24 when I first started going abroad and since I wasn't so frustrated/desperate for s*x, I had a lot of quality GF potentials, as I wasn't seen as one of those "virgin" types, who BTW, also had GFs abroad but unlike them, I had no trouble waiting for the right one. Plus, this Yankee friend zone thing barely exists in those countries. If you're a decent looking guy with all round potential & personality, women will date you.


Had it been that simple, little Elliot should have had a constant pipeline of p***y outside his BMW. He was actually good looking and trim. He was from an upper class family with Hollywood connections. He had it all.

The problem was his personality. Whether or not he was an Aspie and on medication, he had clearly let his social disconnect and inability to connect to people rot into the kind of paranoid and isolationist attitude that we profusely read about on this forum and many others, including PUAHate.com (which by the way is down at the moment).

The guns, bought legally guns, did the rest.


I'm going with the theory that his dad had dropped the ball on the kid and let nature take its course.

And thus, if he's not going to be socially attractive, then he's far better off at a 5 star Aussie/Kiwi brothel, spending his dad's cash then in going down that road to oblivion.

I would have arranged that for him, if I were his dad. (BTW, I did that for an American virgin at a Brazilian thermas and believe me, the guy was externally grateful. He'd later found a regular Brazilian GF and settled down with her.)

Afterwards, after some actual counseling, if he's not able to loosen up and mingle with others successfully, then there's a real psychological problem there, ala Ted Kaczynski.
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Postby droid » Sun May 25, 2014 4:23 pm

publicduende wrote:He was actually good looking and trim

Not enough for these girls believe it or not. Also not thug-bro enough. And he looked like 5'9", not enough either.

Not to justify him, because if he had a predisposition for this behavior something else might have triggered it anyways.
I put up with that bullshit in that asylum-town for more time than he did and never snapped. So it's both, the individual and the environment.
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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 25, 2014 4:49 pm

droid wrote:
publicduende wrote:He was actually good looking and trim

Not enough for these girls believe it or not. Also not thug-bro enough. And he looked like 5'9", not enough either.

Not to justify him, because if he had a predisposition for this behavior something else might have triggered it anyways.
I put up with that bullshit in that asylum-town for more time than he did and never snapped. So it's both, the individual and the environment.


I'm also guessing that he's not into the drug culture thing either, which is the easiest way to get AWs, even being a friend zone/gay acquaintance regardless of height/looks, because coke (with alcohol) gets women to start to see one in a higher light, like *he's so sweet but dangerous* and then, they can have s*x with a friend zone guy and not feel like it's weird anymore.

Yes, I had a couple experiences like that but left quickly, because I didn't want to be in place where there was coke lying around. For me, I like having a spotless record.
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