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What are the future dating prospects for my Eurasian sons?

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What are the dating prospects of our Eurasian sons?

Pure asian women will be more interested in them, white women less so
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59%
Both Asian women as well as white women will be less interested in them
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14%
Both Asian and white women will be more interested in them
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14%
More or less the same as anyone else
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Total votes : 22

Postby pete98146 » Mon Jun 02, 2014 7:31 pm

Of all my buddies here in Seattle, the one that is no doubt the most handsome by a long shot is half Asian half white. The guy has his pick of ANY women he wishes. His wife is a pretty white gal.

Mixed white/Asian kids can be stunning.
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Postby SilverEnergy » Mon Jun 02, 2014 7:38 pm

abcdavid01 wrote:I'm half White/half Chinese and 5'7". I don't know if it's too much of a problem regarding ladies. As for height, it depends on what state you live in. I'm right outside New York City and I never felt too short until I moved to the South for college. Even then I got tons of girls going for me though. I mean, Bruno Mars is popular, isn't he?

I think it's more important to have a stable, unified family. My parents divorce and I take it as a sign of failed race relations. I'm not against race mixing per se, but I don't think it should be encouraged. Too many people engage in it without thinking f the consequences. By even posting this it shows you're not one of them. That's good.

My biggest piece of advice is this: The family that prays together, stays together.

My family didn't and we were divided. Even without religion, you shouldn't let cultural differences divide you. In fact, you should try to completely eliminate any cultural differences. The Bible says you should be one flesh.

For your sons, this isn't politically correct, but they're the ones who carry the family name, so it's important who they marry. Since I'm mixed, if I marry a White woman, my son would only be a quarter Chinese. If I married a Chinese woman my son would be 75% Chinese. That's a huge difference in how people would see them, how they'd see themselves and how they'd look at the world, what values they'd have and what History they'd feel connected to. It's not a good burden to have to make that sort of choice, so it's much better if you keep your family united. You don't want your son to end up like me because I plan on changing my last name.


Why is race mixing a bad thing?

Come on homie, many people of the same race get divorced.

Of course, cultural differences can create a bad relationship, that's why, it's encouraged that one learns as much about the culture of their SO as much as possible.

Some people regardless of race are just not going to get along.

Some people are incompatible with people of their own race.

Since you are half asian half white and you don't believe in race mixing, what race are you going to end up marrying?

How many of you on HA believe in just dating your own race?

Many of you don't have too much of a choice, given how your own white American women treat you.
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Postby Repatriate » Mon Jun 02, 2014 8:07 pm

Here's my experience from interacting with lots of mixed race people. I had a LOT of friends who were half white/half asian and a couple girlfriends who were this category too. I was in the west coast somewhere. :lol:

Mixed race kids tend to come from divorced parents. Interracial marriages don't last long so it leaves a lot of single mom or dad mixed kids living in varied conditions. I'm not racist this is just what I personally observed and interacted with. A lot of the kids had severe idetntiy issues and were angry at one race or another. Once again these are just my experiences..yours may be different down in buttfuck, USA but I somehow doubt it.

The mixed daughters were often above average in attractiveness but also had a history of promiscuity. After my former mixed girlfriend "moved on" she had a long string of boyfriends and basically became a whore before hitting the wall. She struggled hard with identity. I don't see why people assume females have it better..unless you want them to be promiscuous and lacking identity. A lot of mixed girls have these issues.

The mixed brother (one of my friends) became a gangbanger and then became a drug addict. He hung out with asians and mexicans because whites never accepted him.


So, that's how I view it. Good luck gents. Because you guys honestly don't have a clue. :lol:
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jun 02, 2014 8:56 pm

Repatriate wrote:Mixed race kids tend to come from divorced parents. Interracial marriages don't last long so it leaves a lot of single mom or dad mixed kids living in varied conditions. I'm not racist this is just what I personally observed and interacted with. A lot of the kids had severe idetntiy issues and were angry at one race or another. Once again these are just my experiences..yours may be different down in buttfuck, USA but I somehow doubt it.

The mixed daughters were often above average in attractiveness but also had a history of promiscuity. After my former mixed girlfriend "moved on" she had a long string of boyfriends and basically became a whore before hitting the wall. She struggled hard with identity. I don't see why people assume females have it better..unless you want them to be promiscuous and lacking identity. A lot of mixed girls have these issues.

The mixed brother (one of my friends) became a gangbanger and then became a drug addict. He hung out with asians and mexicans because whites never accepted him.


Well, first of all, typical white-to-white American marriages in the US have a 50%+ divorce rate, so the lackey kid was something even caucasians had to go through, starting from the 70s up through today. If my mother wasn't a depressed zombie, chances are, my parents would have been divorced but she gave up on life, and became a vegetable during my early teens. Thus, I'm among the handful of persons whose parents are still together. Yet, I'd hardly describe 'em as happy :roll:

As for identity, the biggest problem is that the White/Asian couples also tend to look down upon the Latin communities, where pretty much, many of the children actually have a lot of Eurasian features. Thus, if they'd actually taught the kids Spanish, from an early age, and didn't play the whole *we're better than those ppl* game, their kids may have had an alternate community to join. I'd say that Brandon Lee, very much looks like a Latin soap opera star, if he took his business to Mexico City, instead of Tinseltown. Others could have followed suit, if they didn't try so hard to be Anglo-American in culture.
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Postby Cornfed » Mon Jun 02, 2014 9:12 pm

It is really impossible to say what will be the case that far ahead in the future, because the current world situation is unstable. I would be more worried about whether future children will be alive at all rather than whether they will be popular with Western sluts. In the best case scenario the sluts will probably be so repulsive, psychotic and diseased by then that you would want to avoid them at all costs anyway.
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Postby Repatriate » Mon Jun 02, 2014 9:49 pm

S_Parc wrote:As for identity, the biggest problem is that the White/Asian couples also tend to look down upon the Latin communities, where pretty much, many of the children actually have a lot of Eurasian features. Thus, if they'd actually taught the kids Spanish, from an early age, and didn't play the whole *we're better than those ppl* game, their kids may have had an alternate community to join. I'd say that Brandon Lee, very much looks like a atin soap opera star, if he took his business to Mexico City, instead of Tinseltown. Others could have followed suit, if they didn't try so hard to be Anglo-American in culture.

Acceptance is much deeper than basic appearances. If they didn't grow up in a spanish speaking household they will be sussed out fast by the other kids quickly and bashed. Plus what kind of shit future do they have if they grow up only to join some 5th rate latino barrio culture?

Btw, I don't know why people keep thinking their kids will look like Brandon Lee. He was the son of one of the most legendary asian men in the modern era and a movie star to boot. You have a statistically MUCH greater chance of popping out an Elliott Rodger crazy homicidal man or mixed female whore/porn star than a movie star like Brandon Lee. Plus are you _the fat old whining man_ going to teach your kids martial arts or put your kid on the fast track to movie stardom? Please. Some of you guys are sucking hard on the long hallucinogenic peace pipe with two balls dangling beneath it.

Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.
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Re: What are the future dating prospects for my Eurasian son

Postby OutWest » Mon Jun 02, 2014 10:14 pm

MarcosZeitola wrote:
OutWest wrote: I have two Eurasian children- a 14 year old girl and a 7 year old boy as well as one baby boy in the oven. (First two with my Filipina EX.) Its hard to predict how the height deal will turn out exactly.
My son's mother is 5' 1" and I am only 5' 10", yet my son is tall for his age.(54 inches at age 7)


In that case I am not too worried. The difference in height between my wife and I is a little bigger though, as I am six feet and she is below five feet (about 4'11"). The average would be sort of similar and I heard a good way to determine a son's adult height is by adding ten centimeters to the average of the man's and the woman's height.

It will be a fun development to watch but I am not very worried either way. As of yet I have one infant daughter and plan on having more. Preferably several of each; sons and daughters.

OutWest wrote: Im not too worried about their prospects- I am not interested in American notions of dating at any rate, and my kids will be spending most of their time outside the USA . I am more concerned with making sure they have the means to be economically secure and industrious. If they are socially skilled and personally prosperous, a lot of things fall into place.


True, true. Viewing it like that makes an awful lot of sense. Social skills and a good job prospect sure helps. I will focus especially on the first as being socially savvy will be a major advantage to them either way. Congratulations on the new arrival BTW. And if I may be so bold to ask... you have an ex, you say? As in, ex-wife? Because I could have sworn there's no divorce laws in the Philippines and its forbidden to divorce. I could be mistaken though. I hear of many people who separate and find new partners whilst still officially married. I am curious how you handled it.


Yes, it was most unfortunate. The marriage and eventual divorce (her idea) took place in the USA.
While there is no divorce in the Philippines, a divorce such as this is still recognized under the Philippines Family Code. As such things go...it was a good divorce...
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jun 02, 2014 10:53 pm

Repatriate wrote:Acceptance is much deeper than basic appearances. If they didn't grow up in a spanish speaking household they will be sussed out fast by the other kids quickly and bashed. Plus what kind of shit future do they have if they grow up only to join some 5th rate latino barrio culture?

Btw, I don't know why people keep thinking their kids will look like Brandon Lee. He was the son of one of the most legendary asian men in the modern era and a movie star to boot. You have a statistically MUCH greater chance of popping out an Elliott Rodger crazy homicidal man or mixed female whore/p**n star than a movie star like Brandon Lee. Plus are you _the fat old whining man_ going to teach your kids martial arts or put your kid on the fast track to movie stardom? Please. Some of you guys are sucking hard on the long hallucinogenic peace pipe with two balls dangling beneath it.

Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.


In terms of averages, yes, you're correct.

On the other hand, Spanish speakers are the largest growing demographic in the country. The barrio isn't the final destination down the road, unless the whole nation becomes one big urban slum.

As for parents, I concur, most parents are lazy and don't know how to raise kids.

The Asian/White families I know of, like many white American families, treat the daughters better than the sons and thus, you have a breeding ground for the next Elliot Rodger. At least if the all-white guy gets disposed of, he can join the Oxycontin crowd and have a community of other hobos, now that heroin & other opiates are a white culture thing. The half-Asian guy won't even have a circle of fellow junkies.

With the above said, leave America, if you want to raise a family. I would have done it earlier in Brazil, had my Brazilian ex-GF and I stayed together. But in her mind, my dysfunctional family of birth would have made her future offspring feel unwanted in MA and thus, she opted out. She wanted her future children to be embraced by both sides of her extended families. Plus, she's amendable to homeschooling, had we stayed in Boston, if there was too much bullying in the US K-12 system.
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Postby MarcosZeitola » Mon Jun 02, 2014 11:02 pm

Repatriate wrote:Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.


I am not fat and I am not old. I am in my early twenties and above average looking. My children will be average to above average, and no kid is every mediocre in the eyes of his parents unless said parent is a giant asshole who shouldn't ever have had kids in the first place. I will teach my sons to be strong and I will teach them to be manly. They will not be beaten up by anyone. Plus, lets be fair here... they are growing up in a village where the average man is maybe 5'5" give or take. I am six feet. Surely they'll be taller and more robust build then the average boy on the schoolyard. It's not like they will have much of a hard time. Plus obviously I will teach them from an early age on to stand up for themselves.

Maybe if they went and lived in the West things would be differently. But as I see it they have some mighty good opportunities in the Phillipines. Please don't assume my children will be below average or mediocre. That's like the worlds biggest bullshit my friend. :roll:

I never said I expected a Brandon Lee. Never even brought the guy up, some else did and I later replied to it. I'm not a Bruce Lee and I never will be. My wife's relatives are all a lot darker and stockier then Bruce. So genetically speaking there's little chance of our sons looking like Brandon. They will probably have more of a tan and they'd have different features. They also wouldn't have amazing movie connections, a famous last name or a personal martial arts teacher around them from birth.

They also won't have a workaholic Hollywood director father and an absent, actress mother like Elliot Rodger. They will not be too coddled, and they will not be raised too strict with a focus purely on education alone rather then social skills like some Asian children. In the end I am sure they will be perfectly fine, and in no way "mediocre". :wink:
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Postby S_Parc » Tue Jun 03, 2014 12:46 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:
Repatriate wrote:Your kids will be below average and maybe mediocre at best. You'll be lucky if they don't get their asses kicked every day at school by the other kids.


Maybe if they went and lived in the West things would be differently. But as I see it they have some mighty good opportunities in the Phillipines. Please don't assume my children will be below average or mediocre. That's like the worlds biggest bullshit my friend. :roll:

They also won't have a workaholic Hollywood director father and an absent, actress mother like Elliot Rodger. They will not be too coddled, and they will not be raised too strict with a focus purely on education alone rather then social skills like some Asian children. In the end I am sure they will be perfectly fine, and in no way "mediocre". :wink:


I think the gist of his response was that within the US, Asian/White couplings have a greater propensity for failure and for their kids to be misfits because on the whole, parents in the US do not know how to raise kids, and thus, the sectarianism of the mainstream, where ppl stay in cliques, creates a lot of trouble for the offsprings.
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Postby SilverEnergy » Tue Jun 03, 2014 12:57 am

Too many hangups when it comes to dating on this website.

I don't think many of you have too many choices, seeing as how your own western women treat you.

The whole argument on this forum as far as racial mixing is the same philosophy spoken by 1950 racists.

No wonder many of you cant' find quality women because you're too hung up on race.

Then you accuse women are being too picky when you don't believe in dating or marrying someone of another race.

That explains high percentage of HA members that hate Obama and are politically conservative.
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Postby SilverEnergy » Tue Jun 03, 2014 1:12 am

Asian/White couples have a failure rate when it comes to children???

I would say that Americans in general have a failure rate when it comes to raising their kids, especially when it comes to raising white boys, who are losing their minds and mass murdering people.

A greater chance of producing a mass murderer and a female porn star due to interracial mixing when most porn stars and mass murders are white???

Keep on believing your racist ignorance.

This website is nuts.

Everyone mixed or not gets picked on, I will even say that you're most likely to be picked on by members of their own race.

Remember the Columbine High School shooting? The white male shooters were picked on by their own white classmates as it was a mostly white school.

GTFO!!!
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Postby S_Parc » Tue Jun 03, 2014 1:19 am

SilverEnergy wrote:Asian/White couples have a failure rate when it comes to children???

I would say that Americans in general have a failure rate when it comes to raising their kids, especially when it comes to raising white boys, who are losing their minds and mass murdering people.

A greater chance of producing a mass murderer and a female p**n star due to interracial mixing when most p**n stars and mass murders are white???

Keep on believing your racist ignorance.

This website is nuts.

GTFO!!!


Here's the article on Heroin, as the new white drug ...

http://news.yahoo.com/heroin-drug-choice-white-us-suburbs-212100239.html
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Postby MarcosZeitola » Wed Jun 04, 2014 3:34 pm

S_Parc wrote:
SilverEnergy wrote:Asian/White couples have a failure rate when it comes to children???

I would say that Americans in general have a failure rate when it comes to raising their kids, especially when it comes to raising white boys, who are losing their minds and mass murdering people.

A greater chance of producing a mass murderer and a female p**n star due to interracial mixing when most p**n stars and mass murders are white???

Keep on believing your racist ignorance.

This website is nuts.

GTFO!!!


Here's the article on Heroin, as the new white drug ...

http://news.yahoo.com/heroin-drug-choice-white-us-suburbs-212100239.html


Another risk you don't really have if you raise your kids in a rural Asian town. At most they'll drink a few beers growing up, get wasted a few times as most teenagers do. But no heroine, cocaine, XTC or even weed or any of that shit will be around. Never seen a junkie there anywhere outside the major cities.

Raising a family in America these days, especially in big cities, seems like madness.
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Postby Robert77 » Wed Jun 04, 2014 3:43 pm

Raise them in Asia, with Asian values.... if you raise them in America you're gonna have some f***ed UP KIDS with major identity issues!
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