Tsar wrote:Ultimately won't affect the way I act if I get the right girl. I want a girl that's mostly a Classic Princess but also the sweet version of the Mafia Princess trope. She shouldn't care how I get us the life we deserve or what business dealings I would be involved in as long as we have a great life and a happily ever after ending. I don't require a girl to be my life partner forever because the door will always be open if she wants to leave. All she would need to do is say the words. If she ever cheated then I would divorce her regardless of memories, time together, or how much I liked being with her.
I would want to support her and she shouldn't work unless its beside me. I wouldn't force her to remain a partner for life but I would make leaving very financially painful. She could leave but she would know that it has a severe consequence. Adulterous behaviors have the same severe consequence. There is only one king in chess but any pawn could become a new queen
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Remaining a virgin has nothing to do with being honorable. Remaining a virgin is about pride and losing my virginity to an attractive virgin girl is about preserving my honor and pride. There is a difference between a person's honor and a person acting honorably.
An example would be the mafia lord.
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I am all-in because compromise isn't an option. It's not only about love, it's also about deriving pride and happiness from having an ideal girl.
People's personality types aren't like TV Tropes, my friend. They are just a collection of cliches from various movies and TV-series. None of them adequately describe the level of complexity that one can find in a human being. Your ideal girl may be "lawful good" most of the time then go "chaotic evil" when she's on the rag.
That's not how the world works.
As far as virginity goes? Losing it isn't all that glamorous as its made up to be. My first time was with a lady in her thirties, when I was a teenager. She was definitely not a virgin but she knew what she was doing, that's for sure!
The experience was largely positive, although it wasn't all that its hyped up to be, I thought to myself. Still it felt like somewhat of a "rite of passage". I just had sex! However, I will tell you a little secret... it didn't last all that long. I think most guys don't, the first time. Foreplay, kissing, fondling, all that took quite a while. The actual deed itself was probably over in a few minutes. Chances are she's had better, especially since it was a first time. What did I know about pleasing a woman? I did what came natural to me, but I sure as hell wasn't much of a porn star, haha.
Anyway, long story short... I had sex with several girls and young women prior to meeting my wife. I was by no means a Don Juan but I managed a few flings, none of which with girls I'd consider "relationship material". Yes, most of them were probably sluts. Who cares? The world needs sluts. Young men need sluts. How else can a man gain experience?
When my wife and I had our first time together, I knew the ropes. I had the stamina, the experience, the confidence. I could last long and make her feel good. My first impression on her in bed was as good as my first impression outside the bed. My first time was me, after a few minutes, rolling on my back, thinking "was this it?". I didn't want her first time to be like that. That would have made a shitty impression, don't you think?
My idea of masculinity is that as a man, you ought to be able to take charge both in the bedroom as well as outside it. How can you do that when you don't know what the hell you are doing? And no, porn doesn't count. Having a lively imagination (something you clearly have!) doesn't count either. What counts is experience. There's nothing honorable about only having sex with virgins. Having sex with a slut does not make you lose honor... it simply makes you into a man, and allows you to do so with a woman who at least knows what she's doing.
I am not a big fan of the West, my friend, but as a man? As a man, an honest man, I will be the first to say: "Thank God for sluts!"
Just make sure you don't marry one and you are safe. Sluts are for gaining experience. They are the easy girls you get with to learn a thing or two. Then you marry a good, loyal girl and live with her. But my advice to you is: accept the fact that there are easy girls out there, who are not relationship material but very suitable for expanding your experience and confidence. It can be an empowering feeling. The system may be corrupt and rotten, Tsar, but if you play your cards right you can still have some fun while you work on achieving the financial security you require for your perfect life with Ms. Virgin Princess.
