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I know it is hard to imagine there are single American women out there but there are and some of them feel disenfranchised the way we do. I notice some of us are caught up in our being the victim narrative that we don't think about that. Both genders have a victimization mentality just like the rich and the poor have a victimization mentality. And that mentality has led to misandry and misogyny.
So if you have any single female friends, do you recommend they go to Italy or Thailand or wherever you think there are more romantic prospects?
Western society caters to the needs of women entirely. In other countries and continents this is not the case to the same extent. You would be pretty retarded as a woman to leave a place where you can easily get whatever you want with little effort.
Some women go abroad and find happiness, certainly. Usually this is the case when they marry a foreign man, and he gets homesick. They often end up returning again as they have been spoiled by Western living conditions, but some tough ladies stay abroad and adapt.
They are the minority, but it happens. Overall, going abroad is a man's endeavor, as it mostly benefits men. If life gave us what we wanted in the West this site would not exist.
It's a necessity that many men go to foreign countries that don't cater to women as much as they do in America.
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Yes some women would be happier abroad too. Even though women are treated very well in the US, they do not look like they are exactly radiating joy and bliss. They still look angry, stressed and dissatisfied, like they are barely hanging on. Many are also misanthropes, meaning they dislike people in general and have very few close friends.
Removing them from a toxic culture would do them some good, unless they are the type that really fit well in the US.
Many women also like men abroad because they do not have the issues, baggage and personality problems that men in America do. They are not as screwed up and passive.
Here is what one female in our ladies forum said about why she prefers foreign men.
http://www.happierabroad.com/ladiesforu ... p=710#p710
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"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
Not a necessity but the smartest decision one could make. I find that most women in the West, in my country (in Western Europe) are very much the same. Black, white, asian. Immigrant, native, Christian, Hindu, Muslim... it makes little difference. It's an environment you have to leave when it is a traditional life and traditionally oriented women you want. Because even the most traditional of women in the West see feminists being independent with their "I'm a proud independent woman who don't need no man" attitude and more often then not, it rubs off on them.
There are only very few women in the West who don't belong here mentally. However there's a fair chance of men who have such feelings, as the society our grandfathers lived in was one based on male dominance, whereas the current one is more like the opposite. We all have options, we all have cards. If we want to play them to the best of our abilities it's best to do so in Asia, Africa, Latin America or such places.
A woman can be a woman in the West. In Europe she can, in America she can. But a man can't be a man here, it seems. Thank God I found a place where I can!
I agree with that lady on all but one thing: paying for dates.
I absolutely refuse to pay for dates for western women. I have before (even got sex out of it before), but I always left feeling like an idiot. These women are able to make as much money as me if they choose to (some already make more). They want to be feminists when it comes to the workplace, but they want to be traditional when it comes to dating. Nope, pick one or the other.
With that said, I don't have a problem paying for Filipinas for reasonable things....not their mother dying or their computer breaking lol, but for dates and possibly traveling with them in their country. I figure they make shit wages compared to me and actually act feminine so I don't have a problem being masculine with them.
Yeah, I think this Is true for some. I know a chick who is smart and a little thick that is moving to England for better options, to be honest more power to her, I think smart average girls get a lot of shit to be honest. Also, I think more traditional women might do better in Europe. I mean the type that is all family values, etc not the kind that says that stuff but In reality is just a lazy bitch and wants to sit home and eat bon bons all day
Stop being angry at the stuff you don't have (yet) in life and instead focus on how to get it.
Thailand , no. Women are a dime a dozen there , actually western men in Thailand or mainland china are like blonde women in the middle east. You would be better off in Italy ... but you would be way out classed ... Italian men will get their way , charm and manipulate you, fill you with desire and wanton ... then you will be his slave and if you dis please him he will leave you.
The men in non western based societies tend to suffer less at the hand of displaced feminist based western women because they don't support them at all in fact if you show these tendencies over there you will most probably get thrown out of the house. This may seem backwards but actually supporting a feminist western women is.
What sort of woman do you class your self as ? a feminist type or a traditionalist type ?
What did you want to achieve ? did you want to find true love ? or just have a firey romance ?
Good answer : ) I like the post the woman put up on the fem section, except for the assumption that a man that dosent pay for dates is cheep.. that's a womans view, its deeply ingrained in their psyche that men have to pay for dates.
Its a custom to pay for the favours of a woman .. .that's prostitution. A man that dosent want to pay or goes dutch has more respect in my opinion.
Mind you ive had women shout me drinks in my time and it most definitely got them laid.. repeatedly !
im a prostitute ?
Lol sorry but east Asians don't worship westerners. A white woman isn't seen as ultimate by an east Asian man. They are actually seen as too masculine by most east Asian men.
Also Italy. WTF are you on about. You are aware that Italian women are pretty damn attractive and that an average American woman wouldn't do that well in Italy because the local women look far more attractive than her and aren't as fat.
The average American woman in fact does the best right where she is in America. Most American men never travel abroad and see how attractive foreign women are. Most American men even accept overweight plain looking white women. America is her best bet.
FYI at the OP. Single women in America. lol.
Let me tell you something the only ever single American women I have ever seen were absolutely ugly beyond reason like 1/10.
Nearly all other American woman can get dates rather easily.
Put simply if you are an American woman and you can't even get a date in the USA where women are put on a pedestal and half the men are mangina's then you are pretty much screwed. There is no other society you can go that kisses women's asses more. On the other hand for American and western Men there are many countries to go to that treat men better than the USA.
I have heard that ugly white women take trips to the Caribbean or some other place and the black men seem to have sex with them no matter how bad looking the woman is.
I never had any single female friend in my native EU-country in my entire life.
To be a single female does not mean to be without sex. Most single Western females have plenty of boyfriends anyway, who will pay for their trips if they really want to go overseas.
I do not think they will be 'happier abroad', as governments of feminist countries are doing their best to keep women happy all time. In countries like Thailand this is not the case.
You are absolutely correct, if a woman can't meet a man in America, there is NO country in the world where she will be able to meet a man.
America is one of the easiest countries in the world for women to meet men. I see women who are obese and I see women who are hideous looking who have no problems meeting men.
I once heard a morbidly obese woman I used to work with say that when she breaks up with a boyfriend, she usually has another boyfriend within a few months!
On the other hand, I know a lot of single guys who are good looking and in great shape say that they can't even get a woman's phone number!
America is a dating paradise for women and a dating hell for men!
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."