Rock wrote:eurobrat wrote:Winston wrote:Eurobrat,We already explained to you why we go back to America. Rock goes back to see his parents. He is close to his parents, not like most white American families are. I go back to the USA to see nature and because I miss the big portions in restaurants and the clean air. The US is unparalleled when it comes to nature and national parks.
Also Winston, I disagree with what you said about living in a small town everyones friendly. I tried this in Italy and it was the exact opposite.
Yea, small towns are often hickish with people who act very suspicious of outsiders and not friendly at all. Chiayi in Taiwan is a great example of this. Another is my small hometown here in Illinois though it's not as bad as Chiayi. Think about how the locals in "Deliverance" behaved towards the visitors who came to boat. That's not so far off the mark for many small towns and villages around the world.
I disagree 100 percent. Chiayi is not considered a small town. It is a small city. Chiayi has skyscraper buildings and tons of traffic on its streets. That's no small town. The Italian town that Eurobrat lived in is also a small city. He experienced Italian cliquishness which is part of their culture, not because it was a small town. A small town in my view is more like Mayberry on "The Andy Griffith Show" or Walnut Grove on "Little House on the Prairie". Such towns have very little traffic, are surrounded by beautiful nature and outdoor scenery, and have friendly people that talk to strangers. I'm talking about towns with only a few hundred or a few thousand people.
Maybe in Illinois small towns are closed and hickish. But not in the Southwest USA. I've been to many small towns in Arizona, New Mexico, Utah and Colorado. The people there are more likely to smile, make eye contact and talk to strangers. I speak from personal experience. More strangers talk to me in small towns than in big cities and suburbs. People are way more down-to-earth too. Just ask the people in the small towns themselves. They will agree with me and they have when I asked them.
This is true even in Nevada. For example, in Las Vegas people do not talk to strangers. They are very snobby like in LA. But if you go to Carson City, the capitol of Nevada, the vibe is different. It is relaxed and down-to-earth and people are friendlier and talk to strangers more easily. Every time I went to the hot springs pool in Carson City, people have talked to me and engaged me in conversation. And in restaurants, waiters will ask me questions and make conversation with me. Go to Carson City sometime and you will see what I mean.
Also, in Lincoln, NM and Capital, NM, a lot of shop owners talked to me. And even an attractive woman in a laundromat talked to me and gave me a ride in her SUV to the supermarket to get detergent. Those things never happen to me in US cities and suburbans. How do you explain that?