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American Univ. Men Afraid to Hook Up (Alarming Article)

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American Univ. Men Afraid to Hook Up (Alarming Article)

Postby The » Thu Aug 21, 2014 10:27 pm

Heres an interesting article on the state of college hook up culture in America...and its alarming to say the least...

Young college aged American men...your time is done...GET OUT OF HERE AS SOON AS YOU CAN!

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-08-2 ... alarm.html

HERES SOME QUOTES:

As former social chair of the Sigma Chi fraternity at Harvard University, Malik Gill wants to appear especially welcoming to girls who come to the house for parties.

Yet, Gill, who starts his junior year in a few weeks, says he won’t be offering a female classmate a beer.

“I don’t want to look like a predator,â€￾ the 20-year-old economics major said. “It’s a little bit of a blurred line.â€￾


“I don’t think it’s about me,â€￾ said Gill, the Harvard student. “I feel like I’m pretty good guy. But if I’m talking to a girl and want to gauge her interest, I’m more cautious than I used to be. I don’t want to cross the line.â€￾


“He was a pretty outgoing guy and did well with the ladies,â€￾ Gill recalled. “It’s kind of like the nature of college hooking up -- taking numbers -- and it doesn’t always pan out but hopefully it does once in a while.â€￾

More Hesitant

Gill passed the contact information along. Still, his friend hesitated to follow up.

“Even though she was interested, he didn’t want to pressure her,â€￾ Gill said. “He was worried about making her feel uncomfortable.â€￾


Alcohol Shadow

Often considered a social enhancer by students, alcohol now can cast a shadow over sex when there’s any suggestion that it may have dimmed a woman’s judgment. Oscar Sandoval, a senior at Stanford University, near Palo Alto, California, got a text message late one spring evening from a female friend. Did he feel like hanging out?

When his friend arrived from a party she was drunk, he said. Her flirting and touching made Sandoval uncomfortable. Something about the situation reminded him of educational sessions he’d had in prior years where he’d learned about sexual consent. Sandoval walked his friend back to her dorm.

“Among the people I hang out with, there’s more hesitancy to hook up with someone when there’s alcohol involved,â€￾ Sandoval, 21, said. “Something that you might have thought would be okay when you were drunk might not be okay later on. â€￾

Bystander Programs

The programs preach that while most men aren’t predators, a few -- even those who appear as “nice guysâ€￾ -- may be; that sex requires clear consent from both parties; and that drunkenness is not an excuse for assaulting behavior.

Adam Erickson, a 19-year-old sophomore at Yale University, was at a party last year when he noticed that a female friend appeared to have had too much to drink. While that’s not totally unusual behavior at parties, Erickson grew concerned when his friend began talking with a man who appeared to be showing a lot of interest in her.

“It was a guy I knew a little bit about, and I didn’t like his reputation,â€￾ Erickson said. “I just kind of interposed myself and started talking to her about something. The guy got the message and he took off.â€￾


Gill, the Harvard student, said he has male friends who will sometimes call out others who joke about sex in conversation.

“If you think sexual assault is okay,â€￾ he said, “you’re just an asshole.â€￾


THE HOOK UP CULTURE IN COLLEGE IS DYING IN AMERICA MAKING IT HARDER FOR YOUNG MEN TO GET LAID....VERY SAD FOR THE NEW GENERATION THAT IS COMING UP....STICK A FORK IN AMERICA! IT IS DONE!
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Postby The » Thu Aug 21, 2014 10:33 pm

If you click the article link and read some of the comments they are actually on our side on this issue for the most part....
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Postby Cornfed » Thu Aug 21, 2014 10:34 pm

This is a logical evolution. Feminism is the cooption of all females by the elite. At first the elite were happy to share females with various non-elite dirtbags in order to get the females away from ordinary, decent men. However, this was a transitional phase. Increasingly sex between non-elite men and females will be criminalized as the elite men assert their exclusive property rights over females.
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Postby The » Thu Aug 21, 2014 10:37 pm

I can imagine the increase of white knights on college campuses nowadays.....
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Postby Ghost » Fri Aug 22, 2014 1:51 am

You have to avoid AWs at all costs these days; it is dangerous merely to associate or interact with them.
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Postby The » Fri Aug 22, 2014 12:36 pm

Ghost wrote:You have to avoid AWs at all costs these days; it is dangerous merely to associate or interact with them.


Absolutely agree...Hell I remember in my college days though it was hard then to get laid and I kept my self in great shape and improved my conversational skills, joined all these social clubs and whatnot and it was hard as f**k just to hook up...Now men these days are just giving up entirely to hooking up (exaggeration I know) but its certainly trending towards that....They would rather be white knights I guess...Its alot less risk....
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Postby johnnyderp » Sat Aug 23, 2014 12:57 am

The wrote:If you click the article link and read some of the comments they are actually on our side on this issue for the most part....


Yeah, and the 'likes' on the comments tended to support our side of the argument. I also noticed that people who disagreed with those comments could only retort with snide, snarky remarks or petty insults. Modern 'liberals' are completely incapable of genuine, thought-provoking debate.
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Postby Yohan » Sat Sep 06, 2014 12:11 pm

Ghost wrote:You have to avoid AWs at all costs these days; it is dangerous merely to associate or interact with them.


This is the only possible solution. You have to mistrust any Western woman, as she might accuse you anytime out of no understandable reason. Be careful and remain always in a public area. If invited by her to a private room refuse to follow her.

A serious problem is about alcohol and drugs. Even drinking a very small amount of alcohol, or taking any medicine etc. might be enough legal reason for her to claim successfully rape despite clear consent was given.

She can recall her consent anytime, even many months later when she regrets suddenly her one-night-stand because she found a new boyfriend.

The Western law is very biased, it presumes the man to act always responsible while drunk. But if you ask a woman for her own safety not to drink too much are are called a 'rape apologist'.

The link to this story is not working anymore.
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Postby jamesbond » Sat Sep 06, 2014 1:22 pm

Yohan wrote:She can recall her consent anytime, even many months later when she regrets suddenly her one-night-stand because she found a new boyfriend.


Exactly, if she experiences "slut remorse" she can always go the police and say she was raped. I read an article last year that stated in the US, 50% of rape cases are proven to be false! :shock:
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Postby Yohan » Sat Sep 06, 2014 2:55 pm

jamesbond wrote:Exactly, if she experiences "slut remorse" she can always go the police and say she was raped. I read an article last year that stated in the US, 50% of rape cases are proven to be false!


Estimates of false rape allegations are between 2 % and 90 percent -

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusation_of_rape

Nobody knows anymore in Western countries what the word 'rape' really means. Some feminists are claiming, false rape allegations are so rare - but if true or not - a rare crime is still a crime.

http://www.mediaradar.org/research_on_f ... ations.php

According to the FBI, about 95,000 forcible rapes were reported in 2004.8 Based on the statements and studies cited above, some 47,000 American men are falsely accused of rape each year. These men are disproportionately African-American.


To claim a crime is rare is no valid excuse for lenient punishment.

Men's rights groups insist that false rape allegations are very common and indeed they are in the news almost daily, worldwide.

My opinion is that a false rape allegation is a convenient crime as the female likely gets away easily, often remains anonymous, even in case the truth is coming out and she is facing a court for filing a false police report.

About false rape allegations I saw a while ago a list - there are about 15 different 'reasons' known so far to cry rape.

It's about getting finally rid of a former boyfriend, about unwilling to pay a taxi-fare, about a teacher who gave a female student a low score, about a guard who noticed a woman shoplifting, about a daughter and father was refusing to give her money to buy a CD player and other useless items, and finally about feeling boring at home and give the police something to do and so on and so on.

The possible world record is with 40 false rape allegations, and the woman is still not in jail.

http://blog.singularvalues.com/2009/01/ ... t-her.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article ... riend.html

It is ridiculous to expect from a young man, without legal background, often under influence of alcohol, to know the law in all details and to make the correct decision when challenged to go ahead when meeting a woman for private contact.

I remember a 'cry-rape' case in Australia and one in Sweden a while ago, where even judges and the bar association openly admitted they have problems how to interpret the law. Rape is a huge greyzone with many options of either - or.
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Postby sea_dragon » Sat Sep 06, 2014 4:15 pm

Those men are getting smarter. They should take it to the next level and go abroad.
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Postby KokujinKrusader » Sat Sep 06, 2014 4:43 pm

sea_dragon wrote:Those men are getting smarter. They should take it to the next level and go abroad.


Yes, they are, but if they do go abroad that means more competition for us. It's better for them to just stay home and work to maintain society so that we may go abroad, the feminist c**ts can drain the nuts of the alphas, and society can limp along.
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Postby S_Parc » Sat Sep 06, 2014 5:30 pm

Kobe Bryant, a multimillionaire MVP NBA basketball player, lost millions, because of a false rape charge.

See below for his staggering salary ...

http://www.basketball-reference.com/players/b/bryanko01.html


As soon as the b*tch took the settlement money, I knew that it was pure BS. A person looking for real justice would never have walked away with a big payday, that quickly.

Also, Kobe had to buy his wife a $4M diamond ring to quiet her down.

In all honesty, if I were making the kind of mint as Kobe, I wouldn't ever get involved with a woman. I'd have a few Sugar Babies, situated on the east and west coasts, and bo*nk 'em during the regular season tours. Otherwise, I'd have mistresses in Brazil and forget all the horseshit of this country.
16 years ago, the Best Picture of 1999, "American Beauty", telegraphed the message of Happier Abroad to the world.

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BTW, despite settling down with an AW, myself, the warning is still in effect.
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Postby Rayn » Sat Sep 06, 2014 5:35 pm

Maybe this time moronic Americans would finally learn to approach girls without relying on beer.
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Postby zboy1 » Sat Sep 06, 2014 6:54 pm

KokujinKrusader wrote:
sea_dragon wrote:Those men are getting smarter. They should take it to the next level and go abroad.


Yes, they are, but if they do go abroad that means more competition for us. It's better for them to just stay home and work to maintain society so that we may go abroad, the feminist c**ts can drain the nuts of the alphas, and society can limp along.


Yeah, I agree. I don't want more and more effed-up Westerners going to infect other countries, en masse. Only a small percentage should do so, for example, the HA and MGTOW/MRA crowd. The rest should stay home!
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