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The biggest risk factor for divorce is any woman that grows up in a middle class or wealthy family. Basically, all the women in the Northern Hemisphere. These women have a divorce rate that's 5 times higher than poor women from third world countries. Also, avoid women from any country that has a low birth rate.
A good example of this is Kris Aquino(Philippines Oprah), Philippines President's sister, divorced twice in a country where divorce is illegal.
Better know her very well; marrying in a country either with no divorce or without frivorce is a no-brainer. Truth is that all women will divorce and abandon their husbands if there is the incentive to do so. This is why one absolutely cannot bring a FW back to the U.S. these days. There are a very few who manage to do it; assume that YOU will be the guy to die from Russian Roulette if you try it.
Tell her the truth of what happens to divorced men in the U.S.; see how she responds and go from there.
Pure gibberish and nonsense.
Different time period now.
Of course you're supposed to be faithful.
Adhering to old ideas will make it very hard for many of you to find women.
Women are going to have sex before they get married and it doesn't make them sluts or whores.
Then many of you complain and whine when women want to be picky.
"Allow me to show you the Power Cosmic!" - Silver Surfer
Virginity is one reason to go abroad for a wife. Statistically, women who are virgins at marriage are less likely to divorce than women who have had multiple partners before marriage. A new study also shows that non-virgins are less likely to be happier with their marriages later on.
I married a virgin. I never had to worry about her giving me some kind of STD, either.
If her morals let her sleep around before she gets married, why wouldn't they let her sleep around after she gets married, as long as her husband doesn't find out?
The conservative/puritan undertones ring loudly in this forum.
Many women have sex in America and overseas before marriage.
So a woman who has a few partners before marriage has low morals???
You guys need to seriously go back to the Victorian Age.
I don't care what the studies say.
If your woman isn't a virgin before marriage just get her tested for STDs.
I'm not saying you shouldn't ever marry a virgin but don't impose that on other people and then harshly judge women just because they had sex before marriage.
Just because your woman is a virgin when she gets married will guarantee that she won't cheat on you.
A woman can be a virgin and have bad character and a woman can be a non-virgin and have excellent character.
No one should judge someone that harshly.
If a woman has excellent qualities, I can ignore the fact that she's not a virgin.
That judgmental attitude towards women who have sex before marriage is the same judgmental attitude that conservatives in the suburbs have who preach fire and brimstone.
"Allow me to show you the Power Cosmic!" - Silver Surfer
I hear too many loud monger tones.
If she's had sex with them she's had some 'moral failures.'
If you plan to marry, just go ahead and divide your assets in half then to make it easy later on.
How many STDs and how many tests?
That's true, but statistically she is likely to divorce. I'd imagine less likely to cheat, though I don't know of any studies that show this.
Start with the book Sex and Culture by Unwin. It details how female premarital chastity is vital to have a prosperous society.
Nihil sub sole novum.
Women that have premarital sex are, with each additional cock in them, less and less likely to remain faithful.
Bullshit. Most of the world - even now - does not believe in modernist bullshit when it comes to sex and marriage.
There are still plenty of virgins in the world, and many are not accessible to westerners, thank God...mongers going and f***ing up places means it gets harder for the average sincere man to find a wife.
Any decent man isn't looking to defile virgins before marriage and will go to whores before he finds his wife. Mongers complain that women are picky. They go an do immoral things and then complain when women notice this and stay away. Check out the posts of HA's narcissistic pretty-boy whiner, Will N Dowd.
http://www.dumblittleblog.com/2014/08/a ... n-can.html
A Woman That's Slept With a Lot of Men Can Never Truly be Yours - Don't be The Last Man Standing
She's given out pieces of herself to so many men, what can possibly be left for you? Do you really want to be the last man in a long line of cocks that ends up wifing up the leftovers? And ironically, as if the world is playing some kind of joke on you, she expects more from you then she expected from the inferior men before you. At the same time, she gave the best parts of herself to the men that respected her the least. Yet she wants you, the man that will take care of her; the superior man, to show her respect now. Even though you get not quite the best attitude accompanied by a "not as tight as it used to be" body. When in reality, she should be worshiping the f***ing ground you walk on for even accepting the rotting carcass she's offering you.
She doesn't know that every time you f**k her you're thinking to yourself, "god, so many dirty cocks have been in this thing". The cocks of criminals, the cocks of scumbags, he cocks of filthy pedophiles, the cocks of rapists, the cocks of degenerates, the cocks of sub-humans. How many times has she disgraced her race?
But it's okay, because she's not like that anymore. In other words, she doesn't like to have fun anymore. Which translates to; even though you're the best man that's probably ever been in her life, she's gonna just now be old and boring when she should want to share all those fun things with you. You give her the most and she brings forth the least.
Add: Put a broom near the front door as she enters and see what she does with it...or doesn't do with it. If she starts sweeping and cleaning up.....that's a good sign.
No woman I've invited to my house has touch it.
Japanese women from families without male heirs will also keep their last name to keep the family name going.
I once seriously dated a Japanese woman in exactly that situation and she didn't want to change her last name. She suggested I change MY last name to HERs so that her family name would continue. Problem is I don't have any brothers either to keep my surname going either. Needless to say, the relationship ended shortly thereafter.
My wife's people group have some kind of tradition like that with a broom. I think the story goes when a male suitor comes over, they put a broom by the door as an indicator that the woman likes to clean, or something like that.
As an American, if I go to someone's house as a guest, if I go to their sink and start washing dishes, I might feel like I was violating their kitchen by using it without their permission. If it were family or close friends, that might be different.
I've noticed Indonesian women and Filippinas consider it good manners to wash dishes when they visit someone's house. A Japanese man and his Filippina wife came over and the wife helped my wife wash up when it is over. My wife doesn't like that other ethnicities of guests don't help or at least offer.
I don't know any culture where they come to your house for a casual visit (not staying there) and sweep your floor. Maybe if you had a big wedding party and they are helping you out, but not for a normal gathering, unless they made a mess and want to clean it themselves.