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Fake Confidence and Self-Esteem: Fictitious Inventions of America

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Post by jamesbond » September 19th, 2014, 1:38 pm

The USA has tons of books, cd's and DVD's regarding how to have a "positive mental attitude" and "how to increase your self confidence."

Some of it is good and legitimate but a lot of it is recycled garbage. Having to fake a positive attitude all the time takes it toll on a person. Nobody can be in a positive mental state of mind 24 hours a day 7 days a week.
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Post by matthewcoury » September 25th, 2014, 11:09 pm

it is so funny because i told my mother once my studio is in full force in bosnia iam moving there...she was like "ok...thatll be interesting....why dont they move here" haha for one thing they dont want to move here....for another thing we would pay three times as much taxes operating within the US and possibly 5 times as much.....that means that instead of making a movie for 10 million we might only be able to make it for 5 million....we can make two movies for the price of one! and in reality we can make more like 5 movies over ther that are just a shigh quality for the amount it will take to make 1 over here.....it makes no sense......use the american market for what its worth and export from bosnia......that is the smartest route...and there are even plenty of great british and european actors we can use over there instead of americans like we do now.....and alll the old disney movies had british actors as their main characters and the majority of their cast

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Post by Jester » September 25th, 2014, 11:31 pm

eurobrat wrote:
I think confident = self-asserting/self-serving to Americans. They like the guy who's out to just grab whatever he wants.
Yes, this is how twenty-something AW use the term.

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Post by matthewcoury » September 25th, 2014, 11:34 pm

it is crazy because i used to be involved in mlm and all the self-esteem bullcrap and consumed every book on the subject......and all it was was a toxic environment where i was ostrcized.......in the end it did nothing for me......i would meet and try to sell my product to numerous people everyday.....rejection after rejection.....to this day i hav still never had a serious american girlfriend or received love and affection from any american woman........it is all about the environment........i was shocked to find that in bosnia the women told me that there were never barfights and hardly any violence......it is where iam moving for good

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Post by Jester » September 25th, 2014, 11:34 pm

matthewcoury wrote:it is so funny because i told my mother once my studio is in full force in bosnia iam moving there...she was like "ok...thatll be interesting....why dont they move here" haha for one thing they dont want to move here....for another thing we would pay three times as much taxes operating within the US and possibly 5 times as much.....that means that instead of making a movie for 10 million we might only be able to make it for 5 million....we can make two movies for the price of one! and in reality we can make more like 5 movies over ther that are just a shigh quality for the amount it will take to make 1 over here.....it makes no sense......use the american market for what its worth and export from bosnia......that is the smartest route...and there are even plenty of great british and european actors we can use over there instead of americans like we do now.....and alll the old disney movies had british actors as their main characters and the majority of their cast
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Re: Confidence and Self-Esteem: Fictitious Inventions of Ame

Post by Winston » November 8th, 2014, 10:09 pm

Check out what Rock's tenant Monkro, an Indian American in Taiwan, told me below about the BS self-esteem claim that American women like to use to falsely shame men. It's very eloquent, truthful and powerful.
Monkro wrote:"You've seen me with your own eyes fearlessly and confidently approach a few different girls in grocery stores. Do you know how I can do that? Because I have high self-esteem. But does my high self-esteem help me in America? No. My results are still zero.

In Taiwan, in six months this year, I did the same type of approaches. I've dated 29 different women and had sex with five of them.

High self-esteem helps a man succeed with women ABROAD, but it makes zero difference in America. This bullshit about men failing with women in America because of low self-esteem is just another one of American society's tactics to never blame American women. In the mentally ill mind of American society, it always has to be the fault of men."
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Re: Fake Confidence and Self-Esteem: Fictitious Inventions of America

Post by Winston » November 27th, 2017, 11:28 am

Hi folks,
I have two revelations and insights about self esteem to share with you all. Heres the first. The second will follow below.

The first theory is about why American women are obsessed with self esteem and act so insecure. You ever notice how American women are focused on their self esteem issues and blabber about it a lot, but foreign women are not? Well there's a logical reason for that.

1. American women badly want to be equal or superior to men. They feel its their right. However they know deep down that they are inferior to men. They've never built or invented or designed anything in civilization. They've never won any battles or wars, or built any empires, civilizations, cities or skyscrapers. Or invented any new technologies. Instinctively they know that. And they know that the best male athletes can beat the best female athletes. And the best male chess players can beat the best female chess players. So they know they are inferior both physically in terms of strength and mentally in terms of intelligence and logic too.

All this makes them feel insecure and they resent it subconsciously. As a result they need to boost themselves with lots of extra self esteem, which is fake and pseudo of course. But its like a band aid that helps them think they are patching up their inferiority complex for not being truly equal to men.

2. Moreover, they've suppressed their feminity and hate it. So in a sense they hate their true selves that nature gave them. Hence, since they hate themselves, they truly have low self esteem. Thus they have to find artifical ways to keep boosting their self esteem, using stupid new age mantras and self help books, etc.

If they had accepted and embraced their feminine nature and who they are, then they would have true self esteem and confidence, the way foreign women do. And then they wouldn't blab on about self esteem like some wounded animal. Thats why you dont see women in Russia or China blabbing about self esteem. Only American women do. Furthermore, American women before the era of feminism did not blab about self esteem either.

3. Plus of course, American culture produces low self esteem in general because no one truly likes you for you. People only like you if you are useful to them in their business or career or you help raise their social image. Hence no one feels truly loved and accepted for themselves. That's gotta be a factor as well.

What do you think of my theory? Does my explanation make sense?
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