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Your dating life is a reflection of your sexual market value

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Your dating life is a reflection of your sexual market value

Post by Banano » September 26th, 2014, 5:54 pm

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Post by RickyRetardo » September 26th, 2014, 5:57 pm

The launching point is too vague.
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Post by Yohan » September 26th, 2014, 6:06 pm

If you are a man in Europe, your dating life is also a reflection of your wallet.
Dating is expensive, and often with the result = zero.

I don't think it is about your sexual market value, it is more about that you give a woman the feeling - true or not - you are something 'exciting' and into a special life-style.

An expensive car might do the job, as the girl will never ask you, if the car is yours and fully paid.

To be a thug - at least a bully and a braggart - is helpful, there is almost no thug - even while in jail - who does not enjoy a correspondence with several girls waiting for his release day.

Also to be able to drink a lot and to make the girl drunk and to offer her drugs etc. - to be into disco-life is helpful.

Western countries are like that, best is you act as totally irresponsible if you want to be successful with women.

Dating is different in Asia, women looking for a relationship are more serious compared to USA/Europe.

What works perfectly OK in USA might turn out to be a total failure in Japan.

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Post by Ghost » September 26th, 2014, 6:54 pm

No shit, Banano?

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Post by Bane » September 27th, 2014, 12:46 am

This topic has been done to death… search function!!!

Anyways, in total agreement with OP.
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Post by Jeremy » September 27th, 2014, 3:49 pm

Your dating market value varies dramatically by location though. In America, I'm a nobody. Even to women over 30 lol. In the Philippines, I'd be a slayer of slender 18-25 year old poon. Just by virtue of being a tall Calvin Harris looking white guy.

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Post by Ghost » September 27th, 2014, 8:27 pm

Jeremy wrote:Your dating market value varies dramatically by location though. In America, I'm a nobody. Even to women over 30 lol. In the Philippines, I'd be a slayer of slender 18-25 year old poon. Just by virtue of being a [deleted] white guy.
Fixed that for you mate. :)

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Re: Your dating life is a reflection of your sexual market v

Post by jamesbond » December 25th, 2014, 3:51 pm

Good video explaining sexual market value and how western women over value their looks.

"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."

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Post by Banano » December 25th, 2014, 6:25 pm

Women in 30s and 40s still have more smv than men, dont underestimate the power of thirsty guys who would kill for piece of ass.

He said that women age like milk men age lime wine, not in the west, otherwise men in their 40s like Winston, Steve hoca, Am in bkk etc would be able to get plenty of action but guess what,AW wouldnt even look at them, Aw are too busy gettin sex from guys who are much hotter snd younger than themselves, just bc they can afford it.

Males thirst seems to be driving force behind this fkd up situation. Wherever you go you see horny guys looking,talking,hoping to get p***y.

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Post by MrMan » December 26th, 2014, 8:39 am

I'm married, so I don't date, so I must have no SMV. That doesn't fit with the hypergamy theory.

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Post by Break the chains » December 26th, 2014, 11:16 am

Jeremy wrote:Your dating market value varies dramatically by location though.
This. End thread.
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Post by Banano » December 26th, 2014, 11:37 am

MrMan wrote:I'm married, so I don't date, so I must have no SMV. That doesn't fit with the hypergamy theory.

Everyone have SMV its just that yours is probably ridiculously low compared to woman who is on the same level of physical attractiveness scale.

For example, Fat woman with average face has much more SMV than fat man with average face( assuming all other variables being equal, education, job,etc)

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Post by MrMan » December 26th, 2014, 12:49 pm

I think there should be two scales, one for dating and one for marrying. It may be easy for a woman in her 30's to go to a bar and find some desperate dude, younger than her even, to have sex. But it may be very hard for her to get married.

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Post by mahadeveshwara » December 26th, 2014, 8:45 pm

You would have to factor in effort as well. A guy could have fairly high potential but not exercise that potential, and he would not have a very good dating life.

Roosh is the epitome of a guy who maximizes his potential. He's not a bad looking guy, but he just seems so overwhelmingly male, and not in a good way. He doesn't seem to have any of the mysticism, wonder or romanticism that entrances women (well, actual feminine women, not sure about American women who are status whores). But he makes the absolute most out of his dead average SMV by maximizing his opportunities.

Some guys are high-minded, they're not going to dedicate so much energy to chasing tail. Even Roosh points out that you have to be in a lustful state to pursue random women, and personally I don't want to be in that state all the time. Maybe once in a while, when I get bored. But there are many other things life has to offer that are as appealing, if not more so. When I look back on my life, I wouldn't feel proud of a life spent philandering. I want to do something constructive, engage with ideas, have colorful experiences, etc. When it comes to women, I take what comes easily to me and don't bother with the rest.

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