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Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby Zionosis » Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:09 am

Well I will give two examples.

I used to watch anime and the female characters were really cool, but what you are experiencing is a character created by a lonely Japanese man. They are nothing at all like real women.

I also notice that women naturally have low libido's compared to men. Looking at porn ever and assuming that average women would want to do any of those things those porn women do is wrong also. Remember at school how there were a small amount of girls that were sluts and went around and seemed to like sex more than the rest of the girls that all seemed frigid. Well those slut type girls are the type that become pornstars or even strippers. Those girls have pretty high libidos like a man's. Most other women though tend to have low libidos and aren't really into sex.


I have stuck up for Asian women on here for a while but I admit finally that I have found a bad side to Asian women (average Asian women). Studies clearly show that a different average hormone level across the races exists. Black people tend to have more hormones and whites in the middle and Asians the least.
This is why black men seem more driven by sex than white men and white men also seem more driven by sex than Asian men again.

This goes for women also. JAV women don't represent the average Asian woman. The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.

Pretend you are a white man with a big one between your legs. Well only those high libido JAV type women will actually be impressed and turned on. The average Asian woman wouldn't care at all.

I also notice that black women are very sexually honest also. This could be because of their higher hormone levels.
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Postby matthewcoury » Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:16 am

actually found that out dating a girl from china
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby rootlesscosmopolitan » Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:27 am

Zionosis wrote:Well I will give two examples.

I used to watch anime and the female characters were really cool, but what you are experiencing is a character created by a lonely Japanese man. They are nothing at all like real women.

I also notice that women naturally have low libido's compared to men. Looking at p**n ever and assuming that average women would want to do any of those things those p**n women do is wrong also. Remember at school how there were a small amount of girls that were sluts and went around and seemed to like sex more than the rest of the girls that all seemed frigid. Well those slut type girls are the type that become pornstars or even strippers. Those girls have pretty high libidos like a man's. Most other women though tend to have low libidos and aren't really into sex.


I have stuck up for Asian women on here for a while but I admit finally that I have found a bad side to Asian women (average Asian women). Studies clearly show that a different average hormone level across the races exists. Black people tend to have more hormones and whites in the middle and Asians the least.
This is why black men seem more driven by sex than white men and white men also seem more driven by sex than Asian men again.

This goes for women also. JAV women don't represent the average Asian woman. The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.

Pretend you are a white man with a big one between your legs. Well only those high libido JAV type women will actually be impressed and turned on. The average Asian woman wouldn't care at all.

I also notice that black women are very sexually honest also. This could be because of their higher hormone levels.


is this true? In that case why do so many asian american women seem to exclusively date white guys?
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Postby Zionosis » Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:27 am

matthewcoury wrote:actually found that out dating a girl from china


I found it out after getting to know many from Japan. Turned out they are like polar opposites of women portrayed in JAV. lol. Also polar opposites of women portrayed in Anime also.

For me personally and most other guys are like this I assume. We would like a woman that at least lusts over us a bit and likes sex. Not just some non sexual thing that wants to marry and do all the expectations of society.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby Zionosis » Thu Oct 02, 2014 12:35 am

rootlesscosmopolitan wrote:
Zionosis wrote:Well I will give two examples.

I used to watch anime and the female characters were really cool, but what you are experiencing is a character created by a lonely Japanese man. They are nothing at all like real women.

I also notice that women naturally have low libido's compared to men. Looking at p**n ever and assuming that average women would want to do any of those things those p**n women do is wrong also. Remember at school how there were a small amount of girls that were sluts and went around and seemed to like sex more than the rest of the girls that all seemed frigid. Well those slut type girls are the type that become pornstars or even strippers. Those girls have pretty high libidos like a man's. Most other women though tend to have low libidos and aren't really into sex.


I have stuck up for Asian women on here for a while but I admit finally that I have found a bad side to Asian women (average Asian women). Studies clearly show that a different average hormone level across the races exists. Black people tend to have more hormones and whites in the middle and Asians the least.
This is why black men seem more driven by sex than white men and white men also seem more driven by sex than Asian men again.

This goes for women also. JAV women don't represent the average Asian woman. The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.

Pretend you are a white man with a big one between your legs. Well only those high libido JAV type women will actually be impressed and turned on. The average Asian woman wouldn't care at all.

I also notice that black women are very sexually honest also. This could be because of their higher hormone levels.


is this true? In that case why do so many asian american women seem to exclusively date white guys?


Well they are raised in a society that portrays white men as better looking and even portrays Asian men as lame. The TV even makes couplings of Asian women and white men a lot.

But here in Australia it's not quite like that, Most of our Chinese live in the city and all keep to themselves and live together. The only Asian girls that seem to get with white men are the really westernized ones and some even seem to be self hating of their Asian selves and want to get with a white man over that also.

If you want to get with some Asian woman that dates you over hating her own race then be my guest. I personally wouldn't respect a woman like that. It's what happens to some when raised in these foreign cultures of ours.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 1:18 am

yeah that whole filipina and indonesia and vietnamese women are naturally horny freaks is a myth.


In fact I think most south eastern asian women have terribly boring personalities and lack complete passion. Even the porns you can see most are boring in the sack. im talking about the real ones not the asians going to america.


i think on the other end of the spectrum russian and eastern european porn and women seem the most aggressive. so thats probably where im gonna head next LOL
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Postby sea_dragon » Thu Oct 02, 2014 1:45 am

I still think the vast majority of Asian women still prefer Asian men. It's just that they don't interact with non-Asians too much outside of their social circles.
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Postby Zionosis » Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:05 am

sea_dragon wrote:I still think the vast majority of Asian women still prefer Asian men. It's just that they don't interact with non-Asians too much outside of their social circles.


Yes that is obvious. lol.

But those women in JAV don't represent Japanese women at all. Those women in JAV seem really sexual and willing to do many things that most white pornstar women never do, they seem like they are into the men more than white pornstar women. But one cannot make the mistake to assume that average Asian women are like those JAV women. The Average Asian women seem like a polar opposite in attitude towards sex and lust for a man.

At the same time I think the average white woman on the streets is more willing to have sex and enjoy it than the average Asian woman on the streets of Japan or Korea.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:08 am

Zionosis wrote:
sea_dragon wrote:I still think the vast majority of Asian women still prefer Asian men. It's just that they don't interact with non-Asians too much outside of their social circles.


Yes that is obvious. lol.

But those women in JAV don't represent Japanese women at all. Those women in JAV seem really sexual and willing to do many things that most white p**nstar women never do.

At the same time I think the average white woman on the streets is more willing to have sex and enjoy it than the average Asian woman on the streets of Japan or Korea.


maybe someone whos been to europe or russia can compare the differences in foreign women. anyone who says asian women are freaks will be immediately discounted in my book as biased.

i think even winston has confirmed filipinas aren't usually taht passionate or super horny and that russian women are more of those qualities.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:09 am

matthewcoury wrote:actually found that out dating a girl from china


explain :)
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Postby Zionosis » Thu Oct 02, 2014 3:41 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Zionosis wrote:
sea_dragon wrote:I still think the vast majority of Asian women still prefer Asian men. It's just that they don't interact with non-Asians too much outside of their social circles.


Yes that is obvious. lol.

But those women in JAV don't represent Japanese women at all. Those women in JAV seem really sexual and willing to do many things that most white p**nstar women never do.

At the same time I think the average white woman on the streets is more willing to have sex and enjoy it than the average Asian woman on the streets of Japan or Korea.


maybe someone whos been to europe or russia can compare the differences in foreign women. anyone who says asian women are freaks will be immediately discounted in my book as biased.

i think even winston has confirmed filipinas aren't usually taht passionate or super horny and that russian women are more of those qualities.



I am comparing my native white women to Japanese women. And the white women are certainly more interested in sex which us men need.

I never really considered Filipino women because I saw them for what they were a long time ago. That has to be the worst place to go in Asia if you want a legit woman that actually loves and wants passion.

The Philippines is the easiest place to go if you want a woman easily. But it's the worst in the woman's ambitions and reasons. That country is really fked. The recent (last 100 years) history of it is the reason I would assume.
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Postby MrMan » Thu Oct 02, 2014 4:55 am

I'm married to an Indonesian woman. I'm more of the sexual aggressor by far than she is. I think that's typical of couples.

When we first got married, we had sex every night she wasn't having her period which turned into some kind of sexual activity every night (for my benefit). My wife kind of got away from being willing to go it at that frequency, but has got back into that mindset again.

You don't have to have a wife whose hormones are raging who wants to almost tear your clothes off all the time. It's good if you marry a woman who gets like that sometimes. But having a strong desire to please her husband is also a good thing. If she can have sex with you because you want it, to bond with you, etc., with a good cheerful attitude, with a lot of 'diligence', that's a good thing, too.

Willingness to have sex isn't all hormones. A lot of it has to do with attitudes about sex, philosophy about marriage, roles in marriage, duties in marriage, and philosophies of life.

Here are a couple of videos by American Christian women on YouTube encouraging wives basically to have sex with their husbands whenever they want it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33sqe4qo ... bn_m5fszKQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pe7Ku5tbgXM

If you want to have your sexual needs met when you get married and you go about it by finding a woman who loves sex, like the OP says, you may be looking for hookers and strippers. Maybe you could find a slutty girl who is crazy about sex. But if she's crazy about sex, she can be crazy about sex with some other guy, too. Girls with low sexual morals before marriage are probably at a higher risk at infidelity after marriage, which puts you at the risk of her having kids that aren't yours, her leaving you for another guy taking half your income, maybe the kids, maybe alimony, maybe child support.

A lot of young men are ready to go at the drop of a hat when it comes to sex. Women tend to be more emotional creatures. It may not be right to think of them as having lower sex drives. They just need to be warmed up a bit before the engine really starts running smoothly. You need to find a woman who is willing to let your crank the key and warm up the engine. If she won't allow that, it won't run smoothly. You don't need a woman who has the high 'initial sex drive' if she's got low sexual morals. But if she has high sexual morals, including morals that tell her that it is right for her to have sex with her husband to fulfill his desires, and she actually loves you, that's a good recipe for sexual fulfillment.

Someone mentioned porn. You really need to stay away from that stuff. There are a lot of sexual things that just from nature, without any other input, most people would not think is sexy or desirable that porn has taught people to enjoy. I hear or read about 'facials.' I don't get why getting fluids on a woman's face is supposed to be sexy or desirable. I guess some people like that from watching porn. If you watch movies of women doing things that aren't normal, reacting in ways that aren't normal, and you eroticize that kind of stuff, you might not be fulfilled with normal, loving sex in marriage.

Btw, I thought the videos were interesting because these are married women in their 30's or 40's__ from American__ who believe in having sex according to their husbands' desires, submitting to their husbands, and respecting their husbands. Of course, they are both Christians so there is a whole Biblical belief system that undergirds those beliefs. There are white married women that believe this way.

I do believe there are good potential wives in this country. I would venture to guess that the majority of single women would not make good wives unless they change seriously (and repent.) But the same thing is true to a greater or lesser degree in other countries, too. Some countries may be better off than the US in some ways, but it's not easy to find a good wife you actually 'click' with.

My wife is not white or American, but I can tell you, it is a good, joyful, peaceful thing to have a wife who loves me, respects me, submits to me, and is willing to meet my sexual needs.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 5:17 am

MrMan wrote:I'm married to an Indonesian woman. I'm more of the sexual aggressor by far than she is. I think that's typical of couples.

When we first got married, we had sex every night she wasn't having her period which turned into some kind of sexual activity every night (for my benefit). My wife kind of got away from being willing to go it at that frequency, but has got back into that mindset again.

You don't have to have a wife whose hormones are raging who wants to almost tear your clothes off all the time. It's good if you marry a woman who gets like that sometimes. But having a strong desire to please her husband is also a good thing. If she can have sex with you because you want it, to bond with you, etc., with a good cheerful attitude, with a lot of 'diligence', that's a good thing, too.

Willingness to have sex isn't all hormones. A lot of it has to do with attitudes about sex, philosophy about marriage, roles in marriage, duties in marriage, and philosophies of life.

Here are a couple of videos by American Christian women on YouTube encouraging wives basically to have sex with their husbands whenever they want it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33sqe4qo ... bn_m5fszKQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pe7Ku5tbgXM

If you want to have your sexual needs met when you get married and you go about it by finding a woman who loves sex, like the OP says, you may be looking for hookers and strippers. Maybe you could find a slutty girl who is crazy about sex. But if she's crazy about sex, she can be crazy about sex with some other guy, too. Girls with low sexual morals before marriage are probably at a higher risk at infidelity after marriage, which puts you at the risk of her having kids that aren't yours, her leaving you for another guy taking half your income, maybe the kids, maybe alimony, maybe child support.

A lot of young men are ready to go at the drop of a hat when it comes to sex. Women tend to be more emotional creatures. It may not be right to think of them as having lower sex drives. They just need to be warmed up a bit before the engine really starts running smoothly. You need to find a woman who is willing to let your crank the key and warm up the engine. If she won't allow that, it won't run smoothly. You don't need a woman who has the high 'initial sex drive' if she's got low sexual morals. But if she has high sexual morals, including morals that tell her that it is right for her to have sex with her husband to fulfill his desires, and she actually loves you, that's a good recipe for sexual fulfillment.

Someone mentioned p**n. You really need to stay away from that stuff. There are a lot of sexual things that just from nature, without any other input, most people would not think is sexy or desirable that p**n has taught people to enjoy. I hear or read about 'facials.' I don't get why getting fluids on a woman's face is supposed to be sexy or desirable. I guess some people like that from watching p**n. If you watch movies of women doing things that aren't normal, reacting in ways that aren't normal, and you eroticize that kind of stuff, you might not be fulfilled with normal, loving sex in marriage.

Btw, I thought the videos were interesting because these are married women in their 30's or 40's__ from American__ who believe in having sex according to their husbands' desires, submitting to their husbands, and respecting their husbands. Of course, they are both Christians so there is a whole Biblical belief system that undergirds those beliefs. There are white married women that believe this way.

I do believe there are good potential wives in this country. I would venture to guess that the majority of single women would not make good wives unless they change seriously (and repent.) But the same thing is true to a greater or lesser degree in other countries, too. Some countries may be better off than the US in some ways, but it's not easy to find a good wife you actually 'click' with.

My wife is not white or American, but I can tell you, it is a good, joyful, peaceful thing to have a wife who loves me, respects me, submits to me, and is willing to meet my sexual needs.



I couldn't stand to be with a wife who i had to beg for sex with or was only doing it for my pleasure as a duty. Id rather be single.
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Postby MrMan » Thu Oct 02, 2014 6:30 am

I couldn't stand to be with a wife who i had to beg for sex with or was only doing it for my pleasure as a duty. Id rather be single.


I don't see how you got that out of what I wrote. If you are looking for a woman who jumps on you to have sex because she can't contain herself every time you go into the room where she is, you may be looking for a long time, especially if you aren't looking for an absolute slut who would sleep with anyone, you may be waiting for a long time.

Duty sex with a bitter attitude or rolling eyes and sighing would be a drag. Sex with a wife who is sleeping with her husband because she loves him and wants to please him can be a lot of fun. Some wives aren't ready to pounce on their husband at a moments notice, but will warm up quite well after a while and really be into it and really enjoy themselves. They have the potential, but they just need to be warmed up to get there.

I'm not talking about begging for sex. A man shouldn't beg for sex. Even if he's married to a sexually stingy wife, that's not a good way to get it.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 6:39 am

MrMan wrote:
I couldn't stand to be with a wife who i had to beg for sex with or was only doing it for my pleasure as a duty. Id rather be single.


I don't see how you got that out of what I wrote. If you are looking for a woman who jumps on you to have sex because she can't contain herself every time you go into the room where she is, you may be looking for a long time, especially if you aren't looking for an absolute slut who would sleep with anyone, you may be waiting for a long time.

Duty sex with a bitter attitude or rolling eyes and sighing would be a drag. Sex with a wife who is sleeping with her husband because she loves him and wants to please him can be a lot of fun. Some wives aren't ready to pounce on their husband at a moments notice, but will warm up quite well after a while and really be into it and really enjoy themselves. They have the potential, but they just need to be warmed up to get there.

I'm not talking about begging for sex. A man shouldn't beg for sex. Even if he's married to a sexually stingy wife, that's not a good way to get it.



i simply ask for sex? if i get denied or a bad attitude response than it becomes unfun and then i have to almost demand it. then a fight ensues or they give in and just takes the whole fun out of it. This can become a very common experience if the girl doesn't enjoy sex that much and it just leads me to just want to forget them altogether and cheat or get rid of them. Thats why im scared of marriage i dont want to fall into this common trap and then be tied down to them financially and legally. From my experience either a girl loves sex or she doesn't. you seem to imply a middle ground but i havent seen it really if a girl doesn't initiate or become into it from the onset rather quickly than she is one of those passive girls that can take it or leave it. not the girl i want.



I guess its hard to describe without actually being there but a woman who really doesn't want it or is just going through the motions all the time gets old. Even if you have to warm her up if you still get the sense she doesn't really actively pursue it or could take it or leave it gets old for me real fast. my gf i could give her pleasure but ultimately she just wasn't into it and im deathly afraid of winding up married to such a girl so im probably gonna stay single forever and pursue other things.
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