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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby Taco » Thu Oct 02, 2014 6:41 am

Zionosis wrote: The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.


I have found nothing to indicate this is generalizable. My Filipina wife is by far the horniest woman I've ever dated. In addition, the average diet of Asian women is much healthier than most women which definitely affects their hormone levels.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 6:47 am

Taco wrote:
Zionosis wrote: The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.


I have found nothing to indicate this is generalizable. My Filipina wife is by far the horniest woman I've ever dated. In addition, the average diet of Asian women is much healthier than most women which definitely affects their hormone levels.


Your experience means nothing because That is only ONE filipina women. Mr.s has confirmed after banging hundreds that you and most guys on this forum are wrong. even winston would disagree with you if you read his past posts he subtley says it but i think he doesn't come out and say.

I've slept with 15 (mostly bargirls but you can tell when a girl has drive or not). only one stood out as one who had a sex drive that i would call normal or higher and even she was not used to my level of sexual desires of wanting it all the time. and she was a bargirl. And its hard to say how much of it was an act especially when she told me how she used to be in teh past. she was one hell of an actress all the time so who knows.


I bet if you went back in teh dating game and dated 10 filipinas you would be sorely dissapointed.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby Taco » Thu Oct 02, 2014 8:17 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:
Zionosis wrote: The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.


I have found nothing to indicate this is generalizable. My Filipina wife is by far the horniest woman I've ever dated. In addition, the average diet of Asian women is much healthier than most women which definitely affects their hormone levels.


Your experience means nothing because That is only ONE filipina women. Mr.s has confirmed after banging hundreds that you and most guys on this forum are wrong. even winston would disagree with you if you read his past posts he subtley says it but i think he doesn't come out and say.

I've slept with 15 (mostly bargirls but you can tell when a girl has drive or not). only one stood out as one who had a sex drive that i would call normal or higher and even she was not used to my level of sexual desires of wanting it all the time. and she was a bargirl. And its hard to say how much of it was an act especially when she told me how she used to be in teh past. she was one hell of an actress all the time so who knows.


I bet if you went back in teh dating game and dated 10 filipinas you would be sorely dissapointed.


Mr. S only dates Luzon women. You only date hookers. Those are two demographics I have no use for.

Women like having sex with romantic, handsome, high status men that make them orgasm. I know that's really difficult to figure out.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Oct 02, 2014 8:44 am

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:
Zionosis wrote: The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.


I have found nothing to indicate this is generalizable. My Filipina wife is by far the horniest woman I've ever dated. In addition, the average diet of Asian women is much healthier than most women which definitely affects their hormone levels.


Your experience means nothing because That is only ONE filipina women. Mr.s has confirmed after banging hundreds that you and most guys on this forum are wrong. even winston would disagree with you if you read his past posts he subtley says it but i think he doesn't come out and say.

I've slept with 15 (mostly bargirls but you can tell when a girl has drive or not). only one stood out as one who had a sex drive that i would call normal or higher and even she was not used to my level of sexual desires of wanting it all the time. and she was a bargirl. And its hard to say how much of it was an act especially when she told me how she used to be in teh past. she was one hell of an actress all the time so who knows.


I bet if you went back in teh dating game and dated 10 filipinas you would be sorely dissapointed.


Mr. S only dates Luzon women. You only date hookers. Those are two demographics I have no use for.

Women like having sex with romantic, handsome, high status men that make them or***m. I know that's really difficult to figure out.



You actually are admitting that its an ACT by stating it matters if they are from luzon or not LOL if a filipina is a filipina than luzon or elsewhere shouldn't matter.


im sure the better the guy the more active the girl but there is nothing special about filipinas and if you had more experience you would quickly find that out. Come back when you dated a few normal filipinas.


I can make a girl orgasm even my gf who was tough i could. But i think handsome and maybe personality is the part for me where I fail lol
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Postby Paloaltoguy » Thu Oct 02, 2014 7:02 pm

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Postby jtest28 » Thu Oct 02, 2014 7:31 pm

I may have a low sex drive because all the women I've been around, once leaving high school that is, have been far hornier than me. Wish they were like that when I was like 15! We could have had a hell of a time together.

The Filipina I'm with now, you literally have to be careful when sleeping next to her in bed not to get your hands too close to her p***y or else she explodes in wetness and will jump your bones in the middle of the night, even grabbing my head and shoving it down between her legs trying to make me go down on her. Though, I still believe the more proto-asians like Chinese women may be less horny. Just seems like that but I haven't been with one either though.
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Postby Taco » Thu Oct 02, 2014 10:42 pm

jtest28 wrote:
The Filipina I'm with now, you literally have to be careful when sleeping next to her in bed not to get your hands too close to her p***y or else she explodes in wetness and will jump your bones in the middle of the night, even grabbing my head and shoving it down between her legs trying to make me go down on her.


I rest my case. By the way, what province is she from?
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Postby Ghost » Fri Oct 03, 2014 12:33 am

Fictional women would certainly be better. Men, even those more aware of female nature, usually succumb at some point to thinking that some women are not like all women. The best that can happen is to find a better woman from a better culture than your own. It's not NAWALT, it's NACALT. Women can easily go without sex. They want sex during ovulation or when a male with the most desirable traits (which depends on the culture) appears. Which in the case of Asian women is often white men.
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Postby Zionosis » Fri Oct 03, 2014 12:46 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
MrMan wrote:I'm married to an Indonesian woman. I'm more of the sexual aggressor by far than she is. I think that's typical of couples.

When we first got married, we had sex every night she wasn't having her period which turned into some kind of sexual activity every night (for my benefit). My wife kind of got away from being willing to go it at that frequency, but has got back into that mindset again.

You don't have to have a wife whose hormones are raging who wants to almost tear your clothes off all the time. It's good if you marry a woman who gets like that sometimes. But having a strong desire to please her husband is also a good thing. If she can have sex with you because you want it, to bond with you, etc., with a good cheerful attitude, with a lot of 'diligence', that's a good thing, too.

Willingness to have sex isn't all hormones. A lot of it has to do with attitudes about sex, philosophy about marriage, roles in marriage, duties in marriage, and philosophies of life.

Here are a couple of videos by American Christian women on YouTube encouraging wives basically to have sex with their husbands whenever they want it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33sqe4qo ... bn_m5fszKQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pe7Ku5tbgXM

If you want to have your sexual needs met when you get married and you go about it by finding a woman who loves sex, like the OP says, you may be looking for hookers and strippers. Maybe you could find a slutty girl who is crazy about sex. But if she's crazy about sex, she can be crazy about sex with some other guy, too. Girls with low sexual morals before marriage are probably at a higher risk at infidelity after marriage, which puts you at the risk of her having kids that aren't yours, her leaving you for another guy taking half your income, maybe the kids, maybe alimony, maybe child support.

A lot of young men are ready to go at the drop of a hat when it comes to sex. Women tend to be more emotional creatures. It may not be right to think of them as having lower sex drives. They just need to be warmed up a bit before the engine really starts running smoothly. You need to find a woman who is willing to let your crank the key and warm up the engine. If she won't allow that, it won't run smoothly. You don't need a woman who has the high 'initial sex drive' if she's got low sexual morals. But if she has high sexual morals, including morals that tell her that it is right for her to have sex with her husband to fulfill his desires, and she actually loves you, that's a good recipe for sexual fulfillment.

Someone mentioned p**n. You really need to stay away from that stuff. There are a lot of sexual things that just from nature, without any other input, most people would not think is sexy or desirable that p**n has taught people to enjoy. I hear or read about 'facials.' I don't get why getting fluids on a woman's face is supposed to be sexy or desirable. I guess some people like that from watching p**n. If you watch movies of women doing things that aren't normal, reacting in ways that aren't normal, and you eroticize that kind of stuff, you might not be fulfilled with normal, loving sex in marriage.

Btw, I thought the videos were interesting because these are married women in their 30's or 40's__ from American__ who believe in having sex according to their husbands' desires, submitting to their husbands, and respecting their husbands. Of course, they are both Christians so there is a whole Biblical belief system that undergirds those beliefs. There are white married women that believe this way.

I do believe there are good potential wives in this country. I would venture to guess that the majority of single women would not make good wives unless they change seriously (and repent.) But the same thing is true to a greater or lesser degree in other countries, too. Some countries may be better off than the US in some ways, but it's not easy to find a good wife you actually 'click' with.

My wife is not white or American, but I can tell you, it is a good, joyful, peaceful thing to have a wife who loves me, respects me, submits to me, and is willing to meet my sexual needs.



I couldn't stand to be with a wife who i had to beg for sex with or was only doing it for my pleasure as a duty. Id rather be single.


Agree 100%.
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Postby Zionosis » Fri Oct 03, 2014 12:52 am

Another evolutionary point I just thought of is Alcohol. For cultures that party a lot and drink alcohol the frigid women will still end up giving in and having sex after losing some of their inhibition. Seems that most women are frigid by nature.

I know many people who's parent's met while they were drunk or did it while drunk and ended up getting pregnant.
Somehow it seems like men maybe invented alcohol because of the huge advantage is gives them to be able to be with women.

Black people in Africa seem to be some of the only people in the world that still have a lot of sex with each other without having to drink alcohol. This is because of higher sex drive and naturally lower inhibitions anyway.


Wouldn't be surprised if most of the sex in white countries and Asian countries was to do with women getting tipsy. lol. I see alcohol in a whole new way now. It does have a big use.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby OutWest » Fri Oct 03, 2014 1:16 am

Zionosis wrote:Well I will give two examples.

I used to watch anime and the female characters were really cool, but what you are experiencing is a character created by a lonely Japanese man. They are nothing at all like real women.

I also notice that women naturally have low libido's compared to men. Looking at p**n ever and assuming that average women would want to do any of those things those p**n women do is wrong also. Remember at school how there were a small amount of girls that were sluts and went around and seemed to like sex more than the rest of the girls that all seemed frigid. Well those slut type girls are the type that become pornstars or even strippers. Those girls have pretty high libidos like a man's. Most other women though tend to have low libidos and aren't really into sex.


I have stuck up for Asian women on here for a while but I admit finally that I have found a bad side to Asian women (average Asian women). Studies clearly show that a different average hormone level across the races exists. Black people tend to have more hormones and whites in the middle and Asians the least.
This is why black men seem more driven by sex than white men and white men also seem more driven by sex than Asian men again.

This goes for women also. JAV women don't represent the average Asian woman. The average Asian woman seems more frigid and a lower libido than even the average white woman who is pretty frigid.

Pretend you are a white man with a big one between your legs. Well only those high libido JAV type women will actually be impressed and turned on. The average Asian woman wouldn't care at all.

I also notice that black women are very sexually honest also. This could be because of their higher hormone levels.




Asians of both sexes produce more estrogen than any other racial group, and Asian women produce
more estrogen than women of any other racial group. This tends to enhance feminine characteristics.
So when it comes to feminine hormones, Asian women rule.

Here is a good read that shakes some racial stereotypes.

http://ethnicmuse.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/east-asian-testosterone-i/
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Postby Zionosis » Fri Oct 03, 2014 2:51 am

Paloaltoguy wrote:Well duh, I currently live in the SF bay area (which claims one of the biggest Asian populations in the USA) and this place is a total social graveyard. Most of the Asian chicks have zero interest in sex or anything really. Most of the Asians in general are like robots. In fact, I would say most of the shit Wu writes about social isolation is based on experience in the SF bay area. I moved to Boston, NYC, etc and had fun, interesting chicks nonstop.


Agree 100%. Many Asian girls seem to be robots and just do what they were taught or told. I personally don't really like that about them. The Filipinos seem like the worst when it comes to this also. Most are taught to be catholic and follow it and I know a few of them and they do a career path just because their dad told them to take that path. It's like WTF, Are you even a person.
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Re: Women just aren't how we want them.

Postby MarcosZeitola » Fri Oct 03, 2014 5:45 am

Zionosis wrote:I also notice that women naturally have low libido's compared to men. Looking at p**n ever and assuming that average women would want to do any of those things those p**n women do is wrong also.


When a woman has a 'low libido' that means you simply don't turn her on. Either that, or it's a personal flaw on her part. I'd say the average woman is pretty damn horny.

Zionosis wrote:I have stuck up for Asian women on here for a while but I admit finally that I have found a bad side to Asian women (average Asian women). Studies clearly show that a different average hormone level across the races exists. Black people tend to have more hormones and whites in the middle and Asians the least.
This is why black men seem more driven by sex than white men and white men also seem more driven by sex than Asian men again.


I have known Asian men far hornier then any black or white man I've ever met. In fact the horniest, most experienced man I have ever known is a short dark Filipino former foreign worker who has slept with women of all races. Assumptions, assumptions, assumptions. The man in his natural state is a horny motherf***er and race has very little to do with it.
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Postby Franco » Thu Oct 09, 2014 6:36 pm

Women are emotional, sensitive, and relationship-oriented gender. They are more caring and empathic than males, IMO. Men tend to think more concrete and logical. Women want their feelings nurtured and not neglected. Women are bat-shit crazy too, especially in bed. But a woman will feel a certain type of way and go with it. Their intuition is very high and their BS meters are on constant alert. So if you want the girl of your dreams.

Be a good man. Be kind to others. Be nice to her.
Life is beautiful.
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