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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby Eric » Sat Apr 30, 2016 9:14 pm

Adama wrote:The magic of TV has convinced men that women are more valuable than they are, when the opposite is true in reality. Watch a movie like American Pie. It trains young men to overvalue women, which only increases the difficulty for young men. It is a massive psy op. On other forums there are older posters who comment on how good things were for men back in the 1970s. There are men on other forums who used to claim that women were actually okay until around 1983 or so. Watch TV programs from back around 1970, even Battlestar Galactica, and you'll see how much more innocent women were portrayed back then verses today. It really is programming.

American men are sex starved because they overvalue American women and have completely spoiled them. They didn't even realize they were doing this. They were just fulfilling the script which they were given. Too bad it is a bad script. This is also why American men ruin women wherever they go. This is also why deep down almost every American man is a mangina and a feminist. The brainwashing runs very deep and is completely ingrained into the men much more than it is even for the women.


+1,000,000,000,000. Amen I completely agree with you!

Plus I can't stand these looks you get when you do actually hit on an attractive women - the manginas around you just stare at you like simps like - "You can't do that. That's not allowed." Jesus, man get me away from these people... It's disgusting it's literally disgusting and revolting. I feel like I have to shake off a disease when I'm around that, like how can you NOT just go for it...it's literally cult brainwashing I think, as well. Scary.
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby Adama » Sat Apr 30, 2016 10:55 pm

When I was in college in the school gyms, on one occasion I hit on this one chick in front of everyone. I just walked up to her, she smiled and we were chatting for a minute. Nobody said anything, but I saw the mangina onlooker making faces at me because he was jealous he didnt have the courage to talk to her and because I actually had her attention. That happened another time when I was riding the campus bus in between classes with one woman, a mangina onlooker on the bus was extremely jealous, even though we were just classmates and not lovers. That's happened a few times that I remember.

Instead of going out and getting their own, they are worried about what another man is getting.
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Sun May 01, 2016 12:35 am

The wrote:A close friend of mine who is good looking, abs and a decent job is struggling with the ladies....He was hoping to have steady p***y by Christmas, but it hasnt happened....I dont know what it is....Hes not your typical HA aspurgers type....Hes very knowledgeable about certain things, yet when it comes to the ladies its a raw deal for him.... Weve actually talked at length of maybe traveling overseas together as the local women here in out town are bullshit.... but lets see how that turns out....

**But if you look at the population at large, you would think that everything is normal, when its not....Somethings wrong...


Tell him to hit up backpage..
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby Eric » Sun May 01, 2016 12:42 am

Adama wrote:When I was in college in the school gyms, on one occasion I hit on this one chick in front of everyone. I just walked up to her, she smiled and we were chatting for a minute. Nobody said anything, but I saw the mangina onlooker making faces at me because he was jealous he didnt have the courage to talk to her and because I actually had her attention. That happened another time when I was riding the campus bus in between classes with one woman, a mangina onlooker on the bus was extremely jealous, even though we were just classmates and not lovers. That's happened a few times that I remember.

Instead of going out and getting their own, they are worried about what another man is getting.


Yeah. It's hard to literally not go crazy and, hate this country. It's a prison sentence - where everybody has to fight the social conditioning all the way up to just acting normal/natural.
It's very sad because it's in such a way where the minds are twisted to actually believe the conditioning is good for you - because they've used manipulation and 'brownie points' you earn for following along, it makes no difference if you're marching off a cliff. This is Pavlovian behaviorism to a T.
This is like some dystopia we live in. It feels honestly, like a complete nightmare most times, I'm sorry. I wish I would just wake up from this.
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Sun May 01, 2016 12:52 am

ComingSoon wrote:There are several reasons that men are sex starved in America. I am an American and was married for over 25 years. I was never sex deprived because I was always attracted to my (slender) wife. Which brings me to what is the biggest reason men are sex starved. They are simply not attracted to their overweight, out of shape wives. They may claim to be sex starved and she may claim that he is no longer romantic but the reason behind it is in many cases, if not most, the man is no longer attracted to his spouse. Now of course he still wants and needs sex but he is not willing, and maybe just cant, act romantic to a woman he thinks is disgusting when naked. He wants to get his rocks off but he aint playing the long drawn out foreplay because by the time he gets to the main event he has gone soft. Do I exaggerate? I think not. Why has the cialis market skyrocketed? I think the same reason. I have been with women that I was not attracted to and it was harder to keep an erection. I NEVER had a problem with my wife, whom I was attracted to and with any girl that was sexy in my opinion.

The other reason men are not attracted to their wives is because we all know that most men get bored with the same woman and desire some variety. Some may disagree with this but many, if not most, if they are honest will not. I really dont think there is any argument here. I have come to learn that men, and I mean all men, desire, and even need, some variety when it comes to the women in their lives. Most men know this on a deep level but because they are programmed to believe that they “should” be married and they must be monogamous they live in a sort of quiet desperation, longing for something they can never have. Most men, given the opportunity, if there were no negative consequences, would certainly love to have a sexual experience outside their committed relationship at least once in a while. This is just a fact. Of course there are exceptions, And MrMan may be one of them.

I have never had ANY problem getting laid in the US although many of the women were average at best and this is the same problem. Most women over, say 30, are overweight at least somewhat if not freakin huge. When I walk through any mall or the local WalMart I rarely see even one woman that is an 8 or better. Even the young 20ish year olds are overweight. So in order to find a date, gf or just some sex you must make sacrifices. I like a very thin woman and if I want to date one I MUST make sacrifices. She might be thin but be ugly in the face, or have tats or have 3 kids at age 23 or live with her parents at age 40 or be unemployed or numerous other undesirable things about her. But I may overlook a combination of all of these in order to get some sex with a woman that I am attracted to. Or she may have the cutest face and is thick all over. I dated a 21 year old girl here who was just that. A little thick, to put it nicely, but a lovely face. It did not last long because when naked the attraction was minimal.

Now when you have only a few attractive available women , and I say less than 10%, you will have a large demand for those few and as we start to lower our standards to 7's or even 5's, as many of us have done, then these lower scale women get more than their fair share of attention creating another problem. These, average at best, women begin to think they are hotties. I mean you would not believe the attitudes of these ugly, fat women !!

So now lets say that you are an average guy with an average job and maybe don't really have an outgoing personality. He will have a hard time and may be sex starved. My personality makes up for my average looks. Oh yea, I have money, or at least the appearance of having money.

I live in the south. The women are awful. At least in Asia you have a good percentage of slim women. This is why I go there.


Good post. I agree with the above.. I'm getting more tail right now then ever in my life and I have noticed my own body doing things of its own such as getting bored with hot attractive women who I have already had sex with and the inability to keep an erection with women who I really don't find attractive even if she is willing to do anything.

Also, my sexual appetite changes in that a few weeks I want black women, then the next few weeks only white women, then only Hispanic women, and now I want some sweet Desi p**** to the point where I'm planning a trip to Toronto just to get some.

One thing for sure is that the desire for sex never ends and I'm ok with that...
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby Adama » Sun May 01, 2016 1:21 am

Eric wrote:
Adama wrote:When I was in college in the school gyms, on one occasion I hit on this one chick in front of everyone. I just walked up to her, she smiled and we were chatting for a minute. Nobody said anything, but I saw the mangina onlooker making faces at me because he was jealous he didnt have the courage to talk to her and because I actually had her attention. That happened another time when I was riding the campus bus in between classes with one woman, a mangina onlooker on the bus was extremely jealous, even though we were just classmates and not lovers. That's happened a few times that I remember.

Instead of going out and getting their own, they are worried about what another man is getting.


Yeah. It's hard to literally not go crazy and, hate this country. It's a prison sentence - where everybody has to fight the social conditioning all the way up to just acting normal/natural.
It's very sad because it's in such a way where the minds are twisted to actually believe the conditioning is good for you - because they've used manipulation and 'brownie points' you earn for following along, it makes no difference if you're marching off a cliff. This is Pavlovian behaviorism to a T.
This is like some dystopia we live in. It feels honestly, like a complete nightmare most times, I'm sorry. I wish I would just wake up from this.


The mistake is that I cared what they think. The fear of man bringeth a snare. All they could do is stare, make faces, and possibly make a comment or two because they're jealous. But just because they're jealous, it doesn't mean I have to fear their reactions. They are entitled to think and feel any way they want. Now I am entitled not to give one care about what some stranger thinks about who I'm with. The way I see it, their jealousy isn't necessarily a bad thing. The one being envied isn't the one who should be upset. That person has done nothing wrong. It is the one doing the envying that is doing wrong. Do not covet anything that belongs to your neighbor. Their jealousy is wrong, because the women I was with were not their wives or girlfriends. They assumed those women were mine and were jealous of me. That's their problem.
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Re: Are American Men Sex Starved?

Postby jamesbond » Sun May 01, 2016 8:29 am

America is one of the few countries in the world where prostitution is illegal, so no wonder why so many guys are sex starved. Even married couples in America hardly have sex. I read a survey that stated married couples in America have sex the fewest times a year than anyone else in the industrialized world. :shock:

No wonder why so many guys from the US are traveling to the Philippines, Thailand and Brazil. :D

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