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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby Mr Natural » Sat Jan 31, 2015 10:53 pm

Johnny1975 wrote:Why should it even be a premium service?


Because it would require a pretty good cash flow to do it right and make a decent living. Having thousands of profiles with videos with many new ones each day would be quite labor intensive. An interview format would be necessary because most of these women would be far too shy to just sit and talk themselves. Doing it right would be a full time job for someone as well as having a filming "crew" that would need to travel extensively. But when you look around at how many members all these various dating sites evidently have, you would think there would be a market for it. I am surprised Peter from Christian Filipina hasn't done this.

Yes, you as an individual could always put up a youtube video of yourself and link it in your profile on the dating sites. But why? If you are a member at any of these sites you already get bombarded, it's not a video of YOU that's needed, it's the ladies. And they aren't going to do it themselves.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby droid » Mon Feb 02, 2015 4:28 am

How about this
http://www.filipinocupid.com/en/profile/showProfile/id/7309253?searchposition=5&searchtotal=105
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Or this
http://www.filipinocupid.com/en/profile/showProfile/id/6842036?searchposition=97&searchtotal=105
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Solid 9s in my book.
There is this certain Ph type that is ridiculously hot, but it doesn't seem to be tied to a given location unfortunately.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 02, 2015 4:50 am

LOL those girls are average in philippines almost.

Cherry is a 7.0 based on face (can't judge her body) and i can't judge her skin quality which may be dark or very bad in real life but just going on her pictures.

The other girl is about a 6.5. her skin looks light but her face seems busted in other ways.. my bargirl was hotter than that girl. And the gf I had in 2014 not quite as hot as her though.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby droid » Mon Feb 02, 2015 5:14 am

I guess it's another case of tastes being different lol. Again that's good for everyone though, i'd give my right arm for any of these two. By the way i wrote to one of them and only received a lazy "Hi" back pffff.

Anyhow the pics seem pretty legit compared to the ones at the beginning of the thread, without the freak contacts etc. But I know what you're saying, they use this stupid gloom and blur filter to appear lighter and to hide the busted skin. What you guys say seems true in that their diet is probably pretty darn bad since so many have busted skin, even the younger ones.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 02, 2015 5:22 am

droid wrote:I guess it's another case of tastes being different lol. Again that's good for everyone though, i'd give my right arm for any of these two. By the way i wrote to one of them and only received a lazy "Hi" back pffff.

Anyhow the pics seem pretty legit compared to the ones at the beginning of the thread, without the freak contacts etc. But I know what you're saying, they use this stupid gloom and blur filter to appear lighter and to hide the busted skin. What you guys say seems true in that their diet is probably pretty darn bad since so many have busted skin, even the younger ones.



Yeah you can see them on cam and think they are cute but watch out you get off the plane and see them up close and you will see blackheads and lousy texture, etc and suddenly they aren't so hot anymore.

Id cheat on the 2nd one really quick, she is that ugly and im not even a Romeo in the philipines. There is no way youd be happy with girl #2 in philippines long term there once you would get attention and see all the other girls that look prettier than her. she is barely above average compared to the women there your eyes will constantly wander. My gf was hardly uglier than girl #2 She was a 6.0 and i wanted to cheat on her constantly.

Cherry looks pretty (if that first pic is accurate with nice skin and white and a nice innocent smile) she would be wifey material possibly in regadrs to looks but thats just the looks test i have other requirements LOL
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby DDuana » Mon Feb 02, 2015 5:26 am

droid wrote:I guess it's another case of tastes being different lol. Again that's good for everyone though, i'd give my right arm for any of these two. By the way i wrote to one of them and only received a lazy "Hi" back pffff.

Anyhow the pics seem pretty legit compared to the ones at the beginning of the thread, without the freak contacts etc. But I know what you're saying, they use this stupid gloom and blur filter to appear lighter and to hide the busted skin. What you guys say seems true in that their diet is probably pretty darn bad since so many have busted skin, even the younger ones.

They look good to me. But I am assuming they might be hit on by so many men every day that they have developed this idgaf attitude. And women like that worry me, because they have so many options, and will probably one day capitalize on that.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby droid » Mon Feb 02, 2015 6:07 am

nlitp wrote:There is no way youd be happy with girl #2 in philippines long term there once you would get attention and see all the other girls that look prettier than her. she is barely above average compared to the women there your eyes will constantly wander.

I so want to believe this :!:
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Although i haven't seen any hotter ones on the site. I've asked this before and haven't seen a definitive answer: are the ones on the sites bottom of the barrel? are the ones on everyday life hotter? is there a noticeable difference? Sorry i know we've gone over this a million times.

DDuana wrote:They look good to me. But I am assuming they might be hit on by so many men every day that they have developed this idgaf attitude. And women like that worry me, because they have so many options, and will probably one day capitalize on that.


You can easily gauge this since the old/busted ones really bombard you with messages, while the hotter paler ones don't even respond with 'interest' back. There's probably a ton of other thirsty westerners messaging them :cry:
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 02, 2015 6:19 am

Well the first girl is hot and you wont get much hotter than her on the dating site but there is many girls that are hotter than girl number 2 on dating sites and there is a few even hotter than girl 1 cherry but it wont be by much.

Id say the dating sites are actually an accurate represenattive of the general population. only about 10 percent or less on the dating site are above a 6.5 . Thats about what the general population is.

But when i say that keep in mind the hot girls generally wont get on cam or will be flaky to build rapport. also some of them are scammers or bargirls. so on average they may reflect hte general population for the most part but the top tier on the dating sites in regards to looks are a bit hard to get. many of them are single mothers too which is a big no no.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby MrMan » Mon Feb 02, 2015 9:57 am

I don't really have a dog in this fight. I was wondering what this thread would be about-- gambling for Filippinas. Then I see it's about guys posting pictures of girls, and other guys telling them their pictures aren't hot. :) Newlife Philippines did that, so I checked out the links he referred to on DateInAsia. Personally, I think the pictures of the first girl Droid picked out were as pretty as any of the pictures NewLifePhilippines posted. The girl he skyped, 'spider' something or other... I didn't think she looked all that attractive, something about the smile.

The girl publicduende posted didn't look all that attractive to me. Her face is kind of oddly shaped.

But all that is my own personal opinion about looks, and it doesn't matter in the least because I've got my own wife. And if one of you guys likes a girl's looks, and another man doesn't, who cares? It's a good thing we like different looks and personality types, so we can marry different women instead of all competing over the same woman we consider a perfect 10 while the population dies out.

When I lived in Korea as a young man in my 20's, a married Korean man told me that looks were important before you got married, but after that, character was a lot more important as you live with a woman day after day. That's pretty good advice. I like the fact that my wife is a beautiful woman and I can look at her face and body and enjoy that. But we are all steadily becoming less attractive. If we live long enough, our skin sags and droops. Marry a 10 now and she will be a 1 in 50 or 60 years, and if you are a decent guy, you will still love her and have sex with her. Most 20 year olds don't want to have sex with a 70 year old woman (which is good so the rest of us don't have to keep other men away from our grandmothers and aging mothers.) But it's like the frog slowly warmed up in the pot of boiling water. A frog will jump away if you try to drop him in a pot of boiling water. But if you slowly heat it up, he'll stay there until it boils. Gradually, a man see his wife age. It happens slowly so it is used to it. When they are both 80, they still have sex, at least sometimes, supposing the marriage is good and they still have working parts.

It's good if there is some initial attraction early on. But character, morals, values, faith, etc. are all more important than what a woman looks like.

Btw, I looked around on Date In Asia. You can choose a woman by height, weight, religion, children, and marital status. So you can weed out single mothers, divorced women, women who are taller than you in high heels, women over a certain weight, and women over or under a certain range. I see they have some details on religion. Pentecostal is listed separate from Christian, which is weird. Maybe it's a reaction to the fact that a small percentage of Pentecostals aren't Trinitarian. When I was dating, a woman being a non-Christian was a deal breaker. So this is pretty cool. They should have a category for virgin or nonvirgin. They could lie about it, but if the virgins answered honestly, at least self-professed nonvirgins could be ruled out. That was a deal-breaker, or nearly so, when I was looking for a wife back before online dating was really a commercial thing.

I can see the appeal of online dating for singles if they have that kind of fine-grained criteria. And everyone on the site is looking for a partner. If you ask a girl at the office out, that could be awkward. But here, everyone on the site is presumably looking for dates, marriage, etc. If a girl doesn't like you, she can just choose not to send a message back? I don't know how all that works. But I can see why so many people meet and marry through the Internet. It's a world where everyone is there for dating, and there is no loud music or sleezy atmosphere (hopefully) like a club.

I read a post that girls on the site are scammers. If you choose ones from very conservative religious backgrounds, is she less likely to be a scammer? What about men who have really 'sincere' profiles, the kind that says the man is looking for a wife, hoping to find a woman who is serious about getting married. Would that make it better or worse?

I'd imagine if you wanted to marry a woman off the Internet, you'd have to go there and interview her friends and relatives to see how legit her intentions are. I've hear of hiring someone to investigate her, sending someone to the internet cafe where she chats online and striking up a conversation with her about her online boyfriends and her intentions. If she says she's getting money from all these men or that she has a lot of online boyfriends, that could be a way of ruling a girl out after you'd Skyped her?

I knew of three girls from church that married after dating online about 12 years ago or so. They were sincerely looking for spouses. Probably due to language issues, I don't think Indonesia has much of an online dating scam industry. I haven't heard of it. Not everyone speaks English that well. Those who can are usually middle class, Usually, just about every woman in Indonesia wants to get married, and they tend to marry a few years earlier than women in the US. So when they hit their late 20's, they really want to get married. And there are some who just don't meet someone who marries them, and they can go online and find a foreigner who is still single. It's kind of hard to find singles in Indonesia after a certain age. I think the Philippines is the same way, with the Internet being an exception. I have a friend who likes Indonesian and Filippina girls. Even though I went to a mostly Filippino church at the time, I didn't know any singles in the 40+ age range he was looking for.

Still, this is a lot riskier than getting to know a girl totally in real life. If I had never married or were widowed, I might make it a goal to go live in Indonesia and meet a girl there. I'm happy with my wife, and it has been a good experience. I speak the language and know a bit about the culture. I like the marriage culture there better than in this country, and there is a certain mystique to Asian women.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby Mr Natural » Mon Feb 02, 2015 10:46 pm

droid wrote:There's probably a ton of other thirsty westerners messaging them


No doubt, but there is a very simple way to distinguish yourself from 99% of those other guys. It's been said before so many times because it's so true - GO THERE TO MEET HER, and quickly. I've always thought the dating sites should only be used either right before you go and/or while you are there. Tons of guys correspond with the lookers, but very very few GO.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 02, 2015 11:11 pm

Mr Natural wrote:
droid wrote:There's probably a ton of other thirsty westerners messaging them


No doubt, but there is a very simple way to distinguish yourself from 99% of those other guys. It's been said before so many times because it's so true - GO THERE TO MEET HER, and quickly. I've always thought the dating sites should only be used either right before you go and/or while you are there. Tons of guys correspond with the lookers, but very very few GO.



doesn't help. Ive been there in person and the hot girls are still hard to get ahold of have many excuses to meet. they want to build up rapport over time even in person.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby droid » Tue Feb 03, 2015 1:43 am

Mr Natural wrote:
droid wrote:There's probably a ton of other thirsty westerners messaging them


No doubt, but there is a very simple way to distinguish yourself from 99% of those other guys. It's been said before so many times because it's so true - GO THERE TO MEET HER, and quickly. I've always thought the dating sites should only be used either right before you go and/or while you are there. Tons of guys correspond with the lookers, but very very few GO.


Absolutely true, I'm carrying out the online stuff mainly as an experiment.
Having said that there are a few 7-8's i could line-up right away, but i'm still a few months from hitting the ground, probably by July once i'm established in china.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Feb 03, 2015 1:46 am

droid wrote:
Mr Natural wrote:
droid wrote:There's probably a ton of other thirsty westerners messaging them


No doubt, but there is a very simple way to distinguish yourself from 99% of those other guys. It's been said before so many times because it's so true - GO THERE TO MEET HER, and quickly. I've always thought the dating sites should only be used either right before you go and/or while you are there. Tons of guys correspond with the lookers, but very very few GO.


Absolutely true, I'm carrying out the online stuff mainly as an experiment.
Having said that there are a few 7-8's i could line-up right away, but i'm still a few months from hitting the ground, probably by July once i'm established in china.



You can line them up all you want. but good luck getting the HOT ONES to meet you when you arrive. Here is examples of what happens

1) text sent, no reply
2) text sent excuse given
3) text sent and meet given and agreement, but they flake out
4) its too late to meet you for a date, past their curfew etc
5) they are busy with work or school ask them tommorrow or give another time
6) or they stop going online or ignore your messages
7) they actually are not as close as you think or their location is wrong and they want YOU to go to their spot which may lead to a flake. I never agree to this. I make them come to me since im the catch not them.
8 the hot ones never get on cam to prove they are even hot (and believe me you need to confirm) or they could be a ladyboy for all you know. By the time you almost get them on cam your ready to move onto a different location LOL
9 suddenly they admit th ey are a bargirl or freelancer and will require short time money.
10 some will meet you but then ask for taxi money (these girls are sluts or cheap or hoes)
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby droid » Tue Feb 03, 2015 1:58 am

I hear you that's good info. but that's why i said it's just an experiment. to see what levels think i'm hot or what not and get an idea of what i can pull off.
Like Mr natural hinted, i'm mostly focused on ground work.
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Re: I'll see your filipina and raise you

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Feb 03, 2015 2:47 am

droid wrote:I hear you that's good info. but that's why i said it's just an experiment. to see what levels think i'm hot or what not and get an idea of what i can pull off.
Like Mr natural hinted, i'm mostly focused on ground work.


id be itnerested to see your ground work cause i never see anyone talk about it or have much success. Any chance you can float on over to India too? Its only 400 bucks round trip maybe you can find a hot light skinned desi who wants an arranged marriage with you. Just give daddy a few bills and off away you go :D
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