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Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 09, 2015 10:04 pm

If you think jobs are easy to get you are delusional. I dont think most guys would want to sweat their whole lives in a factory anyways to take a yearly vacation in the 3rd world. some might have a good job and they are not gonna give that up so they can switch to yearly factory work so they have more time off. if they find their wife they may not have a good job to go back to.

actually im not retiring in 5 years im planning to make online income for the rest of my life cause i changed to a different strategy to something more legal etc which isn't making me that much and who knwos how much it will make me in the future so im staying home for a few years to guage things. last thing i want to do is waste my precious money on a pipe dream.


whats the purpose of meeting a woman when your young? Shes gonna get old and ugly so how does that offset the fact of taking advantage of a healthy libido. Your gonna need viagra later to get it up with your future wife cause of her looks :) Im purposely looking for a wife 20 years younger so that wont be an issue. than me which means i can't even get started yet LOL
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby hammanta » Mon Feb 09, 2015 10:13 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:actually im not retiring in 5 years im planning to make online income for the rest of my life cause i changed to a different strategy to something more legal etc which isn't making me that much and who knwos how much it will make me in the future so im staying home for a few years to guage things. last thing i want to do is waste my precious money on a pipe dream.


whats the purpose of meeting a woman when your young? Shes gonna get old and ugly so how does that offset the fact of taking advantage of a healthy libido. Your gonna need viagra later to get it up with your future wife cause of her looks :) Im purposely looking for a wife 20 years younger so that wont be an issue. than me which means i can't even get started yet LOL


I have never once on this thread claimed to be getting married or plan on it anytime soon. Meeting women is different than marrying them. 35+ would be when I plan on considering marriage (though I say that now). Unlike you, sex isn't as important as companionship and love to me. Despite your unrealistic views, women tend to not start looking bad til maybe 40ish if they stay healthy and exercise. If I marry a younger 25 year old at 35 she'd still look good for many years. Interest in sex fades and I'd rather have a good companion by my side in my later years than be miserably lonely.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Feb 09, 2015 10:16 pm

hammanta wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:actually im not retiring in 5 years im planning to make online income for the rest of my life cause i changed to a different strategy to something more legal etc which isn't making me that much and who knwos how much it will make me in the future so im staying home for a few years to guage things. last thing i want to do is waste my precious money on a pipe dream.


whats the purpose of meeting a woman when your young? Shes gonna get old and ugly so how does that offset the fact of taking advantage of a healthy libido. Your gonna need viagra later to get it up with your future wife cause of her looks :) Im purposely looking for a wife 20 years younger so that wont be an issue. than me which means i can't even get started yet LOL


I have never once on this thread claimed to be getting married or plan on it anytime soon. Meeting women is different than marrying them. 35+ would be when I plan on considering marriage (though I say that now). Unlike you, sex isn't as important as companionship and love to me. Despite your unrealistic views, women tend to not start looking bad til maybe 40ish if they stay healthy and exercise. If I marry a younger 25 year old at 35 she'd still look good for many years. Interest in sex fades and I'd rather have a good companion by my side in my later years than be miserably lonely.


Who says i dont want love and companionship? Your a defeatist your basically saying if a girl loves you the sex will be lacking. I want both, so sad you will settle for any chick no matter what the personality is like or looks like in the name of love. I think you need a puppy or a maid more than a woman. Even if a girl doesn't love you the sex will be good or should be if you have the right chemistry, just ask any bargirl or guy married to a girl many years his senior (they are acting :) ). Sex is very valuable to me cause i dont want kids so why else would i marry? If i need friendship and dont care about sex like you i would get a dog or go to church instead or hire a maid or something.

No filipina is gonna take care of themselves. thats asking way too much from them. They all age out after 25 to 35. depending on the woman and some look terrible after knocking out a kid or 2. My previous bargirl is still hotter than most filipinas at 30 but the window is almost closing now.

not me i been single all the way up to 33 and that gives me the freedom to find myself internally and grow up over time and i still have a long ways to grow. id rather have from 40 to 60 a hot woman than 20 to 40 and not even know what i want in life and also cringe everytime i walk in the door :D
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby ?????? » Tue Feb 10, 2015 4:29 am

You could get a TEFL certificate and teach English abroad. You might not make much dengi, but you will be abroad. Also work on approaching women while you are there.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Feb 10, 2015 4:40 am

?????? wrote:You could get a TEFL certificate and teach English abroad. You might not make much dengi, but you will be abroad. Also work on approaching women while you are there.


that or online income and/or taking multiple short vacations (without giving it up) to find your wife and import her if you have a job seem to be the most plausible ideas.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby Cornfed » Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:21 am

Banano wrote:You are not gonna jump on internet and pick any random chick. You select, pres-screen, assess,video call/ skype her, make sure she is mentally stable(very important), clean, loves to cook, etc

Tell her about your plan to marry and this is only to see how she like new country and new culture;)...you know what i mean...that way she will be on her best behavior for the duration of her stay.
Say you ll be buying a new house or apartment or opening some sort of biz in near future, this tactics will keep her p***y lubricated enough for you to have mind-blowing sex.

Be that carrot dangler. Tom Leykis school. :lol:

Sometimes you have to play little games, cant play straight and expect great results. Rmbr she will be playing game too.:)

I think my (and other posters') points still stand. The fact is that the easy/obvious options such as the suggestion in the OP have been largely closed off, and perhaps some might have moral objections. We have to be a bit more creative and adaptive to our personal situations. Most generic solutions that most people try don't work now.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:32 am

One radical idea is trying to get your family to live overseas so you have a network, place to stay, etc.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby Cornfed » Tue Feb 10, 2015 5:35 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:One radical idea is trying to get your family to live overseas so you have a network, place to stay, etc.

Yes, that would be a good idea for some people.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby MarcosZeitola » Tue Feb 10, 2015 6:18 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:i dont see outwests reply?


Means he got tired of your bullshit and blocked you.

As for this beta solution, I doubt it would happen. The beta's I see around here tend to not do shit and expect things will be handed to them on a golden platter because "life is so unfair and I deserve it boohoo". They will continue to whine, and cry, an complain, and nothing will happen as they wither away and fade into obscurity while those who took action get laid and build up a life far away.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby Cornfed » Tue Feb 10, 2015 6:24 am

Cornfed wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:One radical idea is trying to get your family to live overseas so you have a network, place to stay, etc.

Yes, that would be a good idea for some people.

Actually, this is precisely the kind of thing I was talking about in my post upthread. We need to stop proposing generalist solutions and start proposing different solutions for men in different situations. If you had a close-knit like-minded family in the West, persuading them to move overseas en masse might be a great idea.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Feb 10, 2015 6:35 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:i dont see outwests reply?


Means he got tired of your bullshit and blocked you.

As for this beta solution, I doubt it would happen. The beta's I see around here tend to not do shit and expect things will be handed to them on a golden platter because "life is so unfair and I deserve it boohoo". They will continue to whine, and cry, an complain, and nothing will happen as they wither away and fade into obscurity while those who took action get laid and build up a life far away.


i see his reply now he was just quoting someone elses reply but then he edited it and now added a reply.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby MarcosZeitola » Tue Feb 10, 2015 8:00 am

You don't need to be rich to travel; but you may need some Alpha characteristics to dare take the jump, and make the most of it with limited resources. Taking huge risks and embracing an adventurous lifestyle is not for the faint-hearted, and may not be a beta's best bet. I think no man who, like OP says, spends his time playing video games, will truly do well abroad, with or without resources. If all you do is waste your time playing video games, chances are you won't even be able to attract a lady and convince her to come to your country, all without ever having met you.

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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby Signet » Tue Feb 10, 2015 10:32 am

MarcosZeitola wrote:Taking huge risks and embracing an adventurous lifestyle is not for the faint-hearted, and may not be a beta's best bet.


Alternatively, there's no better way of building confidence and self-reliance than throwing oneself into a new situation and having to figure shit out for yourself. Cowering on a computer and using that as your release is only going to make you an older person who...does that.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby MarcosZeitola » Tue Feb 10, 2015 11:20 am

Signet wrote:
MarcosZeitola wrote:Taking huge risks and embracing an adventurous lifestyle is not for the faint-hearted, and may not be a beta's best bet.


Alternatively, there's no better way of building confidence and self-reliance than throwing oneself into a new situation and having to figure shit out for yourself. Cowering on a computer and using that as your release is only going to make you an older person who...does that.


Exactly! And this is what seperates the "betas" OP describes and the "alphas" who get shit done.
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Re: Viable Solution for Betas who cant travel

Postby Devil Dog » Tue Feb 10, 2015 6:45 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:The only thing i can think of is an arranged marriage with a vietnamese or indian.


If you would post less it would be less obvious that you don't have any idea what the f**k you are talking about.

Protip: "Arranged marriage" isn't a thing in Vietnam.
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