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To men who have gone abroad and found a wife more suiting to himself?
I notice that western women seen strongly against it. I also notice that it seems western women would have little interest in their men but as soon as it seems like their men can go elsewhere and that other women may want the men then the western women seem to actually suddenly gain a new interest in their men. lol.
They go so far as to try to convince the men that foreign women are bad news.
My guess is it's the competition thing in women. They want men who are wanted. If a man isn't wanted and will just sit there single forever then she has no interest in him. But as soon as it looks like he might be able to get foreign women then suddenly they all gain a new magic interest.
I have also seen the actual statistics and figures and they don't jive with what western women proclaim.
You will hear western women tell you that foreign women only want you for your money or citizenship and they will just divorce you.
But the official figures suggest quite the opposite.
The official figures show that if an American man marries an American woman the divorce rate is 57% (remember 70+% of divorces are initiated by the woman). But if you marry a foreign woman the divorce rate is close to only 20%.
So it seems western women are taking part in some fear mongering also since on the level of divorce numbers their claims are certainly not true but the case it rather the opposite.
Happens if you date outside of your ethnic group, too.
I have a question, though -- why voluntarily discuss it with western women, at all?
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"Even an American judge is unlikely to award child support for imputed children." - FredOnEverything
Remind them how often western women are just after money too. They get mad because of fear, fear of competition they perceive they cannot compete with. They will try to humiliate competition any way they can.
I wouldn't. No reason too at all. If it comes up it comes up. In my case, my wife and I have been married now going on 9 years so it's obvious that she's not in it for the green card. So they run out of the stereotypical comebacks at a certain point in time which is nice, trust me. If I do hear comments it's normally that Pete has it REALLY good (with implications Pete has it TOO good ie why is she with him)? I'm sure secretly they are glad more guys like me don't actually find nice wives abroad as I'm in the vast minority. The Western Woman does not like to relinquish her control.