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What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby jamesbond » Thu May 12, 2016 12:26 am

Winston wrote:Have any of you ever wondered what it means to "be cool" as Americans define it?


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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby CB8 » Thu May 12, 2016 2:06 am

Being cool means that enough people like you that followers/sheep think joining in on liking you will make them likeable to others.
Being uncool means that enough people dislike you that followers/sheep think joining in on disliking you will make them likeable to others.

A cool person is someone who is completely comfortable following societal rules and thrives flawlessly in American culture. They are at ease blending into American society. To us, we find such people extremely fake, repulsive, and we would avoid them. To the average American, these people are heroes and role models.
You can also be cool if you're different, but then, it's largely dependent on luck. Afterall, Americans have a low tolerance for originality of any kind.
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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby Eric » Thu May 12, 2016 2:52 am

It doesn't mean a damn thing. Because it means different things to different people - it's going to end up pissing certain people off, attracting others - and yet alienating others. It's not a good idea. Really being cool is believing in God, and in applying that knowledge. It's an inner thing that shows through you no matter what. It will attract girls to you - as well. It's the only real way in my opinion.

All these other ways have problems and setbacks - you have to sell your soul to do it, and ultimately not worth it; they are ultimately destructive. You will lose quality as a human man, and then girls won't want you - ironically. The more quality you have, the more girls you will attract. It's very basic.
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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby MatureDJ » Fri May 13, 2016 10:28 pm

Let's face the facts. By us being at this very forum, we are considered uncool by American women, or at least attractive American women.
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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby jamesbond » Sat May 14, 2016 10:10 am

MatureDJ wrote:Let's face the facts. By us being at this very forum, we are considered uncool by American women, or at least attractive American women.


This good looking American woman must think Winston is pretty cool. :lol:

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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby Moretorque » Sat May 14, 2016 10:55 am

Mr. Wu, he is so handsome......... :D , I think I might be in love!
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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby jamesbond » Sat May 14, 2016 4:13 pm

Moretorque wrote:Mr. Wu, he is so handsome......... :D , I think I might be in love!

Even dressed up like a clown, Winston is still very handsome! :lol:

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Re: What does "being cool" in America mean exactly?

Postby jamesbond » Sat May 14, 2016 4:58 pm

Winston want's to look pretty for the ladies. :lol:

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