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9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Banano » Mon Apr 20, 2015 12:36 pm

1. He talks too much about 'deep' topics girls dont care about including but not limited to 911, jfk, moon landing, rothschilds, fed reserve

2. Have no sense of humor, too robotic, rigid, nerdy type women love to avoid, acts like a complete social retard

3. Lacks aggression and alpha traits. Comes accross as too placid which is probably related to chronic deficiency of testosterone

4. Overthinks things which leads to stifling and self-sabotage

5. No killers instinct, lacks that final touch

6. Looks unhealthy(this is a huge factor when women deciding whether to sleep with a guy)

7. Suffers from cheap charlie syndrome like most asians do

8. Overvalued his market value, desires women out of his league young, skinny, fit instead of goin for older, fat ones

9. Too fat and doesnt look like he could perform well in bed (yes women do assess you on this when they meet you)

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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby MarcosZeitola » Mon Apr 20, 2015 2:18 pm

Agree with most poinst accept 2, as he does appear to have a healthy sense of humor and is able to, sometimes, poke fun at himself as well as others. Judging from the frequent typing of the word "lol" in his text, I believe he is someone that you can have a fun time with. You also state he does not go for older or fatter ladies in point 8, which is not entirely true as I recall him recently going out with a 33 year old woman.

The rest of this is pretty much spot on, but aside from the physical aspects that can be changed (tan, better food, working out to make him look healthier), the social behavior is harder to unlearn and as a man in his forties, he's likely already too set in his ways to change the way he operates and interact radically.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby pete98146 » Mon Apr 20, 2015 7:50 pm

I remember playing pee wee football starting in the 4th grade back in Washington DC area where I grew up. None of us kids on the team knew anything about the game so it was a time where we relied upon the coaches to give us direction on how to play.

I was assigned to play middle line backer and I was promptly given a list of a dozen or so things that I needed to learn in order to be a better football player. I went home and that night, I started doing little drills with my dad with the goal of improving. Looking back, I became one of the better players on my team because I was "coachable" meaning I took direction very well and I applied my lessons. Most kids did the same, but I remember probably 1/4 kids weren't coachable for various reasons.

During the team drills, if a kid made a mistake on the field, the coaches would often stop practice and yell, "see he was thinking too much and not playing instinctively." This taught me a very good early life lesson and it clearly showed me that there are "do-ers" and there are "thinkers".

So the pivotal question becomes, "is Winston Wu coachable??????" We all know that Winston is a "thinker" and he's probably on the very far right of that scale. We can collectively give Winston a thousand tips that would improve his dating skills but the chances of him implementing any of them are slim.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby The » Mon Apr 20, 2015 9:28 pm

Winston needs to Diet, lift weights and supplement....

But Nooooo!!! Winston would rather lift a buffet plate than a barbell....
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby MarcosZeitola » Mon Apr 20, 2015 9:28 pm

180IQ wrote:What you are talking about are symptoms. The root cause of Winston's problem is low intelligence from poor thinking skills. His thinking (which is like Ephialtes, a deformed Spartan) blocks any increase in intelligence. So he just does the same thing over and over again with a few variations. Like most people, he has never studied philosophy (philosophy helps your thinking skill grow) so he is limited in what he can understand and mentally absorb.


He should have a talk with my friend who studied philosophy, played guitar in a band and got a ton of girls before settling down. He's a genuine philosopher and is actually shorter then Winston and way poorer. But he never had trouble getting girls because he was interesting company, and had a certain brooding quality over him. There's just this sense of mystery, this aura of knowledge that surrounds such people. Girls notice it, guys notice it too. These are the men who you want as your friend, as your brother, and as a girl you want them in your bed. Winston may never become such a man... but he could benefit greatly from befriending and hanging out with one. Maybe what Winston needs, more then anything, is a mentor? Someone older, someone wiser, someone who he accepts as an authority and who can inspire him and push him in the right direction. I think that would be helpful. Infinitely more helpful then an army of faceless men on an online forum he runs himself.

Just my two cents.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby droid » Mon Apr 20, 2015 11:30 pm

meh, this stuff is like the stock market Lol, everyone has an opinion, and hindsight is 20/20

The wrote:Winston needs to Diet, lift weights and supplement....
But Nooooo!!! Winston would rather lift a buffet plate than a barbell....


Exactly, that's the main thing. We've all told him this about 4x10^6 times.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Tsar » Tue Apr 21, 2015 2:24 am

Wrong Post
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby S_Parc » Tue Apr 21, 2015 2:25 am

The day will come when he realizes that he's not young anymore. So if he wants to be a forever playboy, w/o a long term GF or wife, then he'll need to be more like this guy ...

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and start some sort of daily regimen.

If the above bodybuilder dyed his hair brown, he could pass for a 55 year old, instead of a guy in his 80s.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby chanta76 » Tue Apr 21, 2015 3:05 am

Has anyone really met Winston in person to say this is him for real?

Winston does need to lose some weight and be in better shape. He probably needs to dress fashionable if he wants to compete for the better quality girls. These are all external factors and doable.

The hard part is the internal aspect. Half the time it's common sense when you meet or date a girl. Guys who dated and been with allot of girls know from experience what works and don't work. The best bet is for Winston to hang out with a guy who is good with girls and observe how he does it.
I think for Ethan reading his post he is probably a really good looking guy or has the style that girls go for. Winston shouldn't observe Ethan because for good looking guys it's about just showing up. He should hang out with an older ugly looking expat but good with girls.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby smallcheese » Tue Apr 21, 2015 3:13 am

chanta76 wrote:Has anyone really met Winston in person to say this is him for real?

Winston does need to lose some weight and be in better shape. He probably needs to dress fashionable if he wants to compete for the better quality girls. These are all external factors and doable.

The hard part is the internal aspect. Half the time it's common sense when you meet or date a girl. Guys who dated and been with allot of girls know from experience what works and don't work. The best bet is for Winston to hang out with a guy who is good with girls and observe how he does it.
I think for Ethan reading his post he is probably a really good looking guy or has the style that girls go for. Winston shouldn't observe Ethan because for good looking guys it's about just showing up. He should hang out with an older ugly looking expat but good with girls.


And not in the Philippines or Thailand. :-)
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Seeker » Tue Apr 21, 2015 4:34 am

1 to 8 don't matter, the real issues are his looks, weight and age. We've been telling to improve his looks for years by healthy dieting and exercise but he keeps looking for easy ways out, fad diets, making faggot ass excuses like "exercise hurts! I don't like pain!" which is nothing but a testament to his lack of character, while taking advice from online cranks and quacks of every kind, and if he fails he can just blame God or "Murphy's Law"!. What he needs is a good kick up his ample backside, some of his friends in real life who actually care about him like Rock could try to get him on track but I suppose they already tried and gave up. I'd be willing to write him an exercise plan and help advise him with his diet but I'm 99.9% certain that Winston won't heed any of this advice.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Ghost » Tue Apr 21, 2015 7:40 am

I posted this is another thread, but it belongs here too:

Ghost wrote:It's clearly a bad idea to talk about conspiracies and whatnot on dates. I'm assuming he's talking about these things in English to his dates, which probably complicates things even more. Although talking about stuff like America's moon landings being fake might draw some ire because there are many Chinese who believe that China landed men on the moon. Anyway...

Winston is in a bad country for getting laid. Chinese women tend to be a lot more conservative and protected by their families and they tend to seek for marriage. There are low numbers of single moms - China is not nearly such a promiscuous society like the Philippines is. There are ample p4p options in China - this is what Winston should do to get his dick wet and his brain straight before going wife-hunting. (If he wants a wife - otherwise, go back to Philippines.) The guys who do get laid in China have to go to nightclubs and bars. That will get you sluts if you put in the effort, but this is definitely the minority of girls. Then of course you have westernized bitches in the major cities. When mongers get laid in China they are almost universally getting either club girls or big city girls (think of scowling American career bitches.)

Winston could try third tier cities or even lesser visited big cities. But he needs to get serious about wife-hunting if he stays in China. Otherwise he is defeating the point. It's not his looks. Getting in shape is good, sure, but not needed. That's not why he is failing in China. Going to China for laying sluts is like going to America for a virgin wife.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Banano » Tue Apr 21, 2015 8:38 am

Ghost

I disagree. Looks is his biggest drawback. If he was tall,athletic blue eyed westerner women would be dropping thier panties in places like china. This talk about conservative and hard chinese women is bs, of course when they see you as unattractive they will be hard for you but I bet the same woman will let some badass alpha ejaculate in her mouth on the first date.
Actually, thats how typical western woman act these days.

The best thing winnie can do is to go back to angeles city and enjoy it to the fullest, forget abt other countries, theres no easy lays for a 40 yo fat asian man. Fact.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby S_Parc » Tue Apr 21, 2015 1:15 pm

Banano wrote:This talk about conservative and hard chinese women is bs, of course when they see you as unattractive they will be hard for you but I bet the same woman will let some badass alpha ejaculate in her mouth on the first date.
Actually, thats how typical western woman act these days.


In other words, don't put women on a pedestal.

Banano wrote:The best thing winnie can do is to go back to angeles city and enjoy it to the fullest, forget abt other countries, theres no easy lays for a 40 yo fat asian man. Fact.


I'd add one more point, Win should stop looking for a soulmate. That type of stuff should be flushed out of one's system between ages 29 and 40.

Afterwards, if you haven't found a life partner/companion (Read: Not soulmate but partner) then accept the fact that it's all whores from there forth.
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Re: 9 reasons why Winston cant get laid

Postby Ghost » Tue Apr 21, 2015 9:04 pm

Banano wrote:Ghost

I disagree. Looks is his biggest drawback. If he was tall,athletic blue eyed westerner women would be dropping thier panties in places like china. This talk about conservative and hard chinese women is bs, of course when they see you as unattractive they will be hard for you but I bet the same woman will let some badass alpha ejaculate in her mouth on the first date.
Actually, thats how typical western woman act these days.

The best thing winnie can do is to go back to angeles city and enjoy it to the fullest, forget abt other countries, theres no easy lays for a 40 yo fat asian man. Fact.


It's a lot more complicated than that. Like I've mentioned before, you can find slutty Chinese women - they'll almost always be found in clubs or parts of the major cities.

You can find Chinese women who don't care about looks and/or money. Not the easiest thing to do, but they're there.

You can end up in areas where the local women don't date foreign men, with a very few exceptions.

China is like the story of the three blind men and the elephant. It's so big that you can't get a feel for the whole thing from one vantage point, thus everybody comes away from it having radically different views of it.
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