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Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

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Re: Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

Postby Lorenzo » Sun Aug 02, 2015 8:18 pm

Winston wrote:I have a deep question that we should all ask. I know this isn't an easy question to answer, but still you gotta wonder about it. The question is:

Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause or problem? How come other people are able to thrive in America -- get married, raise children, establish a career or steady job, etc? What's the difference between us and them?

I know we've all postulated the following explanations:

-- We are too authentic and down to earth and don't fit into the fake American culture or social life.
-- We are nonconformists and freethinkers who don't fit into the system.
-- We are introverts in an extroverted society like the US that doesn't understand us.
-- We have aspergers syndrome and therefore are classified as having a "mental disorder".
-- We lack social skills or "game" and don't know how to "act cool".
-- We hate trash culture or mindless entertainment such as sports, reality TV shows, modern music, degenerate culture, tattoos, etc.
-- We are simply unattractive in both looks and personality.
-- We are nerds and geeks.


I think you touched on all of it...these are the various reasons. For me I can play the game however I chose not to. I am a non-conformist and wanted something better than an overweight, bitchy and entitled American woman. I broke the mold, friends and family no doubt looked down on me for it and stepped away from me (which kind of hurt), but I had to follow my own path to happiness. I can't do something just because everyone else does and says it is the right way to go.

My buddy and I went through divorce at the same time. He then dated an American lady 1 yr older than him and she looks like his Mom and lectured me to do the same...but I found a hot, submissive Asian lady that looks like a young mistress :) :)
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Re: Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

Postby Jeremy » Sun Aug 09, 2015 2:50 am

Truth compulsion. A complete inability to bullshit ourselves. The truth is most American men are living in abject sexual poverty. It's just that no one ever talks about it. We're all supposed to pretend that girls are handing out sex like Halloween candy and we're having a grand ol' time.

I could EASILY lie like every other 20-something guy and claim I’m slaying hotties, and NO ONE would question it. I could EASILY post instagram photos of me hugging hot female "friends" and smiling, and people would assume we're banging. It's all just smoke and mirrors though. None of them will f**k me.

One of these female "friends" recently suggested I try pulling drunk sluts from Tinder. “Getting laid’s as easy as 1-2-3 teehee." I tried explaining that the only girls I matched with were clinically obese, but she didn’t want to hear it.
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Re: Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

Postby Banano » Sun Aug 09, 2015 4:40 am

Drunk sluts on tinder?? Or clubs?


Anyway, I have femele friends and they say the same thing that getting laid is easy, 'just go to club and pick up drunk sluts'

Why they see it that way? Its not like women will go for any guy who approaches when shes drunk.
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Re: Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

Postby Ghost » Sun Aug 09, 2015 2:08 pm

Jeremy wrote:Truth compulsion. A complete inability to bullshit ourselves. The truth is most American men are living in abject sexual poverty. It's just that no one ever talks about it. We're all supposed to pretend that girls are handing out sex like Halloween candy and we're having a grand ol' time.

I could EASILY lie like every other 20-something guy and claim I’m slaying hotties, and NO ONE would question it. I could EASILY post instagram photos of me hugging hot female "friends" and smiling, and people would assume we're banging. It's all just smoke and mirrors though. None of them will f**k me.

One of these female "friends" recently suggested I try pulling drunk sluts from Tinder. “Getting laid’s as easy as 1-2-3 teehee." I tried explaining that the only girls I matched with were clinically obese, but she didn’t want to hear it.


This is a much bigger problem than any guy will admit. I was honest with my friends in the U.S. that I was a virgin. I was friends with some other obvious virgins, but they never hesitated to make up bullshit stories about their
(many, obviously...) sexual experiences. A fat nerd saying he had five different women (attractive ones of course. Funny, I never saw him with females on dates or anything even remotely romantically inclined.) An ugly black guy saying he f***ed a hot girl in a club because she wanted black dick.
Things like that. I never felt the need to hide it, and my disgust with the culture grew. I was always on the outside for my honesty. Despicable f***s they are.
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Re: Why are we misfits in America? What's the root cause?

Postby Jeremy » Sun Aug 09, 2015 3:20 pm

Banano wrote:Drunk sluts on tinder?? Or clubs?


Anyway, I have femele friends and they say the same thing that getting laid is easy, 'just go to club and pick up drunk sluts'

Why they see it that way? Its not like women will go for any guy who approaches when shes drunk.


Her other guy "friends" - all loud frat bro types from what I can gather - arrange club dates with Tinder girls, get them drunk, and then bang them. Allegedly. She thinks this method should work for me. Not sure how it would, since I didn't even get one match during the two weeks I was on that app. Except for one obese girl I accidently swiped right to.

Of course my female "friend" has never met any of these girls. No doubt these guys are slumming it with girls much less attractive than themselves. I mean, if they were pulling young cuties, wouldn't they want to show them off to their social circle? Or they're just plain lying.
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