Asian men do not have it bad in the dating game

[Mr.Darcy]

Do not act FOB. American women love the typical american male. The only foreign cultures they will accept are Europeans. If you are westernized than you should have no problem getting a woman here. In addition, see plenty of Asian men with white women. They have it far better than blacks. However, Light skinned hispanics beat the Asian male in the dating game though. Jesus, Asian men can get the girls that won't date black men which are most white women lol. Most white women you see with black men are trash.

[romparoo]

Yeah. For example, these two will do just fine. Pretty sure these men won't come here to make threads like "Most of Life is WASTED on Regret, Loneliness, Powerlessness!"

[Jeremy]

I live in a multicultural city and haven't noticed any difference in incel rates between the races. Regardless of race, a man who wants to avoid incel here better be:

1) under 30 (the closer to 18, the better)
2) in the top 20% of facial looks for men of said age group

A man who fails to meet the above criteria better learn to get aroused by land whales and cougars. Or make enough money to afford regular escort sessions.

[chanta76]

ramparro,

Does asian guys you use are not the typical asian guys you see around. However, I imagine really good looking Asian guys even the Fobby ones will have no trouble getting girls.

An Asian guy who has his shit together and is half way decent looking can do OK. I see little bit more Asian guys with white girls and once in awhile black girls. However, you still see more asian girls with white guys.

I think with some Asian guys they internalize the racism they grew up with and maybe have low self opinion about themselves. I know I have this to a degree.

[Ghost]

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[drronnie]

Asian men only have it bad in the West. (Hint: every man has it bad in the West.) They do quite well in Asia, if the billions of people living there is any indication.

Depends if you are poor Asian man you probably will have quite a poor dating record

[Bao3niang]

Whatever the case may be, it does not apply to me. I'm still in a difficult situation right now but I'm trying hard to escape it for good. I do agree that Asian men who tend to do well in Western countries most likely aren't your typical nerd / geek. I'm pretty brainy / geeky and considered quite introverted in an increasingly Westernizing China.

Well anyways Jenny from Cebu is managing to care about me and stay in touch with me even though I was unable to see her this time. Hard to find such a woman nowadays.

[Ghost]

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[chanta76]

Ghost,

Asia at least the wealthy Asian countries is becoming more like America. So the concept of arrange marriage is out dated. However, for years and years not just Asia but society that had arrange marriage had a better track record in family development.

I think concept of romantic love is soo new (just out of the 20 century ) and it predominately a western ideal. It's not romantic love but lust and passionate that motivates but all those feelings are fleeting. That's why we have all the problems today..people don't (mostly women and some men) don't know how to pick a partner and base everything on passion but once that gone...they break up , divorce or cheat...

The old system was better and practical but with American ideals of individualism it's not going to take.