This Post May Save a Life

[yick]

Sure you can move overseas and find a job but the general consensus is that you can't make enough money from teaching English to be able to have fun with girls and live the high life.

The high life? Well, to live the high life anywhere, you need to bring skills to the table - doctors, pilots, economists - they earn a lot but there is also a lot of stress and pressure in their lives.

Happier Abroad - I don't think - is about living the high life, no, you won't live the high life teaching English but you will live an interesting life where you will meet friends, women and never be short of money without breaking your soul, stuck in some cubicle for 40 plus hours a week.

Fun with girls? What some of you chaps need to realise is that 'fun with girls' can only be part of the equation of being happy anywhere. Chasing skirt hasn't made our dear leader on here, happy. For him, he runs around the Far East like an oversexed Jack Russell, does he seem contented? He would be more content if he settled somewhere, found a job he enjoys, took up a sport, get fit, learn new skills and then a decent girl will come to him, instead of going to the fleshpots of the planet, f***ing whores.

[NorthAmericanguy]

How is this different from guys that go on sex tourism overseas?

In the long run escorts service or paying for it will not be FULFILLING. It's like a bandage over a deep deep cut. A girl that freely choose to be with you is much more full filling but I get it ...for some guys it's very hard to get a decent girl.

There is no way to tell if a woman is with you because she really likes you. There is just no way to tell.

I personally believe men are just used by women for a means to an end, but I'm OK with it because I'm not looking to be loved or cared for.

But if you're the type of man who is really looking for conpaniship, than yes, being a punter isn't going to be fulfilling in the long run.

[NorthAmericanguy]

Not sure I'd go the hooker/exort route. I have a strong need to know what I'm dealing with & I don't think I'd get that with an escort. How do you avoid getting nailed by the cops, if it's not going to screw you to mention it? I've figured out a couple of angles, just when thinking about things- but I never got how they didn't just jump on whatever escort company was out there. Like if someone put up an add that said "Buy Crack From Me," I think that would be it.

If you really want to be safe ask that the first date be held at a restaurant and just take it from there. Or my buddies do OUTCALLS where the escort drives to their house.

[Adama]

I highly doubt this post will save any lives, but it will probably get a few girls through college and a few guys placated while slaving away their youth.

To clarify, what I mean by saving a life is if I can convince one frustrated male to seek out an escort opposed to killing himself, or somebody else, than I have done my job.

Look at George Sodini who shot up the gym and killed himself along with 3 women. He left a diary:

"I have slept alone for over 20 years. Last time I slept all night with a girlfriend it was 1982. Proof I am a total malfunction. Girls and women don’t even give me a second look ANYWHERE. There is something BLATANTLY wrong with me that NO goddam person will tell me what it is.

"Told by at least 100 girls/women over the years I was a “nice guy”. Not kidding."

No girlfriend since 1984, last Christmas with Pam was in 1983. Who knows why. I am not ugly or too weird. No sex since July 1990 either (I was 29). No shit! Over eighteen years ago. And did it maybe only 50-75 times in my life.

…I masturbate. Frequently."

http://exiledonline.com/revenge-of-the- ... ics-class/

You don't think George Sodini knew what a prostitute was? Bro, that was not about his access to prostitution. He wanted a woman to lay next to him at night. I am sure that he knew he could pay a woman to do that.

I feel truly sorry for you men who are so afraid that true love doesnt exist that you wouldnt even try to search for it (or rather let the Lord bring it to you and accept it when it is offered).

In the long run escorts service or paying for it will not be FULFILLING. It's like a bandage over a deep deep cut. A girl that freely choose to be with you is much more full filling

Unfortunately there is no such girl. If you want someone to have sex with you with no ulterior motive, you will have to bite the bullet and become a homosexual. The alternative is to accept females for what they are.

That's the saddest thing I have ever read. Perhaps NAGUY is right. If I felt that way, I'd rather off myself than become a homosexual. Are you considering going down that road? I can't imagine something more disgusting, except perhaps eating feces or drinking blood.

[jamesbond]

I can't imagine something more disgusting, except perhaps eating feces or drinking blood.

Or dating a woman who looked like this!

[Cornfed]

In the long run escorts service or paying for it will not be FULFILLING. It's like a bandage over a deep deep cut. A girl that freely choose to be with you is much more full filling

Unfortunately there is no such girl. If you want someone to have sex with you with no ulterior motive, you will have to bite the bullet and become a homosexual. The alternative is to accept females for what they are.

That's the saddest thing I have ever read. Perhaps NAGUY is right. If I felt that way, I'd rather off myself than become a homosexual. Are you considering going down that road?

No, I would rather accept females for what they are.

[jamesbond]

Men in America get blamed for everything. Of course, women can do no wrong in the USA according to feminists.

[Yohan]

Men in America get blamed for everything. Of course, women can do no wrong in the USA according to feminists

You cannot blame the feminists to take advantage of their situation. The problem is with men who accept the feminist idea that a woman cannot do anything wrong and are too scared to talk back even in cases of grave injustice.

In HappierAbroad, you will find members, who are so scared of feminism that they think the best is to remain silent, to pray to 'god'. They never care about men in general, but only about themselves. They try to move to overseas, to disappear but without saying a single word.