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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Fri Oct 23, 2015 5:16 pm

Adama wrote:Main problem I have with those kind is that it will bring a man to poverty unless he makes major bank.


Did you check the prices? The prices have dropped dramatically over the years. Now in America you could work at Burger King and still have enough money to hire a beautyfull escort off backpage.

Prices range from $50 to $150 which is between 15 min to an hour. If you want to spend the night or have her attend a function with you well that will cost more.

As far as poverty, i have an older friend who was once married and worth over 1 million due to real estate investments. Today he is broke living in an apartment paying child support and stuff related to it like lawyer bills.

His found his wife cheating and she then divorced him and took him to the cleaners. The courts forced him to sell his home and his rental properties. My friend said had he known what he knows now he would have never gotten married and would have just used escorts for his whole life.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Adama » Fri Oct 23, 2015 5:20 pm

MarcosZeitola wrote:Amazing new information in this thread: if you can't get laid, use escorts. A true life saver and eye opener for many members, I'm sure.


I guess the OP had some kind of mental block in place for much of his life preventing him from seeing that there are prost*tutes available for such things.

Yup, but just think of all the things a sex worker will not do for you. Will she let you do what you want to her, like a girlfriend or wife would? I think a GF or wife would allow a man to do many more things than a SW. SW generally want to keep some type of barrier in place, and they do not want to go anywhere near a man's emissions.

Then there's the fact that thousands of other men have backwashed into her, similar to sharing a bottle of coke with countless strangers who each left a piece of their own DNA in that bottle which you get to sip from and add your own. At least a toilet seat can be cleaned with bleach wipes. Even if you could use a strong solution to attempt to clean out a woman, you still could not kill everything.

The SW will also have the upperhand. With a GF or wife the man does have a large amount of power, because there isnt a line outside of more suckers waiting to come in. That gives the wife more incentive to please her husband and do what he asks.

Men often complain about the idea of child support, but at least child support is for the children, even though she can do with it what she wants. After the sex act is over with a SW, then that money is gone forever and doesnt benefit anyone. It also may impoverish the man because he is dealing with a slack hand. This stuff is addictive, and many men will not be able to control themselves once they go down this road, which can lead to poverty. You can not spend hours exploring a prostitutes body like you would your own woman's. It would be too expensive.

And part of me feels as if it is giving up, rather than winning. Conceding defeat because there is no hope of another way. A temporary crutch at most is all it should be, not the answer to life's questions.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Farmer308 » Fri Oct 23, 2015 5:50 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Farmer308 wrote:When I was in the army my old first sergeant used to tell us:
"Men! The cheapest way to get high quality p***y is to pay for it upfront. All you married guy who think they are getting it for free are fooling yourselves "


Funny, I had a conversation with two escorts one day and they both said most of their clients are married men.



Those poor SOB's. They have both the enormous expense of a wife AND have to pay for sex with pros. Like the worst of all worlds.
I am willing to bet that those guys would prefer not to use pros and would rather be faithful to their woves, if their wives would just behave like they should, that is like one man's total slut.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Adama » Fri Oct 23, 2015 6:10 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Adama wrote:Main problem I have with those kind is that it will bring a man to poverty unless he makes major bank.


Did you check the prices? The prices have dropped dramatically over the years. Now in America you could work at Burger King and still have enough money to hire a beautyfull escort off backpage.

Prices range from $50 to $150 which is between 15 min to an hour. If you want to spend the night or have her attend a function with you well that will cost more.

As far as poverty, i have an older friend who was once married and worth over 1 million due to real estate investments. Today he is broke living in an apartment paying child support and stuff related to it like lawyer bills.

His found his wife cheating and she then divorced him and took him to the cleaners. The courts forced him to sell his home and his rental properties. My friend said had he known what he knows now he would have never gotten married and would have just used escorts for his whole life.



That's an unfortunate set of circumstances. Nowhere in the Bible does God say that a man must sign a contract between the woman, himself and the state. Make a vow to God. Then you are married. But also, your wife should be a believer. Then as a daughter of God, He has more influence over her. If the woman isnt a child of God He may just let her do whatever she wants. Also, if your friend thinks prost*tutes are the same as a wife, that tells you how he really felt about marriage and women. A woman is more than just a sex machine.

Also keep in mind you have no idea how good your friend was in this life. You may never know what kind of sowing he did, similar to the concept of karma. If he had not been destroyed that way, he may have been destroyed another way, if he had it coming to him. (Not saying that he had it coming, just saying if he did, then he could not escape it.)

Also, take that $150 x 4 weeks a month. That is $600 x 12 months. That is over $7,200 a year on prostitutes. At least with your own woman, you can do it for hours without having to worry about getting kicked out of bed. That's if you have the discipline to do it for just one hour once a week. More than likely it will be more than once a week.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby droid » Fri Oct 23, 2015 6:31 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:His found his wife cheating and she then divorced him and took him to the cleaners. The courts forced him to sell his home and his rental properties.


That's absolute madness!!

Adama wrote:
NorthAmericanguy wrote:Did you check the prices? The prices have dropped dramatically over the years. Now in America you could work at Burger King and still have enough money to hire a beautyfull escort off backpage.
Prices range from $50 to $150 which is between 15 min to an hour. If you want to spend the night or have her attend a function with you well that will cost more.


Also, take that $150 x 4 weeks a month. That is $600 x 12 months. That is over $7,200 a year on prostitutes. At least with your own woman, you can do it for hours without having to worry about getting kicked out of bed. That's if you have the discipline to do it for just one hour once a week. More than likely it will be more than once a week.


With that kind of money you can hop on a plane to Bogota/Cali for an awesome long weekend banging 9s-10s for $15-$50, this while grabbing a few beers in a bar setting and chatting with the girls as you make up your mind. $100 gets you all nighters etc.
Mind you, most are not 9s-10's but you can see them up close as you decide haha, as opposed to all the subterfuge "escort" BS.

And of course, while you're at it, talk to regular girls as well. voila' HA.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby droid » Fri Oct 23, 2015 6:34 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:Have fun boys: http://www.backpage.com/

Ghost wrote:If you go abroad and use escorts, you probably won't be able to do it back home. Why? When I check out the offerings at home and abroad, the girls are younger, hotter, tighter in most countries. There's no way in Asia that an old, ugly, used up whore would get any business. Plenty of hot younger girls at the ready. So if you use them stateside whilst plotting your escape, just know that you might not be able to use them again if you go abroad and return. Your dick won't find them bangable anymore.


Makes sense. Plenty of really disgusting women on that 'backpage', how dare they attempt to charge money, ugh, oh wait, it's the chumpzone, where desperate males will bang anything that moves.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Farmer308 » Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:48 pm

$7,200/year is far, far cheaper than the annul cost if a wife and a tiny fraction if the wife starts poping out kids.
In theory the wife should service her husband whenever he wants, daily at last, but we know that never happens with American women.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Yohan » Fri Oct 23, 2015 7:58 pm

Adama wrote:Also, take that $150 x 4 weeks a month. That is $600 x 12 months. That is over $7,200 a year on prostitutes. At least with your own woman, you can do it for hours without having to worry about getting kicked out of bed.


Not so sure if this is true. A wife legally married is under no obligation to provide sex for the husband. She can totally refuse him - and even keep a boyfriend next door to her pleasure. Divorce is always non-fault anyway, and he will have to pay alimony over decades to her.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Adama » Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:04 pm

droid wrote:
With that kind of money you can hop on a plane to Bogota/Cali for an awesome long weekend banging 9s-10s for $15-$50, this while grabbing a few beers in a bar setting and chatting with the girls as you make up your mind. $100 gets you all nighters etc.
Mind you, most are not 9s-10's but you can see them up close as you decide haha, as opposed to all the subterfuge "escort" BS.

And of course, while you're at it, talk to regular girls as well. voila' HA.



That's the thing though. If you are going to go to Colombia, you should go to find a wife, which I think should be relatively not so hard. But instead, you and I both know the allure of those cheap SWs will be very great, and lust will completely take over, and finding a wife will take a back seat. Just something to be mindful of.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby yick » Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:15 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:Greetings gentleman,

I haven't posted here in a while, and the reason for that is because I have been having the time of my life meeting different beautiful women right here in America.

I'm just like everyone else in here in that I do feel that foreign women are superior women (and I have been overseas and have plans to make more trips overseas), but for us young guys it's just not possible to move overseas permanently unless you have a good job lined up over there or you are independently wealthy, because otherwise, you're stuck in America for months at a time all alone until you can escape again.



Says who?

That's not true.

I am neither wealthy nor had a 'good' job lined up.

I just arranged a bog standard English teaching job online, but it got me out of my hometown and to a life I was searching for.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby chanta76 » Fri Oct 23, 2015 8:36 pm

How is this different from guys that go on sex tourism overseas?

In the long run escorts service or paying for it will not be FULFILLING. It's like a bandage over a deep deep cut. A girl that freely choose to be with you is much more full filling but I get it ...for some guys it's very hard to get a decent girl.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Wolfeye » Fri Oct 23, 2015 9:12 pm

Not sure I'd go the hooker/exort route. I have a strong need to know what I'm dealing with & I don't think I'd get that with an escort. How do you avoid getting nailed by the cops, if it's not going to screw you to mention it? I've figured out a couple of angles, just when thinking about things- but I never got how they didn't just jump on whatever escort company was out there. Like if someone put up an add that said "Buy Crack From Me," I think that would be it.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Fri Oct 23, 2015 9:12 pm

MarcosZeitola wrote:I highly doubt this post will save any lives, but it will probably get a few girls through college and a few guys placated while slaving away their youth.


To clarify, what I mean by saving a life is if I can convince one frustrated male to seek out an escort opposed to killing himself, or somebody else, than I have done my job.

Look at George Sodini who shot up the gym and killed himself along with 3 women. He left a diary:
"I have slept alone for over 20 years. Last time I slept all night with a girlfriend it was 1982. Proof I am a total malfunction. Girls and women don’t even give me a second look ANYWHERE. There is something BLATANTLY wrong with me that NO goddam person will tell me what it is.

"Told by at least 100 girls/women over the years I was a “nice guy”. Not kidding."


No girlfriend since 1984, last Christmas with Pam was in 1983. Who knows why. I am not ugly or too weird. No sex since July 1990 either (I was 29). No shit! Over eighteen years ago. And did it maybe only 50-75 times in my life.

…I masturbate. Frequently."


http://exiledonline.com/revenge-of-the-nerd-what-the-media-wont-tell-you-about-the-rampage-killer-who-attacked-a-pittsburgh-aerobics-class/
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby NorthAmericanguy » Fri Oct 23, 2015 9:17 pm

yick wrote:
NorthAmericanguy wrote:Greetings gentleman,

I haven't posted here in a while, and the reason for that is because I have been having the time of my life meeting different beautiful women right here in America.

I'm just like everyone else in here in that I do feel that foreign women are superior women (and I have been overseas and have plans to make more trips overseas), but for us young guys it's just not possible to move overseas permanently unless you have a good job lined up over there or you are independently wealthy, because otherwise, you're stuck in America for months at a time all alone until you can escape again.



Says who?

That's not true.

I am neither wealthy nor had a 'good' job lined up.

I just arranged a bog standard English teaching job online, but it got me out of my hometown and to a life I was searching for.


Sure you can move overseas and find a job but the general consensus is that you can't make enough money from teaching English to be able to have fun with girls and live the high life.
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Re: This Post May Save a Life

Postby Cornfed » Fri Oct 23, 2015 9:25 pm

chanta76 wrote:In the long run escorts service or paying for it will not be FULFILLING. It's like a bandage over a deep deep cut. A girl that freely choose to be with you is much more full filling

Unfortunately there is no such girl. If you want someone to have sex with you with no ulterior motive, you will have to bite the bullet and become a homosexual. The alternative is to accept females for what they are.
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