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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby Zambales » September 9th, 2017, 12:30 am

I've been dating online on and off for over ten years and while most of the women I met were forgettable, I wouldn't describe them as weird - except for the last few I dated in my home country. That was the cue to look abroad.

But don't be fooled in thinking women who don't use dating sites aren't weird. I can assure you they can be even if they initially come across quite normal - but I do agree online dating is basically a waste of energy. Since I first used them in 2005 they certainly have declined.

There's only one real viable option left and that is to meet someone in the traditional manner - overseas. Either that or stay single.
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby xiongmao » September 20th, 2017, 5:05 pm

Yeah I've kind of quit FB as got weirded out by female "friends".

One keeps posting vegan stuff even though her strict diet has caused her major health problems and she had to quit her job (female logic).

One posts slutty photos and now has 2990 friends.

A family member ended their life. I think they were a high achiever and their good life went bad. That kind of sucks but I've been in this game for years, life has sucky periods at time but then it goes good again. You just gotta ride out the troughs.

One FB friend has actually died irl, but her FB is still active. I'm not sure the backstory but I think a man was involved.
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby fightforlove » September 25th, 2017, 3:27 pm

Started up on Tinder and Match.com last month, and definitely notice online dating in the USA has gone downhill since 2-3 years ago. I landed dates with girls a few years ago on Match who now ignore my messages. Women have become much less serious even on the traditional dating site platforms thanks to Tinder, Badoo, and other "swipe" apps installed on smart phones. I notice the younger millennial women currently in their mid 20s are particularly un-serious about it. After that, it's 30+ single mothers with attitudes looking for daddy ATM or maybe just to vent. The days when it was just EH/Match/POF and women would actually be compelled to go online and respond to a decent guy she found attractive are long gone. The market is oversaturated and the girls are just not serious about it.
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby Contrarian Expatriate » September 26th, 2017, 12:41 am

What men do not get is that attractive women do not use online dating sites to "date." They use those sites to get attention and continuously gauge her sexual market value.

This manifests itself in the offputting attitudes they exhibit to keep men back. On occasion, they might actually see a man online that interests them, but they will quickly lose interest when another comes along.

Women who are older, unattractive, or obese DO try to date from online interactions, but women with high SMV will toy with men like they are marionettes just for the joy and attention of it.

Bottom line, don't use online dating if you are male.
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » September 26th, 2017, 4:03 am

Zambales wrote:I've been dating online on and off for over ten years and while most of the women I met were forgettable, I wouldn't describe them as weird - except for the last few I dated in my home country. That was the cue to look abroad.

But don't be fooled in thinking women who don't use dating sites aren't weird. I can assure you they can be even if they initially come across quite normal - but I do agree online dating is basically a waste of energy. Since I first used them in 2005 they certainly have declined.

There's only one real viable option left and that is to meet someone in the traditional manner - overseas. Either that or stay single.

So I used to use MiGente when it first dropped in 2000; Y! ahoo Personals when it was around in 2000/2001; BlackPlanet when it launched in 1997 (sister site to MiGente and AsianAve dating sites - I got laid off of of both of them by Latinas and Asian heritaged chicks (they are still American and CAnadian chicks above all); chat.msn.com (MSN Chat) in 2000-2002, and MAN OH MAN I was getting laid easily!!!!!! That's how I got to Wilt-Chamberlain status. You Gen-Y dudes missed the boat on that one - when the Internet started to take off - in the late 90s early 00's (I've been online since '92 when VAX/VMS IRC was how I picked up chicks and they would try long distance to fck me).

We had KaZaa, Mopheus, LimeWire and Napster back then, too. Technology was fun-as-hell in the early 2000s.
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » September 26th, 2017, 4:12 am

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:What men do not get is that attractive women do not use online dating sites to "date." They use those sites to get attention and continuously gauge her sexual market value.

This manifests itself in the offputting attitudes they exhibit to keep men back. On occasion, they might actually see a man online that interests them, but they will quickly lose interest when another comes along.

Women who are older, unattractive, or obese DO try to date from online interactions, but women with high SMV will toy with men like they are marionettes just for the joy and attention of it.

Bottom line, don't use online dating if you are male.

As per Tinder especially. Tinder didn't start out so narcissistically; women rated 7's were giving me the time of day on there. Brazil Tinder changed so much so that I went from getting 8s 9's and 10s to now barely 2's and 3's when I was there. The decadence of Brazil online. #sigh Oh how the mighty hath fallen!
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Re: have you noticed that most women "online" are weird and

Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » September 26th, 2017, 4:16 am

fightforlove wrote:Started up on Tinder and Match.com last month, and definitely notice online dating in the USA has gone downhill since 2-3 years ago. I landed dates with girls a few years ago on Match who now ignore my messages. Women have become much less serious even on the traditional dating site platforms thanks to Tinder, Badoo, and other "swipe" apps installed on smart phones. I notice the younger millennial women currently in their mid 20s are particularly un-serious about it. After that, it's 30+ single mothers with attitudes looking for daddy ATM or maybe just to vent. The days when it was just EH/Match/POF and women would actually be compelled to go online and respond to a decent guy she found attractive are long gone. The market is oversaturated and the girls are just not serious about it.

Like I said, you missed the early 00's boat. Online dating was something for a life anew, and women let their guard down among other things. lol Before POF, Yahoo Personals and MSN Chat WERE its predecessors. I think there used to be AOL/AIM dating too ...oh yeah there was lmao!
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