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Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby drealm » Sat Dec 26, 2015 9:28 pm

A thought just occurred to me. Are attractive women really the biggest sluts?

My first thought was yes. Attractive women can be as slutty as they want since they have unlimited sexual capital. But then I had a second thought. Women aren't really promiscuous in nature. For example most women don't want threesomes with 2,3,4 guys in their bed at the same time. This is a purely male fantasy. What women really want is the best guy. They want to win a trophy that can show off to their friends. So if a woman is a slut, her promiscuity translates to a different form. Her promiscuity will be sequential - not simultaneous. Guys 2,3,4 still exist but she'll have a monogamous relationship with with each one.

Now in the case of a attractive woman she's going to get a looks matched guy. The only reason for her to ever dump a guy is if she can upgrade to someone with higher looks/money/status. Since she's at the top of her pyramid and dating someone similar, there's not a lot of upward mobility for serial monogamy. She's topped out her hypergamy.

But when it comes to ugly women I see a different story. The first thing is that ugly women don't start with the best guy. So the partner journey for upgrading hypergamy is pretty long. The second thing is they get lower quality men and lower quality men are less likely to commit. So over a long run an uglier women will have more partners at a higher turn over rate.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby Ghost » Sun Dec 27, 2015 6:28 am

Maybe in some countries that is true...

But generally, very attractive women don't suffer any/many consequences for being slutty because they are so desirable. There is always a better guy, even for third world hot girls. Very attractive women are never going to be virgins either. They may not be the biggest sluts, but they are still sluts.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby wanderlust » Mon Dec 28, 2015 6:48 am

For what it's worth, I've read in a few places that overweight women have more partners than average. Many commenters to those articles suggested that the reason was they had more trouble retaining partners.

Also I read in other places that attractive women are more likely to cheat, the mentality being that they are in demand and can afford to do what they want. There are all kinds of statistics on cheating compiled online; it gets constant coverage in lifestyle media.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby jamesbond » Mon Dec 28, 2015 8:58 am

wanderlust wrote:Also I read in other places that attractive women are more likely to cheat, the mentality being that they are in demand and can afford to do what they want.


This is because good looking women get hit on all the time, even if they are married, so this gives them more opportunity to cheat.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby Ghost » Mon Dec 28, 2015 10:37 am

Another thing to consider is that in countries such as China, the most attractive women are usually relegated to one of the following:

1. Prostitutes

2. Mistresses

3. Sugar babies

(If they aren't hookers, then they are stuck up as hell.) Ugly women in China are probably not very sexually active at all. Why bother with ugly women here when hot women are available as p4p? (And many pretty women are available to be wives.)

They aren't seen as wife material because they aren't. To me, hot women are hookers. Pretty women are wives. The question of whether ugly women or hot women are more slutty seems relevant mainly in the West. It's much more clear cut in many countries I think.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby Yohan » Mon Dec 28, 2015 1:54 pm

drealm wrote:Women aren't really promiscuous in nature. For example most women don't want threesomes with 2,3,4 guys in their bed at the same time. This is a purely male fantasy. What women really want is the best guy.


I don't think this statement is true with many European women, who have often multiple boyfriends and find it pretty normal to change their sex-partners all the time. Many are starting already as young as 13 and a woman around 30 y/o might have easily sex-experience with 100 men or more.

May I ask, what is the 'best guy' for such a woman? The boy with the best wallet if you ask me.

About ugly or beautiful Western women, I see no much difference in their behavior. If there is another boy showing up, offering slightly something more (whatever this 'slightly more' might be) she will cheat on her present boyfriend or plainly leave him in a couple of minutes.

Sorry, but out of my personal experience I can say only the worst about Western women.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby drealm » Mon Dec 28, 2015 7:22 pm

Yohan wrote:
drealm wrote:Women aren't really promiscuous in nature. For example most women don't want threesomes with 2,3,4 guys in their bed at the same time. This is a purely male fantasy. What women really want is the best guy.


I don't think this statement is true with many European women, who have often multiple boyfriends and find it pretty normal to change their sex-partners all the time. Many are starting already as young as 13 and a woman around 30 y/o might have easily sex-experience with 100 men or more.

May I ask, what is the 'best guy' for such a woman? The boy with the best wallet if you ask me.

About ugly or beautiful Western women, I see no much difference in their behavior. If there is another boy showing up, offering slightly something more (whatever this 'slightly more' might be) she will cheat on her present boyfriend or plainly leave him in a couple of minutes.


Are these women having threesomes and foursomes? As in one woman and 2 or 3 guys? Or are they having sex with one guy at a time (sequentially)? I know of no woman except porn stars who have sex with multiple men at the same time. If a woman leaves her boyfriend for an upgrade doesn't this reinforce my statement that women are promiscuous sequentially rather than simultaneously?
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby MrMan » Tue Dec 29, 2015 12:19 am

Ghost wrote:Maybe in some countries that is true...

But generally, very attractive women don't suffer any/many consequences for being slutty because they are so desirable. There is always a better guy, even for third world hot girls. Very attractive women are never going to be virgins either. They may not be the biggest sluts, but they are still sluts.


This isn't true, either. Not of all countries. Very pretty girls can certainly be virgins. Some people actually believe in staying virgin until marriage. If someone isn't a virgin, there is that first time they have sex. Whoever has sex with a woman the first time she did it had sex with a virgin. There has to be a first time for pretty girls, too. If they have good morals and don't get raped, that first time will be on the wedding night.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby fightforlove » Tue Dec 29, 2015 5:27 am

My experience is that highly attractive women are usually aware of their power and are pretty picky/exclusive. Practically none are virgins, however, they're also not the biggest sluts. They fall somewhere in the middle of the spectrum: they get a lot of attention however they're also particular about men, so their weekly routine involves blowing off a lot of dirtbags.

Nonetheless, they tend to grow into an entitlement attitude at an early age and are hard to get with unless you're the exact fine quality male specimen they're looking for. If you're ordinary looking or have an unconventional personality, you can forget about any hope of getting with them.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby Cornfed » Tue Dec 29, 2015 5:33 am

drealm wrote: Are these women having threesomes and foursomes?

It has been happening commonly with young females for the last few years. Even (or especially) with very attractive females. At least that has been what I have seen. Even a decade ago this would have been unthinkable. But there you go.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby Jonny Law » Wed Dec 30, 2015 12:00 am

Both American Attractive and Ugly women act like SHIT!

They both chase the lowest Shit of society. Just be a criminal or drug dealer. American Women will love you.

In general both Attractive and Ugly American chicks are worthless wife material. They are both sluts. From what I see the ugly ones act more Slutty.
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Re: Attractive Vs Ugly Women Partner #

Postby jamesbond » Thu Dec 31, 2015 5:27 pm

Jonny Law wrote:Both American Attractive and Ugly women act like SHIT!

They both chase the lowest Shit of society. Just be a criminal or drug dealer. American Women will love you.

In general both Attractive and Ugly American chicks are worthless wife material. They are both sluts. From what I see the ugly ones act more Slutty.

Even the ugly women in America have tons of guys asking them out. :shock:

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