Ghost wrote:Men and women are to be held to different sexual standards because they are different.
I clearly said that they are different, the double standard I am referring to here is automatically branding them as immoral sluts because of even a single affair. If you read all the posts here that seemed to be the general consensus, and I just haven't found the world to be quite so black and white when it comes to making judgements about people.
droid wrote:So it's about what's least bad for you, either whacking off alone into old age, or compromising and getting a girl who's had some (the least) guys before. Some guys would be ok with the former, i think i would prefer the latter.
One thing that hasn't been brought up in this thread is age. The OP was just talking about looks, but is there an age (ours) where we realistically lose this choice? Suppose you are 55 or 6o or 65 for example, is it realistic to be insisting on a virgin wife? How big of an age gap would you be willing to go with to achieve this? Hey I love those 18 year olds as much as anybody, at least physically, but at my age I'm not so sure about marrying one. Depending on the country involved, how low in the age range would you generally need to confine your search for a reasonable chance of success? For all of us who are older, and we are probably in the majority on a forum like this, the age gap issue really has to be taken into consideration in conjunction with this one. I guess the answers to this vary with the individual, but would be interesting to hear just the same.