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Valentine's Day is almost here so I thought I'd ask a some sort of romance related question with a poll. Leave replies if you want to give a more detailed answer but don't forgot to vote in the poll.
Would you perform cunnilingus on a girl that has been with other men?
You mean that she's JUST been with another guy? Hell no! In life, sure- although it might be a good idea to be a bit careful like that, since it seems somewhat more likely for a man to contract AIDS doing that.
No. It means previous partners. Not a girl that is immediately done having sex with another guy then goes to you.
The Poll is...
Option 1: Any girl that you have a sexual relationship with. Doesn't matter her sexual history.
Option 2: A girl that has been with at most 10 different guys in the past. This makes you number 11. (The typical number for most young women in most countries in the world)
Option 3: Only with a girl that is a virgin (or a girl that isn't because she's only been with you aka you took her virginity which still makes her your virgin girl since you got her when she was a virgin)
The realistic, honest answer is: you wouldn't know. She could be pure as the driven snow, or a complete and utter slut, and you simply wouldn't have a clue in many cases. When you are at the point of f***ing her, that means you kiss her. Kiss the mouth that kissed other men before, that swallowed their cum before. You are willing to stick your dick in her. So why not give her a little lick as well? Might as well.
Men have the seperate love and sex. It is said many women cannot seperate the two. You, Tsar, seem to be a man with a bit of a female-wired brain, causing you to have trouble keeping sex and love apart.
Sex can be had for a great number of reasons. In 99% of cases there is very little romantic or noble about it... it's just dirty, sweaty, pleasure. Nothing more to it.
When you go to a restaurant you have to stop thinking, especially a fast food joint. Sort of a suspension of disbelief.
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
You guys are funny.
Since Mel had only been with women, before me, does that mean that now, I'd gotten to bang other gals, by virtue of being with her?
If so, then you're right, I like being with a *hetero* virgin !
Seriously, there's more to life than this topic.
16 years ago, the Best Picture of 1999, "American Beauty", telegraphed the message of Happier Abroad to the world.
Beware of long term engagements with AWs, you may find yourself in a coffin.
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BTW, despite settling down with an AW, myself, the warning is still in effect.
What do you mean love and sex are separate for men, but not for women? Women have sex without being in love.
I think a man would have a good idea of what kind of girl he's with. That's the point of not doing anything with a girl until a man has her virginity confirmed and maybe has her take a polygraph to find out the truth of her history.
The only time a man wouldn't have a clue is if he doesn't ask, doesn't know the girl he's with, and maybe doing a short-fling or one-night stand. Or he's too foolish to want to know her past, thinking that not knowing will mean he doesn't get hurt which is completely false.
If I wanted to have sex with a hot whore or two in Europe, or even with random girls, I would only f**k them with a condom. I wouldn't kiss them and I wouldn't do anything else with them because in my opinion sluts and whores are only worth f***ing and a man's personal pleasure. He shouldn't want to pleasure them.
Remember Michael Douglas got throat cancer because he was performing cunnilingus on a lot of sluts. Just one of the many dangers of being with a slut (a girl that has been with other guys).