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Let's say you budget $16k/year for hookers. I know divorced guys who pay 2-3 times that just in alimony - ON TOP OF losing half their assets, child support, legal fees, all the money their wives blew during marriage etc.
A decent, middle-of-the-road hooker goes for $150-200/hr in my metro area, so you could get 80-100 quality sessions a year on that budget, and can change up the woman whenever you feel like it. Way better than marriage.
Although, IMO, the best strategy is to simply take a few trips to Central America or the Caribbean each year, go crazy, and then avoid hookers here in the US. Way too risky.
My attitude is that the best situation is to be in a good, properly physical relationship with an attractive, but sane, woman that treats her man right; this is an unambiguous good. Now when that is not the situation, the question becomes what parts of the equation are less sensitive to the overall score; these attributes can be lowered with a lesser effect on the overall score. Now as for myself, sex with an attractive woman is paramount, so if that means that I get such sex via the quid-pro-quo of prostitution as the only lowered attribute, so be it. Here I define attractiveness as a nearly binary variable - a woman is either desirable or not.'
That said, there is something to be said for a sexual relationship in which condoms do not have to be used, as barebacking is definitely preferable to wearing a raincoat. OTOH, oral barebacking has a much lower risk of disease than coital barebacking, and it can approach the sensory pleasure of such coital barebacking.
Now where this line of thinking can run into problems is if I'm with a woman for the long haul and she degrades as is expected. I guess it's similar to the situation of driving around a beater car; I wouldn't want to buy such a beater car, but if I'm the one that wore it down, I'm OK with it.
Oh, and as for *American* pros, the price level is so high that it is just ridiculous. That said, a more economical lap-dance-happy-ending from an American stripper could definitely be worth it.
I had a friend (a white guy) who used to stand in line on the side of the housing project building and get a blow job for $5 from fat black women. He said that they called him "the eraser" (i.e., because of his white protrusion).
I remember Winston getting a beaten up old whore in Cheropevyets, Russia. Perhaps he could comment on that.