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I was watching a TV show, Grandfathered, where the lead character played by Jon Stamos, met a female CEO and described her as 'hot' and started dating her.
http://www.contactmusic.com/pics/mc/law ... 603957.jpg
Do you guys think she is hot? I think she was chunkier than this on the show.
I don't think anyone on the TV show 'The Flash' has ever described Iris as 'hot' or 'beautiful', but usually the actress in such a role is attractive. But what about this one?
http://media.comicbook.com/uploads1/201 ... 136656.png
Yes, I think they are quite hot.
The first one is too chunky with an unappealing face. The second, her face just does nothing for me. To each his own.
It depends on your perspective, resonance (and how desperate you are). I used to listen to a radio show, and the host had a listener on and kept talking about how hot she was. They posted her photo on their website, and I just thought to myself, "What the heck are they talking about?" But for the host of the show, the woman was hot. To me, she was not so hot. It just depends on the man's perspective and whether or not there is some resonance there for him.
Ever notice how two people who most people might consider unattractive get together and are happy with their beauty? That's because to each of them the other is very good looking. Most other people might say they're unattractive, but those two people think the other is very appealing.
So it depends on perspective and resonance.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.
It's hard to tell as those photos are only of the face. That said, if I had to extrapolate based on the face, and based my beauty determination for the African-race female (I am European-race and generally only find white women as attractive, so I need to extrapolate from that as well), I would definitely say that she is hot, in either photo. Again, a full body photo would be worth a million words here.
Honestly, I'm not generally attracted to black women, but there are some women that seem pure African or sometimes mixed women I find attractive.
Here are a couple of mixed black women I found attractive, at least when the photos were taken. From Gotham,
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From Dr. Who several years ago
https://media.giphy.com/media/CmQ4zefMi ... book_s.jpg
Both are half black, half Pakistani. Maybe Pakistani mixes really well with black.
Here is an Ethipian I consider pretty, but not that 'black'.
http://beauty-around.com/images/sampled ... missie.jpg
A pretty African model:
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/23 ... f11c4b.jpg
Maybe this one:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-tOHqmV4sfeQ/U ... 0/6655.jpg
http://www.10360.com/Pictures/allimg/09 ... fume_6.jpg
I probably wouldn't have gone for this one when I was single because I'm more attracted to whites and Asians, but I'd say she's a very pretty black woman,
http://i2.wp.com/www.afrojuju.net/wp-co ... =537%2C640
(Btw, all this is evidence that I'm not racist, since I'm pre-programmed by society to prove that I'm not because I posted two pics of black women I found unattractive.)
Last edited by MrMan on May 14th, 2016, 3:02 am, edited 1 time in total.
As far as the two women in the OP go, the one from Grandfathered, I found here to be rather plain, maybe a 4 or less on rankings, kind of a stout build, an unattractive nose, etc. I don't see what's hot. I think all the photos I found of her looked better than she did on the show, IMO. Maybe she's photogenic for stills. But I wouldn't categorize her as attractive, much less 'hot' in my mind.
The girl from The Flash who plays Iris, for me, is just kind of plain. I don't find her nose attractive. Neither of them are overweight or deformed. But both seem rather plain to me. I was wondering why they didn't cast a better-looking lead.
But I just have a narrow range of looks that I find to be pretty and those in the middle didn't appeal to me that much. But I only needed one anyway, and she's enough. It's a good thing we are attracted to different types, or otherwise we'd be going after the same few women and most people wouldn't pair off. I think my wife is beautiful and probably most men do. She has gotten plenty of looks and interest. She generally informs me of it and she avoids men that show interest and doesn't friend strange men on facebook who frequently contact her (even if I am in the picture.) But I did have an American friend in Indonesia who wasn't attracted to her. He said he just wasn't attracted to local Indonesians. I wonder if racism from his Chinese wife had rubbed off on him. He said he wasn't attracted to darker women, but my wife was light skinned for an Indonesian, just a shade or two darker than Chinese women. But that's find. Variety is a good thing in this regard.