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Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby JohnDoeBigBaller » October 17th, 2016, 11:24 pm

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JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:My latest thoughts on this subject:

Getting normal women to have sex is a pain in the ass. All women have this "anti-slut" mentality in their own mind so none of them is going to be willing to just openly have sex with you. You can't just walk up to a woman and say "Hey let's f**k", that shit never works. With normal women, you have to waste time and money taking them to a bar or inviting them over to your house, etc, and after that, many if not MOST of them will want to have a relationship.

The whole "friends with benefits" thing is a f***ing myth. Women will always insist on some kind of relationship after a while. So you might be able to f**k them two ro three times before they get super clingy and demand an exclusive relationship and then you have to dump them.

So what if you want a constant, steady supply of easy sex? The ONLY way to get that is through prostitution. Because YOU get to choose WHEN you want to have sex. And you don't have to waste a bunch of time trying to seduce a woman either. You just go to the prostitute's house or invite her to your's, pay the money, f**k, and leave.

Once I consciously realized this, I realized how much time and mental energy I was wasting trying to get girls to have sex. Once I stopped this and cut off all contact with normal girls and just started exclusively having sex with prostitutes, I gained so much mental energy and I could focus on more important shit in life, like making money.

BY THE WAY: Did you guys enjoy all those girls pics I was posting? If so, I'll keep posting pics of the prostitutes I am f***ing.


That is a serious problem with the amateur harlot compared to the professional one. By amateur harlot I mean the normal woman, who expects payment in terms of a ring, a house, security and to be looked after for ever.

With most women, it is a matter of time until they want to 'talk about the relationship' ' where is this relationship going', ''do you love me' etc. I used to only have sex within relationships. so had to endure all this to get sex. And had to pay the price. Until I started the no strings sex. At first I would sleep with ate least 3-4 per year, and always had to end it because 'they want more'. I have lost track of how many I have pomped in my life, but I never paid up front for a professional.

I now have the hang of it, and my current pomp has been going on for over a year, and talk about 'the relationship' are rare. When they do come up, I just don't see her again for a while, and I duck it with some comment about I'm not going to go down the 'true love' road.

Simple rules i have learnt:

Do not seem them more than once every few weeks to avoid attachment, regularity, relationshit emotions that heifers get

Each time you see them make sure there is sex and that is not for comapnionship, which gets them thinking you need a partner

Stick your dick in their mouth, or their fanny (just don't come in there). Their mouth is also safer. It encourages this is just sex and no relationshit. Make sure they come as well, so it is mutual benefit, not like they are doing you a favour that you owe them something for

Don't take them out or to gatherings with friends, or let them meet your kids. That screams relationshit.

Don't ever let them sleep over. It encourages that nesting instinct. be wary when they say it would be so nice to wake up to this etc. Get out of bed and do something that ignores them

Text is OK everyday but only light hearted stuff that makes them laugh, and at least half must be sexual in nature. Never chat about personal problems at work, family etc. And no words of affection or that you really miss them.

Avoid using their name, and especially no pet name. My current one I have never used it, and she never uses mine.

Never accept or give personal gifts. Bring a bottle of wine or something. Sometimes she brings, which is good as it means we each put in to get sex.

Never tell them what you do or where you go,with who, or even where you work. If they ask keep it honest but like 3 words. Say as little as possible to discourage such talk.

No romantic dinners. Offer them snacks like biltong, meats and bread etc with a joke I need the protein

Make sure your house is very male, and no neglected feminine features that they feel you need a woman to help you make it a''home'. Tell them it is a home. a man's home. Mine is full of bike stuff, beer brewing stuff, quality but sparse furniture, military memorabilia, no art, min plants, a fully stocked bar, no decorative stuff, biltong hanging to dry, braai looks like used most days etc. Even the clock is like a bike rev counter :lol: When a woman walks in she must sense this is a man's home and he doesn't not want it redecorated. The woman''s cupboard in your bedroom, fill it with male stuff. Mine is full of camping stuff, old army kit etc. Give them the message there is not a space in this house for someone to 'move in' and sponge.

No pillow talk. Get up and say I will refill our glasses, I need to pee, smoke if you smoke, I need to change over the sprinklers, anything to get up and come back a few minutes to let that cuddle pillow talk BS pass.

Keep it business like. The don't like to be reminded of the terms under which you first started as women do not keep bargains. They will always expect more than they agreed on. So avoid letting ti go there. Once that talk starts, your pomps there are numbered.

Will I ever feel anything for a normal heifer again. I don't know. Never say never or it might come back to bite you. But certainly I have no desire to wander down that mine , IUD , and booby trap laden path, with always something about to explode in your face. As a man gains assets and spiritual peace, there is just too much to lose. I will only sacrifice and take risks for my kids. So you take the risk to have kids. After the heifer has dropped calves, you need not risk the future inhertance, education, well being of those kids on another heifer who is not their mother.


This kind of casual sex works in America, but for those of us living in foreign countries, the women are a lot more traditional and aren't willing to do that.

You mentioned you have 3 or 4 on rotation and so you invite them over once every few weeks. So that means you will only get sex once a week at best. Whereas with a prostitute, you can have sex as much as you want, as long as you got the money.

Also you mentioned making them cum, could you describe a bit more how you do that?

I've gained spiritual and mental peace, which has allowed me to focus on money and building assets, by simply avoiding normal women and ONLY going for prostitutes.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby nomadphilippines » October 18th, 2016, 8:43 am

odd to say that you think it is easier to get that kind of casual sex int he western world than in foreign countries.....

not sure anywhere in the world is easier for casual hook ups than phils/indonesia
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Devil Dog » October 18th, 2016, 1:07 pm

nomadphilippines wrote:odd to say that you think it is easier to get that kind of casual sex int he western world than in foreign countries.....

not sure anywhere in the world is easier for casual hook ups than phils/indonesia



Most HA types can't get laid in the west, therefore in the west casual sex is sluts hooking up with bad boys. When an HA member goes to PI and gets casual sex it is completely different, something which exists on a much higher plane. :roll:
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby JohnDoeBigBaller » October 19th, 2016, 3:18 am

True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Devil Dog » October 19th, 2016, 6:34 pm

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?


One could accurately say that in almost all cases we are paying one way or another.

Here's an intellectual exercise to find the answer to your question: Ask yourself whether PI would still be a p**** paradise if overnight everyone's income suddenly went up tenfold. My guess is that "casual sex" would be much more difficult to find, and would be out of reach for the typical HA member.

My previous post (two posts up) was tongue in cheek. The typical member here rationalizes situations to fit a worldview which is palatable to him. No success in the US means that men who have success are bad people, as are the women who service them. Because the typical HA type can get casual sex in PI, then the women are more virtuous there and the whole experience is beautiful and right. The first is a real life version of the fable of sour grapes. The second is simply the mind forcing a situation to conform to a desired ideal.

How many times have you read an HA member's account of finding a wonderful woman there and you can see with reasonable certainty that he is heading for disaster? He can't see that because he is "in love". Look at Winston's old posts when he met Dianne and fell straight into a completely predictable and common trap. An Winston brags that he is a gifted judge of character who can even judge a person from a photograph.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Blue Murder » October 19th, 2016, 8:21 pm

Devil Dog wrote:
JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?


One could accurately say that in almost all cases we are paying one way or another.

Here's an intellectual exercise to find the answer to your question: Ask yourself whether PI would still be a p**** paradise if overnight everyone's income suddenly went up tenfold. My guess is that "casual sex" would be much more difficult to find, and would be out of reach for the typical HA member.

My previous post (two posts up) was tongue in cheek. The typical member here rationalizes situations to fit a worldview which is palatable to him. No success in the US means that men who have success are bad people, as are the women who service them. Because the typical HA type can get casual sex in PI, then the women are more virtuous there and the whole experience is beautiful and right. The first is a real life version of the fable of sour grapes. The second is simply the mind forcing a situation to conform to a desired ideal.

How many times have you read an HA member's account of finding a wonderful woman there and you can see with reasonable certainty that he is heading for disaster? He can't see that because he is "in love". Look at Winston's old posts when he met Dianne and fell straight into a completely predictable and common trap. An Winston brags that he is a gifted judge of character who can even judge a person from a photograph.

Sad that, as of recent, a lot of logic bombs are coming from the site's intellectually-challenged feminine cohort (which Devil Dog is a part of). At this point, the dialogue is akin to beating a dead horse. A place is only perfect when the loser in question is getting play. We've seen it with Winston, Rock, Ghost, and a handful of others. I forgot who it was that said it, but you can't always get the full monty. You have to give to get. Balance, and all that.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby JohnDoeBigBaller » October 19th, 2016, 10:55 pm

Devil Dog wrote:
JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?


One could accurately say that in almost all cases we are paying one way or another.

Here's an intellectual exercise to find the answer to your question: Ask yourself whether PI would still be a p**** paradise if overnight everyone's income suddenly went up tenfold. My guess is that "casual sex" would be much more difficult to find, and would be out of reach for the typical HA member.

My previous post (two posts up) was tongue in cheek. The typical member here rationalizes situations to fit a worldview which is palatable to him. No success in the US means that men who have success are bad people, as are the women who service them. Because the typical HA type can get casual sex in PI, then the women are more virtuous there and the whole experience is beautiful and right. The first is a real life version of the fable of sour grapes. The second is simply the mind forcing a situation to conform to a desired ideal.

How many times have you read an HA member's account of finding a wonderful woman there and you can see with reasonable certainty that he is heading for disaster? He can't see that because he is "in love". Look at Winston's old posts when he met Dianne and fell straight into a completely predictable and common trap. An Winston brags that he is a gifted judge of character who can even judge a person from a photograph.


Dude f**k off with that mangina rhetoric. "Guys who can't get girls in America are just bitter".

Have you even been outside of America before? Cause you sound like a guy who has never left America. When you see the huge difference between western women and Asian women, you will realize then the truth.

American women are like some crappy McDonalds hamburger being sold for 20 dollars a burger. Foreign women are like a fine sirlion steak being sold for only 5 dollars.

With foreign women you get MUCH more value for your money.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Devil Dog » October 19th, 2016, 10:57 pm

Blue Murder wrote:
Devil Dog wrote:
JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?


One could accurately say that in almost all cases we are paying one way or another.

Here's an intellectual exercise to find the answer to your question: Ask yourself whether PI would still be a p**** paradise if overnight everyone's income suddenly went up tenfold. My guess is that "casual sex" would be much more difficult to find, and would be out of reach for the typical HA member.

My previous post (two posts up) was tongue in cheek. The typical member here rationalizes situations to fit a worldview which is palatable to him. No success in the US means that men who have success are bad people, as are the women who service them. Because the typical HA type can get casual sex in PI, then the women are more virtuous there and the whole experience is beautiful and right. The first is a real life version of the fable of sour grapes. The second is simply the mind forcing a situation to conform to a desired ideal.

How many times have you read an HA member's account of finding a wonderful woman there and you can see with reasonable certainty that he is heading for disaster? He can't see that because he is "in love". Look at Winston's old posts when he met Dianne and fell straight into a completely predictable and common trap. An Winston brags that he is a gifted judge of character who can even judge a person from a photograph.

Sad that, as of recent, a lot of logic bombs are coming from the site's intellectually-challenged feminine cohort (which Devil Dog is a part of). At this point, the dialogue is akin to beating a dead horse. A place is only perfect when the loser in question is getting play. We've seen it with Winston, Rock, Ghost, and a handful of others. I forgot who it was that said it, but you can't always get the full monty. You have to give to get. Balance, and all that.


lol at me being feminine. The funny thing is that you can't see the irony in your response.

Ad hominem argument - feminine tactic
No logical response - feminine tactic

Indeed, it seems that the prevailing philosophy of HA is complaining about how things are (feminine trait again) instead of the masculine approach, which is prevailing in a situation through effort and self-improvement. I say 'prevailing' because it is not everyone here. There are several who are out there walking the walk.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Blue Murder » October 19th, 2016, 11:24 pm

Devil Dog wrote:lol at me being feminine. The funny thing is that you can't see the irony in your response.

Ad hominem argument - feminine tactic
No logical response - feminine tactic

Indeed, it seems that the prevailing philosophy of HA is complaining about how things are (feminine trait again) instead of the masculine approach, which is prevailing in a situation through effort and self-improvement. I say 'prevailing' because it is not everyone here. There are several who are out there walking the walk.

I do laugh at you being feminine. If your name is any indication, I'm not surprised. If I could be a washed-up husk of a "man" (and I do use the term loosely) whose only cling to any sense of purpose is a corrupt and psychotic organisation with good Hollywood PR and nothing else that acts like even their excrement is worthy of being posted in a museum exhibit, I'd be pretty butthurt too. Or maybe I'd just show up at odd times and make nonsensical one-liners that have nothing to do with the topic at all (which, again, you're guilty of).

Yes, there are men out there walking the walk. You are far from one of them. Don't even bother using "self-improvement" in any sentence you design, as you don't understand the basic tenets of such, let alone the overall philosophy and how it relates to this thread.

Figures. Give a guy an inch and he takes a mile...

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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Cornfed » October 19th, 2016, 11:33 pm

Devil Dog wrote:Indeed, it seems that the prevailing philosophy of HA is complaining about how things are (feminine trait again) instead of the masculine approach, which is prevailing in a situation through effort and self-improvement.

Not a bad outlook from the point of view of Hillary and the other criminals in charge. Everyone just passively absorbs their crimes, blames themselves and busies themselves with "self-improvement" instead of actually defending themselves. Still, it is understandable that a generation that has had everything handed to them would have this feminine mentality.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Devil Dog » October 20th, 2016, 12:55 am

Now you've done it. You two have hurt my feelings.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby JohnDoeBigBaller » October 20th, 2016, 1:30 am

Devil Dog wrote:Now you've done it. You two have hurt my feelings.


stop acting like a f***ing white knight mangina and the guys will stop attacking you. If you want to spew feminist rhetoric, then go join some other board.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby retiredfrank » October 20th, 2016, 1:35 am

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:
Devil Dog wrote:Now you've done it. You two have hurt my feelings.


stop acting like a f***ing white knight mangina and the guys will stop attacking you. If you want to spew feminist rhetoric, then go join some other board.


He isn't polluting the forum with junk, just with ideas you disagree with. He is welcome to stay as far as I'm concerned.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Blue Murder » October 20th, 2016, 1:42 am

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:
Devil Dog wrote:Now you've done it. You two have hurt my feelings.


stop acting like a f***ing white knight mangina and the guys will stop attacking you. If you want to spew feminist rhetoric, then go join some other board.

It's not that so much as it is his feminine butthurt ego-driven nonsense.
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Re: Are Prostitutes Better Than Normal Women?

Postby Devil Dog » October 20th, 2016, 4:36 am

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:
Devil Dog wrote:
JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:True, but is there really much different between paid sex and casual sex in Southeast Asia?


One could accurately say that in almost all cases we are paying one way or another.

Here's an intellectual exercise to find the answer to your question: Ask yourself whether PI would still be a p**** paradise if overnight everyone's income suddenly went up tenfold. My guess is that "casual sex" would be much more difficult to find, and would be out of reach for the typical HA member.

My previous post (two posts up) was tongue in cheek. The typical member here rationalizes situations to fit a worldview which is palatable to him. No success in the US means that men who have success are bad people, as are the women who service them. Because the typical HA type can get casual sex in PI, then the women are more virtuous there and the whole experience is beautiful and right. The first is a real life version of the fable of sour grapes. The second is simply the mind forcing a situation to conform to a desired ideal.

How many times have you read an HA member's account of finding a wonderful woman there and you can see with reasonable certainty that he is heading for disaster? He can't see that because he is "in love". Look at Winston's old posts when he met Dianne and fell straight into a completely predictable and common trap. An Winston brags that he is a gifted judge of character who can even judge a person from a photograph.



Have you even been outside of America before? Cause you sound like a guy who has never left America. When you see the huge difference between western women and Asian women, you will realize then the truth.



I haven't been outside America since I returned from Hanoi in late July. I rode my motorcycle around Vietnam, Laos and Cambodia for 12 weeks. I'm going to have to get a new passport before this one expires because I will run out of blank pages and the State Department doesn't add pages any more like they used to.

So no, I haven't traveled much. Will you tell me some stories about how it is in Asia?
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